Why do guys sleep with girls even if they don’t see themselves dating them?

[Anonymous]

Isn’t sex without love, literally like masturbating. What’s the point

[Apope16]

Sex without love is like masturbating but the point of it is that it is much more pleasurable than masturbation. Cumming inside a woman is the same high as taking a shot of heroin.

To better explain when a woman has sexy the pleasure she gets is primarily oxytocin. This is the love hormone or cuddling hormone. Its the pleasure you get from cuddling with someone or getting a hug. It is this intense desire of closeness. SO during sex this is the rush of chemicals released for a woman. She gets other chemicals but that is the most intense one.

For a man during sex it is different. His most intense rush of chemicals during sex is dopamine. This is the feeling of intense high pleasure. Studies show it is the same pleasure as a shot of heroin. Ever have 5 donuts in a row and experience sugar high? Then you get sleepy and tired? It is basically like that kind of high times 1 thousand due to more sexual pleausure than taste pleasure.

So you have women having sex and getting attached due to oxytocin. Then you have guys having sex and not getting attached as much because they are experience more of a physical adrenaline and high rather than an emotional high.

Hope this helps.

[princeofromance]

Men are pigs

[Asker]

Yes! Burn ALL men

[HugoThe2nd]

No, sex without love is nothing like masturbating.
The point is the sex.

[ChrisMaster69]

Why do girls sleep with guys without dating?
same reason, sexual contact and sex is more than masturbating.

You don’t need love to have sex.

if I meet a girl on holiday and we fuck for 2 weeks, it’s not love, might be emotional but likely not love, but could be mind blowing sex.

[TheCunningLinguist]

Because I can't eat my hand and the female form is intoxicating!

[The_Maphio]

What'd be the point of masturbating, since we are asking this kind of questions?
Sex is like mutual masturbation, taking a page from your book. Fun for everybody.

[Asker]

No it’s not, the girl always ends up Getting hurt in the end. Women have sex to create emotional bonds, unless ur a prostitute

[The_Maphio]

Oh my sweet, sweet summer child...

[kkirk4442]

Probably because they like the feelings they get when having sex.

[boggboss]

Lol because sex feels good as passion dont require love

[FilmGuy93]

Some guys are manipulative and just users in general; those people suck but they aren't very common. I think there are a lot more guys who simply don't realize that they don't see the woman romantically until after they have sex. Having sex with a woman changes things and it makes you see her differently. Many times, there are things that start to annoy you about her after sex, that you found quirky and charming before you had sex. It's a crappy situation in general 🙁

[Asker]

Wow I’ll never have sex then. I don’t wanna give a guy my vagina then he starts to think I’m annoying after Lmao

[FilmGuy93]

It's not a guaranteed thing hahaha But a lot of people approach relationships by having sex before a relationship to see if the vibe is right. The problem with doing things that way is that you don't have the emotional connection to add meaning to the sex. Relationship first, then sex.

[TheBigGuy9]

Interesting perspective. Here’s another. We like a variety. Women are more different looks wise than men.

[FilmGuy93]

@TheBigGuy9 True, but I don't know that most guys are thinking that way when it comes to women.

[JSmuve]

Same reason why girls act like they care about a guy in order to extract something from them when they have no intention of dating them.

[mattissebfan5]

Sex is definetly not like masterbation

[TheBigGuy9]

Pleasure, sweetheart. Pleasure. When we work long hard hours that testosterone builds up in us. Sometimes we don’t have the time or want to put it in. We just want a friends with benefits situation. They’re lovely to have, especially at your age. You’re still growing up, going to school. Focus on that and get your needs met by a mutually agreeable man or woman or both.

[TheBigGuy9]

But yes, i see where you are coming from. You can certainly sit at home and masturbate, but you won’t cum as hard.

[jahaims]

No sex is way better than masturbating, thus why people pay for it.

[Twalli]

Sex feels bett5

[Paul09]

It's like saying, do you like to massage your own shoulders, or prefer someone else to do it for you? It's still pleasurable and fun. Still need to connect physically.

[JamieLoves]

To get laid !

[jerdanro]

The same reason women do. They want to. Not my thing, but it seems pretty common in both sexes.

[abc--123]

For sex

[MrTaboo]

Why buy the cow
When you can get the milk for free?

[Tjsmoove]

sex is healthy and it gives ya a specific release

[Anonymous]

Well, because free pussy? Nothing can match real life pussy compare to masturbating. They might also get the entire body as package and if the girl into it, even anal. Lot of benefits.

[Anonymous]

I agree with that to some degree but I have also been in a situation where i really liked a girls but there was something about her that prevented me from dating her

[Anonymous]

Still better then masturbating

[Anonymous]

Because most guys can't control their horny impulses.

[Anonymous]

There's definitely more to it than masturbation, but I get your point. But depends on the person. I think for certain people that need more intimacy with their sex, it is fairly unsatisfying

[Anonymous]

Well… it’s a lot better than masturbating even when it’s meaningless, but I get your point. Sex *with* love is really the ultimate experience. At least since my late teens, a close personal relationship has definitely been a prerequisite.