Why do guys tend to enjoy rough sex so much?

I had a boyfriend for 2 years who was really into domination, we would be having sex, and then he'd start choking me, i told him to stop and he apologised and said he got carried away, I've had other similar experiences, can anyone shed any light on it
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  • I think it's a masculinity thing but i don't think all guys are like that and those who are like that honestly it can just be a normal part of life as long as no harm is actually done, if you don't like it then put a stop to it as you did but sometimes if you try new things it can end up great. I'm not really sure how it would work out in this case buti think it's something to think about? But don't do anything that could put you in harms way

  • Perhaps they do it because they know a lot of girls like it so assume you probably do too?

    • I partly blame the whole 50 shades of grey trend too, people seem far more open to it now.

    • I don’t think a lot of girls like it I think a lot of girls feel like they hav to keep up with porn Some girls with issues maybe like it

    • @Lilyp005 that’s what psychology thought initially but they’ve backtracked on that theory now and actually regard it as healthy as healthier types of people seem more open to it (with exceptions to the rule of course). As for the women that feel they need to keep up with porn, instead they should be focusing on keeping true to their desires, it doesn’t really serve anyone to play along with anything for the sake of it. If you respect yourself and your desires you’ll find a partner who does the same.

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  • Rough sex is dope. So is slow sex. It's all about preference, ik girls who like choking. Excuse me, let me rephrase that... most of the girls ik prefer it. I've never done it or been a fan but I don't judge people's sex lives

  • Sex is about power in general, and guys dont experience sex as something emotional, more like a hobby or a sport

    • Dislike from s gsy 🐸

    • @Lionelmesssi I also have a like from a guy. So it cancels each other out.

    • Thaats my like I meant u have dislike from a gay

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  • I’m honestly not a fan, don’t get me wrong it’s fun and all but it’s not something I absolutely love.

  • Choking is bad. Practice with limits

  • Cause it's hot but that can be just his kink

    • No actually it’s not hot to hurt someone else during sex who doesn’t want it

    • Okay to you it is not hot but have you ever heard of bondage

  • Because I want to pound the pussy. Make them ass cheeks clap. It feels better! Going slow is ok but I want to thrust like cmon.

  • Fun... ig

  • Rough sex? No thankyou!

  • it's really down to their personal character. look for one that isn't like that, if you're not into it xD

  • Dominance. It's in our nature

    • It’s not in a persons nature to be an asshole, they choose to be an asshole Choking someone during sex who doesn’t want it is being an abusive asshole

    • This is true. If he keeps going when u say stop that's pretty shitty.

  • The only light I can shed on it is that you are into mentally ill dbags. If he was a man, he would be protecting you, not choking you.

    • Dude its a turn on for some guys it doesn't mean their ill.

    • @Duxtiz Better to be judged by 12 than carried by 6, aye faggot? That's how you kill people. But it's not your throat, is it?

    • "Aye faggot".😂 I was just saying people aren't mentally ill if they have a certain kink. No reason for name calling.

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  • I believe ots just a domination aspect of it. Most guys prefer to be dominant and this could be a part of that dominant kink.

  • Just part of being male. Shrug. There's nothing wrong with it as long as no one is being hurt and as long as both parties are into it of course; it's just a domination thing. If you had lots of testosterone you'd understand.

  • Depend on different personalities

    Not everyone is that dominative and not everyone likes physical too

    Agree?

  • Because these are boys who learned from porn not men who know how to please a woman. I

    • I made the same mistakes you're dating the wrong guys a real man wouldn’t pressure you into she’s like acts you’re it comfortable with not stop wen you’re in pain A real man doesn’t get off on his partners pain and degradation. Look for a sensitive evolved man, there are fortunately many of them

    • Sex acts you’re not comfortable with

    • Hear hear

  • many guys are like this

  • Because to many jerk offs think porn is the how to for sex... period... lol.. so sad.

  • UNLIMITED POWAH

  • 4 letter word that starts with P.

    • Enlighten me

    • Porn. I'm not sure why that particular type is so popular. But, new sh! t pops up all the time.

  • I'm not into choking at all. Mostly I try to do stuff my partner enjoys.

  • that's going a bit too far

    • The most I'll ever ask is anal from a woman-a lot is covered in between. But I do agree with choking being a red flag

  • After sex, that doesn't make sense...

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