Why do guys love anal so much?

So whenever I'm having sex with my boyfriend he always wants to do anal. And he loves it so much. Why do guys love anal so much? Is it because they feel dominant and in control? Like it makes them feel powerful or what?
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  • I don't like anal at all and I will never do it. It seems really off and unnatural to me, not to mention disgusting at the idea of putting my body part inside something made to exit human byproducts one way. Also, it seems to me that it would be painful for the woman as well as unhealthy for both since some of the most dangerous bacteria known to human beings exists within the large intestine. And sex shouldn't require "prep work" since its a natural thing that two people do on the fly when there is intense feelings of love and emotion.

    If I'm having sex, it will be with a female only. Why? Because she has the counterpart to me physically. Her body is designed to take inside her vagina my penis. Both of our parts are also designed to stimulate the other simultaneously. Her vagina gets wet in order to make it slippery for my penis to relentlessly move in and out. This is by design. There isn't a mistake made here. Nature got it right and its beautiful. Why try to change things or make the body do something for which it isn't designed? If a guy wants anal, why not just be with another man because everyone has an anus but only women have a vagina. I think a woman's body is beautiful and should be interfaced with naturally. Nothing is more beautiful.

    • Give this man MHO 🙌👍 You said everything i ever thought about anal

    • @DizzyDesii Thank you :) I seem to be one of the few looked upon as "vanilla" judgmental, or boring on here when I give my thoughts regarding this topic lol, so I appreciate your vote of approval.

    • Lol yep i get labeled the same

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  • That's part of it. For me it's about three things. Most importantly is the factor you identified: it's extremely dominant. Don't you agree that it's really hard to debate who's in control when he's reaming your tight little rectum with his big, hard cock. Sorry to be so graphic. It's for effect.

    The second factor is that it feels so damn good, esp when she decides it's time for him to cum and just clamps down on that big cock, threatening to squeeze that puppy smooth off. Also I love the resistance of her sphincters when I "pop" her.

    Lastly has to do with my sadistic streak when it comes to sex. I very dominant and into some moderate pain play like spanking. The fact the getting that big boy in there and reaming her hurts her is a huge turn on to me. I'm not talking terrible pain. My ladies likes that it hurt.

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  • Because it's different. It's a different sensation. Just like oral and vaginal feel different. Plus it's more tight and a taboo thing

  • Sometimes i wonder if its cause theyre gay. Anal to me just makes me think he wishes i were some twink bending over for him.

    • Wow. Seriously how did u even come 2 that point

    • @kittycat119 booties werent meant to fuck. Just shit. Vaginas have eggs for a reason. Dicks have sperm for a reason. Its how we procreate. Booties are just cum buckets apparently and a good way to make someones hemorrhoids come down

    • Wow someone must be angry her dude wanted butt stuff

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  • Not all guys love it, but the ones who do usually like it because it is most often tighter and you don't have the repercussions of a potential pregnancy.

  • Possibly because it's the hardest common position to convince women to do.

  • Cuz we can bust inside without worrying about a future y'all running around the house, also its tighter most of the time

  • Anal is a 'trick' that men who like it want to master. It's sort of like if you were really good at figure skating or something, but then suddenly discovered that you could also fly. Of course you would want to integrate your power of flight into your figure skating routines. But to those who observe it, there might come a point when they no longer consider it skating.

    That's the danger. To (most) women, anal sex isn't even really sex. But to men who like sex (pretty much all men) and have also discovered the 'trick' of a girl's butthole being strangely accommodating to a cock, the line is very blurry indeed. It's difficult for us not to go overboard and find a balance such that it's still considered sex to the girls we have anal with. This difficulty is further compounded by the fact that most girls don't even want to like it.

  • Why do guys like porn so much? This anal thing is just a way to degrade women regardless of all the positive excuses.

    • I agree. It's degrading

  • I honestly have no clue what the appeal is in anal. I tried it and definitely don't find it to be a better alternative to vaginal intercourse. I can't get past the fact that it's the body's garbage chute.

  • I think there's also an aspect of intimacy to it. You're exploring and entering probably the most private part of her body and accepting and celebrating everything about her body. But it has to be done right, and slowly, and with lots of lube, and the girl has to be in control or it will be a fail.

  • It's because we have prostates, and giving them a good pounding through our butt's can feel really goo... Oh, that's not what you meant.
    Uhm... I think it's mostly the feeling that it's a bit more special, à bit tighter and the muscles in there can sometimes squeeze and pull at the penis, kinda like your ass is milking it.

  • I like it for the dominance and the increased sensation, plus it feels naughty and taboo. My wife actually has stronger orgasms and is super into it/requests it. I think anal with a stranger is stupid, but with a committed partner it involves a lot of communication and can be mindblowing if done right.

  • Because it's kind of taboo and because it actually feels awesome. There's a much larger sense of trust with it because not everyone wants to do it. Also if you have a nice ass it's pretty amazing.

    Some guys like it because they are insecure and they need to feel more dominate and in control and other guys just like it because of the trust aspect and because of the physical feeling.

  • I like anal. I like it a lot. So feelings of domination m ay be part of th e attraction but if it is its secondary. It seems very intimate to me and although I've read some comments on GAG that some girls just like it and they want it from anyone. I get the feeling that your girl is doing something special even though she loves it as well. I'm very visual so like get off on seeing my cock go inside and how she spreads. I absolutly loved to see her ass bounce and shake. Only thing better is if she ask me to cum inside and talk dirty.

  • I like it because it can be a far more intimate experience. It's like the girl is trusting you more by letting you in up the butt. On top of you know it's tighter. Plus the whole taboo nature of it.

  • Not me. I think it is kinda disgusting. Next time he want to do that take a dump on his dick.

  • Yeah, I'd say dominance is a part of it. And also, butts are a lot more aesthetically pleasing than a vagina so it's visually stimulating as well.

  • Anal sex is the best. Licking is the best.

  • Wow, where to start? First of all, guys like to feel dominant and a woman willing to take you anally is a serious dominant ego boost. Second, the physical sensation is intense. A woman's ass is much tighter than her vagina (in most cases) and that tightness provides more stimulation. Anal also feels much different than vaginal sex for a guy. A woman's vagina stimulates a guys penis pretty equally over its entire length. A woman's ass feels different. There is less stimulation over the guy's entire penis, but the woman's sphincter (the part that can be painful to get past) maintains a tighter grip around the penis and feels like a tight, smooth band sliding up and down the guy's penis as he goes in and out. The combination of simultaneous mental and physical stimulation is intense. Anyway, that's what I like about anal!

  • I like it as its such an intimate thing. The girl needs to trust a man to do that to her. I find it amazing with my wife, but then I also love her ass in general.

  • Cuz its your booty hole why wouldn't it be a turn on?

  • Nope sorry hate even just the thoughts of giving anal. That is why God give woman a vigina to fuck

  • It's new / different

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