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Why do guys push girls' heads up and down on their dicks while they're getting head? Is it to guide the pace?

Should I think this is demeaning? Are they just really into it and giving nonverbal cues?
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I didn't really know what to make of it when he started basically fucking himself with my mouth. It was his first bj and I'd never had a guy do that with my head before. If it's just that he was super into it, that's fine. I know he enjoyed it. He complimented my tongue technique! What's the dominance aspect of it?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I hate guys who do that. Don't touch my head, and if you do it better only be to play with my hair. If you even dare push my head down I will bite, and don't pet me on the head like a puppy, I'm not a dog. I love giving my guy oral, but I hated when he'd do those things, but he learned fast that if he did he'd get punished. Now we both enjoy that I can deep throat him and give an amazing blow job with him only moving his hips closer to me and saying what he wants

    • Lmao

    • I'm serious it pisses me off, if u push my head down and I gag I get mad. Ok I can blow a guy just fine without him doing that. It ruins it for me

    • Smart girl...

  • It's kind of like when they're giving us oral sex you kind of try and guide him towards the right direction by maybe moving his head or letting him know that it feels good when he goes towards a certain spot, I think that's why also when you speed up the pace they tend to get more grabby since it feels so good

  • I don't think it's demeaning, it means he's into it. I personally like it most of the time.

Most Helpful Guys

  • It's because he's into it. Personally, I do it because just lying there letting a girl suck my cock seems... selfish: like I'm not participating. Unless it's a 69, that's really all I really can do. But it is also true that it serves as 'guiding' her towards being more aggressive.

    I would only want her to think of it as demeaning if she likes being demeaned.

  • Nah, it's a dominance thing. It makes us feel desired and wanted, like a woman will do anything to please us sexually.

    It isn't degrading.

    • Can you explain the dominance thing? Like you want to be in charge?

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • 'Cause it's fun!

  • It isn't supposed to be demeaning. Sex is supposed to be about the mutual pleasure of all parties involved. When I have done it, it is just to let her know what sort of rhythm I want at that time. I try and tell her out loud, but sometimes a little help in that area doesn't hurt.

  • So they can basically fuck your mouth

  • It's for the same reason guys thrust into you instead of letting you do it. They want to control the pace and depth of penetration.

  • It means he is enjoying it..

  • Can't speak for every man, but personally it's a dominance thing.

    • Can you explain how you mean that?

  • I might put my hands on her head but I probably wouldn't push her head down

  • Guys like to guide the pace and how deep they want u to go down, which is usually as far as you can go. It's not demeaning, just getting into it.

  • The feeling of control I suppose.

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