Why do guys send dick pics anyway?

What goes through a guy's head when they send an unsolicited picture of their dick. Girls don't like it, so why do they do it?

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Most Helpful Guys

  • "What goes through a guy's head when they send an unsolicited picture of their dick"

    Well, I can only guess since I don't send those, but they probably want pics of your tits and vag. People usually only send lewd pics in hopes of getting some back in return, at least I would think so anyway. Otherwise what would be the point?

    That said, there are a lot of girls that do like looking at dicks, so despite me refusing to send pics, I have had girls ask me to send them, and I imagine those guys had similar experiences, and are probably sending pics to various girls until one responds positively to it, then persuing her to date when she does. You may not like it, but you aren't their goal, and are just being "weeded out" as a non starter.

    My qualification screening is a bit more involved than "does she like my penis?"(interests, hobbies, views, goals, personality, intelligence, talents, looks, etc), so its rare that I am interested in any particular woman enough to agree to strip off clothes for her, and if I've reached that point, it's going to be in person, But boy do some women hound for dick pics if they think your face is attractive.

  • I stopped sending dick pics two years after i started back when i was 15. Its because we aren't thinking right and we're horny. We're trying to convey a message that we want to see you naked too.
    It's pretty funny looking back. How much of a slave to my emotions i was.

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  • A lot of them still think that they can "motivate" girls to have a peek and to like what they see. Unfortunately for them, it is a huge turn off for most girls for a number of reasons.

    Guys on the other hand believe that girls are interested in those deviant pictures, perhaps because they think that they judge men on their penile attachment.

    A penis picture says a lot about the owner's character and personality. Basically it says that they have none and that they do all the thinking with their primary brain in the pants rather than with their secondary one in the skull.

    That is a hint to any girl to stay clear from those guys that do the thinking with their penis.

  • I think it's out of insecurity or they think it will turn the girl on. That's my assumption. They don't offend me, I have seen lots of dicks in real life. But they also do not excite me at all either.

    It's different if it's Hubby's in the picture, usually he does it as a joke but it's still nice.

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  • Guys love receiving nudes, so a lot of guys project this onto women and assume that they would enjoy a dick pic. And the truth is that a small percentage of women DO enjoy dick pics and get aroused by them, so some of these guys realize it's a numbers game and send them to lots of girls knowing that they will find a few who like them.

    And some guys just enjoy trolling girls and getting reactions from them.

  • It's one of those great wondering why questions that has been asked for years, without any reasonable answer.

  • I've never sent such pictures to anyone, even when requested. I suspect it is a Neanderthal mentality: if she sees my dick, she will lose all self-control and will want to have sex.

  • I think they still have a forlorn hope that we might feel we have to reciprocate.

  • Oh ya know... the girl will like a dick pic 200%.

    They are incorrect, 200% :)

  • Guys do it to brag or some think it may help them have sex... god knows why. Guys should never send them unless they are asked. Are the ones you have received from friends, crushes... are the guys hard or soft?

    • I've received plenty of dick pics from classmates, but very few from friends. And they're hard.

    • Sorry that there are immature jerks sending them to you. Maybe reply back and tell them "Is that all you got" that may stop them!

  • Guys are a visual species, and think girls are too. Some like requesting nudes bc they like to look at the girls body, it is a turn on. They think women are all the same so the send dick pics in an effort to turn the girl on. But they forget the majority of women are typically disgusted by guys creeping them out with dick pics.

  • I can proudfully say I never sent one in my life but I would imagine it's because... yea I got nothing

  • Men certainly do it MORE than women, but women do send pussy pictures AND asshole pictures. A girl on GAG sent me one several months ago. A girl also ASKED mr for a penis picture, and I sent it to her.

    The sword cuts both ways, only just not as often. I suppose that men are just more exhibitionist than women, that's the only thing I can think of.

  • There could be several reasons:

    1. Some girls ask for dick pics, and guys may think all girls like them, which of course they don't.

    2. The guy could be advertising for sex, hoping that at least some of the girls that see it will want to have sex with him.

    3. The guy may have exhibitionist tendencies and enjoy showing off his body... all of it.

    4. And finally, the guy just has a brain fart and somehow thinks it's a good idea, which it may not be.

  • They think their dick is so star spangled awesome that it will catch her attention and she'll crave it. It's nonsense.

  • because they think girls think like guys

  • no clue.
    I never have.
    A while back I did a pole on that and not one female that replied said they liked getting them.

  • in the hope of getting comments like "oh i have never seen any cock better than yours n all"
    they are that stupid trust me

  • Probably hoping the ladies will be impressed and like it. Same way as women sent breasts and vulva pics 👍🙂

  • I have with girlfriend. She's sent me boob and pussy pics. She's even sent me a selfie while in the tub.

    We don't do it constantly. Just every now and then just to have fun.

  • I actually find one who wanted one. And I didn't send it. I am not that guy. But some women actually enjoy such a thing.
    What goes through their head, maybe they hope for a positive response or a nude.

  • If I had to guess I’d say the biggest reason is their horny lol

    • Who isn't?

  • ... because they're dicks! Dick's send dick pics, just like boobs send boob pics and asses send ass pics!

  • Some of the guys who send are not aware that girls don’t like it. Have you ever flirted with a guy and then he sends one?

    • Definitely. I try to avoid any mention of their dick because I've made that mistake and it almost always results in a dick pic.

    • That’s kinda unfair on you because you gotta be careful what you say and can’t relax when you talk to someone. Have you ever just let a guy know ahead of time you don’t wanna share pics for a while and just get to know him?

    • I'm pretty careful and surely if they send a dick pic, it's on them? Yes I have let a guy know ahead of time that I don't wanna share pics.

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