Why do guys stop women from sucking them once they cum?

I thought sucking to the last drop was heaven for you, but like I was pushed off twice and I wonder why.
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  • After a guy cums, his dick (especially the head and just below it) get SUPER ULTRA sensitive and it hurts - kind of like an electric shock hurts - and you just can't keep going at that point. But exactly how fast that phenomenon happens post-orgasm will vary from guy to guy and from day to day. Some guys can go 15-30 seconds before it kicks in, and some guys can barely go 5 seconds from the last spurt before they can't take it anymore.

    Ideally, you would take it deep in your mouth and use suction and a flat tongue at that point to suck the last of the cum out, but you do NOT want to focus on the head like you would at the beginning of a BJ - that's just too much. If you have his dick deep in your mouth so that your lips are well down his shaft, that isn't going to affect him near so much (though, again, it varies from guy to guy, so some guys might not even be able to take that).

    This is something that you have to learn - there's no way you would know this until someone explains it to you - so don't feel bad for not knowing, and don't take being pushed away personally - it was probably involuntary on his part. But, yeah, using your mouth or your hand, work the BASE of the shaft and leave the head alone, and he'll likely respond far better.

Most Helpful Guy

  • I actually love it if my sexual partner continues to suck the head of my c**k after I've ejaculated ! And sometimes, if we're in the right position and she keeps sensually swirling her tongue around my mushroom head & frenulum, and I can manage to rub my hands on & around her butt & finger massage her down there for a few minutes I might eventually start to become aroused again and the sexual sensations of my c**k growing semi-erect then ultra-hard whilst the head is in her mouth are especially exciting & pleasurable

    • Thanks @postempestas for the MHG 🌹

Most Helpful Girls

  • a lot of men are super sensitive once they climax and their nerve endings are heightened from the orgasm. If you touch or put your mouth on there the pleasure is so high as to be almost overwhelming that is hard to stand almost like someone tickling you but a lot more intense.

    I had a boyfriend who was really into this. He wanted to be tied up and wanted me to please him after he came while he was powerless to stop me.

    But yeah some are fine with it and others it is just too much. Give them time to come down and cool off.

    • I love how some girls here know exactly what lol

  • I keep licking and kissing my boyfriend’s gently after he cum because I love taste and it makes him fly to another world for a while ✨

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  • They're ultra sensitive, just like you.

    Adapt your behaviour from sucking to gently licking. It needs tapering.
    Many girls need to learn gradient and nuance.
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  • A lot of men get very sensitive and it's painful to continue. Like playing with your clit after you cum hard.

  • There penis gets real sensitive as he cums, but many guys still enjoy some more sucking and fondling only do it gently.

  • some men once that sexual juice is out of their system has no further use for sex unlike women we want more

  • My boyfriend says it gets almost painful

  • usually, the rugby is about to start.

    or could be due to it being a tad sensitive

  • Most guys are extremely sensitive right after cumming, so it actually hurts. I think if gals would immediately change to a gentle sucking with little movement. That gentle sucking is extremely pleasurable to many. Experiment with your guy to find what is best with him. I would find you continuing but gently, super sexy!

  • I love my man to keep going even after I cum. Dont know about others

  • For the same reason you push his head away after you cum 🤷

  • it goes from feeling amazing to feeling too sensitive in seconds

  • The head of their dick is full of nerve endings and after they cum all of those nerves are extremely sensitive for several minutes.

  • After an orgasm if the stimulation continues without stopping then it goes from feeling good to feeling extremely intense, so intense that it's perceived as pain by most people. I personally liked the feeling because I like intense things, but it was still hard to endure more than 20 to 30 seconds of it.

  • Because after climax further stimulation is not pleasurable. I thought it was the same for women.

  • My penis does get super sensitive after I cum but it's not immediately after. So I would much rather my partner keep sucking even past the first squirts rather than stop too soon. I'm sure it's an individual preference one way or another for each guy.

  • It feels sensitive, the muscle needs to relax but the girl's sucking and over-exciting it so it's going to keep contracting. If you wait maybe 3-4 seconds after he cums, then you can go back to it.

  • The glans becomes acutely sensitive when ejaculation starts. Bobbing and sucking are too much then. But next time, keep him in your mouth under light vacuum, motionless, while he shrinks and drains. Very nice.

  • My partner doesn't stop me, I guess he likes it. He doesn't stop me so 😂

  • It starts to hurt

  • I don't know why I would like to go to the end?

  • Because it gets too sensitive. Same when a guy goes down on us and makes us cum if he keeps licking it gets too sensitive and doesn't feel as good anymore.

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