It seems that choosing to wait for the right people to have sex is a turn off for most guys.
Guys, how much sexual experience would you want your long term partner/wife have?
Why do guys prefer girls with experience over inexperienced girls?
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4 40Not too much experience maybe, but if she’s been in relationships before at least she should know the basics.
unless they didn’t communicate at all..
Its easier than trying to teach her.
I'd like her to have enough experience that she knows what she likes, but little enough that she doesn't have a reputation, if you know what I mean.
Simples...
It's not a turn off to me. To find a girl who trusts me more than any other guy is a huge ego boost. At the same time I don't expect a virgin
I think most guys don't care about experience so I'm not sure about the validity of your question.
I literally put a poll there
And it's pretty even overall.
Cause we're better in bed, duh.
I think it would be more enjoyable to teach or help someone grow with you. Then again I've never gotten to. Maybe it's not so good? Hard ta say
Who said they do? I think men like virgin women more.
The poll
Polls distort the truth sometimes. People say things they are not actually doing.
no i don't think it's like that
every guy wants to be the first and last of the girl he loves
look at the poll, man
I specifically said long term partner to make sure they think about a girl they love. I thought guys didn't care much about as long as they loved their woman and as long as she isn't a total prostitute.
i don't know i my country guys don't generally like promiscuous women at least for long term. But that's just cultural difference i guess
There are guys who like women with little or no experience with sex.
but most voted that they want women with experience... like it is a handicap if she didn't let anyone get inside her...
They are usually guys who are hoping for easy sex. Plenty of guys would be excited to be with a woman who is a virgin or little sexual experience.
I would have no problem with it.
I mentioned long term partner/wife, not 1 night stand in the question. Just take a look
Sorry I missed that part.
And I didn't expect men to care about her experience, virgin or not. I thought guys didn't care much as long as she didn't do it with too many people.
There are guys who do & guys who don't.
I don't, I prefer inexperienced
I always dated and then married older women. Usually about ten years older. So naturally they all had more experience then me. Honestly I never really cared about there past I was more into looking for our future.
i don't mind either,
It’s not essential for me
The church I think has promoted the waiting game. I have no desire in being with a virgin.
I think that's generally wrong. I don't know for certain, but most men probably look for sexually inexpirienced women. Inexpirienced women just usually are the less active, shy type, so they are harder to come by, convince. It takes more effort and patience.
just look at that poll..
so there are 18 guys who want one with at least less expirience and 9 who want her to have a good amount of expirience, and you mean to tell me most men wouldn't want an inexpirienced girlfriend? (not to say that 27ppl isn't exactly much for a general statement)
The middle options are rather neutral do that doesn't count
It is actually 11 for little experience to none and 10 for experienced
1: Possibly easier to get sex from (Accuracy be what it is regardless), likely deriving from an underlying fear of rejection.
2: Less worry about dealing with overattachment stemming from perceived importance of being someones "first", as some women see it as more emotionally significant than others.
3: Bad sex. Less likely to just lay there and let him do pretty much all the moving. Yeah no, don't call me I'll call you.
4: Straightforwardness- Knowing she's DTF and doesn't beat around the bush. Blunt can be hot.
Just as long as she's not a virgin.
i don't?
I'd rather have a virgin, because she's less likely to have
1. std's
2. kids
3. legal trouble
4. current boyfriend (cheating)
Good question!
I'm a 26 year old virgin and I'm pretty sure that guys find that very unappealing
I think it would only be unappealing to people looking to use someone for just sex.