Why Do Guys Love Oral Sex So Much?

[missbj]

I just finished a relationship with a guy. We didn't break up over this issue. It was because he wanted to move but I didn't.

All this guy cared about was getting oral sex. We only had intercourse twice. The only thing he wanted to do was to get his cock into my mouth. It was probably because of porn but he was just obsessed with it.

He loved to have his balls licked. I would lay down and he would position himself over me so that I could lick his balls. Sometimes he would have intercourse in my mouth with me laying down instead of him laying down and me sucking.

He would hold me by the back of my head and rub my face in his crotch. For about ten minutes he would just rub my face in his crotch and then want his balls licked before putting his cock in my mouth. I had the permanent taste of cum in my mouth.

He didn't always cum in my mouth. When he was having intercourse with my mouth sometimes I got it in the face.

Why do guys love this so much? I just felt like my mouth was meant to be his com receptacle.

Just call me Miss Blowjob

[PositiveFlight]

It was truly sad to read your question. When given an option to put my penis in a woman’s vagina or mouth, I’d pick vagina everytime. The mouths are meant to go together so we can see each other and look into each other’s eyes. The penis and vagina go together.

I honestly can’t give you an answer on why so many guys like oral over real sex. They say it’s because of the tongue. I’ve had oral before and I can say with certainty that it doesn’t even come close to making me ejaculate like the feeling of being inside such a soft, warm, wet, slippery, surrounding, and loving environment. The vagina is perfectly made to stimulate the penis. It’s literally electric for me. I could stay inside indefinitely if it were possible. I will literally slow down and edge to stay inside longer because I don’t want to cum too soon and have it end. I will penetrate for over a half hour to hour each time. Even if switching positions, I can’t stand pulling out for even a few seconds. I’ll stay in and try to change positions positions. If I pull it out, it’s for the feeling of putting it back inside immediately in order to simulate the magic of first penetration when beginning sex each time.

This is why I’ve never understood this anal and oral obsession so many have. I’m so naturally driven. Nothing could ever even come close to taking the place of natural intercourse. Honestly no other form of sex is even tempting. Aside from touching each other’s genitals and some manual stimulation (which is arousing and relaxing in preparation for a good amount of time during foreplay) it’s clearly penis in vagina for me.

I’m totally fine and love to give oral to a girl if she needs the extra stimulation. But still, I would rather take my time, be patient, and use my penis to cause a woman to have climax by learning her body and what does it for her. Women are meant to have climax from penetration and stimulation of various areas of the clitoris, both inside and outside naturally.

[Mr1derful]

I love oral as well. I love eating a girl out and I love getting bjs. For me it’s just another level of intimacy in a relation. It’s personal and it’s very meaningful and special. It also feels so amazing and much different than intercourse, both in wonderful ways, but just different. I love a balance of both. Most often times a bj or oral in general is a means of foreplay before intercourse. But sometimes a bj is just something nice and surprising when a girl pulls down my pants and blows me to orgasm as a nice treat. But given the choice if I could only have one with someone, I’m taking her vagina and intercourse any day!! I’d rather be buried deep inside her! It sounds to me that he just wanted you to suck him off and call it a day. He sounds selfish and a pig. He sounds very demeaning too and didn’t value you! Not every guy is like that. Maybe he’s afraid of pregnancy and an easy out is suck him off and he’s good? Who knows! Find yourself a good man who will love you and treat you right and put your needs first! He sounds like he was never that in to you or meant anything to him? Just my thoughts!

[Anonymous]

I think it’s a tremendous ego boost for guys when a woman services him with her mouth. It’s a reinforcement of sexual dominance.

[God_of_Thunder]

I'm one of those weird guys that doesn't really enjoy blowjobs, but most men think it feels great.

Given the opportunity, I would much rather just have sex, or go down on her. Nothing feels better than being deep inside a tight, wet vagina, so I don't understand why anyone would choose a blowjob over sex. 🤷‍♂️

[PositiveFlight]

Same, I’m the odd one out on this site. It’s penis in vagina for me. Nothing else even comes close to the magic and joy of real intercourse as we are designed.

[Reece12345]

Oral sex is so good. It feels great.

[SnowedIn]

I think your asking a great question but I also think your question doesn't actually apply to the specific guy you're talking about.

The guy you talk about sounds like he's got a kink on oral sex. Or some extreme oral sex. Not bad, just less than common.

For your general question, because it feels out of this world amazing and because there's a primal mental connection with the amount of trust a girl has to go down on a guy and how intimate it is with her mouth around our parts.

[Looksnicholas]

I don't love oral sex. I'm too high-strung (full of myself) for that haha. Germs yo, germs, and because I also probably would only be attracted to someone who also only prefers boring vanilla sex as I would only prefer anything but oral, anal, toys. Just boring old vanilla sex with condoms, no toys, no anal's, and no oral's. Neither giving nor receiving, ah-ha ha ha. Lol.✌🏻☮️ Peace all and thanks for respecting my answer.

[Summeroflove]

Those men are just using you. But okay. Seems like you enjoy degrading and humiliating yourself

[ManOnFire]

Because it's so gritty and lewd and intimate😈. But for me I like to eat pussy more than get my dick sucked. It's the dominance thing for me. But I do still enjoyed getting gobbled up.

[Dargil]

The sensations of a skilled blow job are stronger than PIV.

[Anno2]

It makes you shut your mouth for 10 min, that's why we love it.

[bowenw]

It feels amazing.

[FunkyMonkee]

I don't know, I just love to lick pussy! Maybe it's because I know how to make a girl cum pretty quickly so, my goal is to MAKE her cum!

[tfan1]

A woman’s mouth has more suction and can stimulate the penis more than her vagina. Remember there isn’t a tongue in your vagina 😉

[IchthyoHuntr]

Eeeew. No thanks, not my thing.

[JPresidente]

Well it’s like this, sex can be 10 out 10 and the next best thing is a BJ at 9 out of 10 or more if she’s a pro. Who wouldn’t want to experience that on a regular basis?

[Sparkie460]

I like blow job's but I would rather have intercourse. Intercourse is a lot more fun for me

[Iron_Man]

Because it’s special

[Stevefiveo]

You must be really good. I love Bjs too but I also love pussy and making a girl cum too.

[BJP21]

Sounds like he's living out his sex fantasy. Oral to me is a warm up and part of foreplay. To us guys it does feel really good and why we do like it a lot.

[Twalli]

It feels good, but I haven't cummed from. my girlfriend's blowjobs and I prefer cumming from sex

[Pudsmucker]

Maybe he just doesn't want to responsibility of having a child. Blowjobs is good form of birth control.

[Guardian45]

Hi Miss BJ! He probably wanted that with you, because you did it so well! Don't you enjoy giving and receiving oral? Or do you prefer penetration?