Have you talked with them about your insecurity on being on top? Everyone has or has had positions that they were uncomfortable with, either because they were new positions or they became aware of parts of their body in that position. Talking with your partner is the best way to avoid such surprises.
Sex is for 2 people, Men expect us to put effort too. I usually don't like to be on top as well. If his penis is long or thick enough it's enjoyable but if it's not, so hard to ride. Also meanwhile you have to pretend like you're enjoying. So it's mostly torture. I can suggest you to put effort for him and take the control in other ways. (Like blowjob, sucking his balls etc.)
Yeah I know there’s other ways to please him I just hope they don’t think I’m being lazy or selfish it’s not the case it’s just I feel awkward
Also it was a guy I had just met that weekend not a long term partner
They mostly probably think us being lazy. We basically don't give a heck. Most of women do their best to keep the guy with great sex. Depends on mindset
What? This is my most fave position coz it makes my eyes roll and I ride the hell out of him and dig my nails 💅 on his chest!!! And you can go do grinding circles, front and back and up and down 🤣 that disco stick 😜
It's a surprise to us guys when the woman doesn't want to get on top. Most women like being in control.
Do you think they think I’m being lazy or selfish?
@bekaaaaaaaahhhh No, you're just doing what you feel comfortable with, and that's fine with guys.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Because guys are lazy and just want to bust their nut in you without doing any of the work. When their the ones on top and have to do the work, their brains don't compute properly.
It’s all mood guys. It’s comfort level, there’s whether or not she likes to be on top or would rather be dominated. Lots goes into why we might want to be on top
I want you on top. …but I’m willing to let you be on the bottom long enough for you to be comfortable. When should we start.
Understand why they would want you to be on top, that way they can watch your big tits bounce but if I'm with a woman and she says she doesn't want to do that position then it's no big deal. I want her to get the most pleasure possible, I don't care what position she is in as long as I get to be inside her
If they can't handle a queen like you it's their loss.
Some people can get really irritated when they don't get their way, but you should definitely never feel like it is your responsibility to do something you aren't comfortable with!
Maybe he’s tired or doing all the work in top. It’s kind like if you go down on a guy and when you want one he says “I haven’t known you long enough.” That’s a double standard. People don’t like those.
They might just think you're not willing to do it, at all. You need to explain to them what you told us, not us
Wrong guys i guess😅
whats wrong with on top?
I like having a women on top maybe u could talk about maybe what would help make u more comfortable
My guess is doggy is your favorite position
Why are you uncomfortable getting on top?
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