Why do guys that like getting dommed and/or pegged, and complain about how tough it is to find a woman into it don't just get an escort?

[Anonymous]

Get a girlfriend, dom her just because that's what she likes in order to keep the relationship going if that's what you want (to have a connection with someone).

Then go and do whatever you actually like with a woman that is probably 10x hotter than your girlfriend, suddenly both of you are happy😍😍

Bro I'd let either dom or peg me any day, for 5% of my salary, GEEZ, and if I want to feel a connection first, which I really don't her looks are my connection, I'll pay for what's called a GFE service I just found out about, it's all covered... Man I give the best advice and help I'm such a philanthropist

[NamerOfStars]

Because a huge part of sexual submission is about trust, and the bond you form with someone- how on Earth could you expect to get that with a stranger who you're paying for it?

And why would they then go out and get a girlfriend they're not sexually compatible with and CHEAT on her?

[Anonymous]

Does it not bother you that the woman pegging you is probably not into it, is only doing it for the money, and probably thinks you’re a moron?

[Asker]

No actually it doesn't, she has to act like she's into it and get me turned on and that's it, that's part of her service, not that I don't agree with your assessment because I do 100%, but I'd rather have her think I'm a moron than the girl I actually care about, only doing it for money well what are my options? If I could just ask for free with someone I love on demand then sign me up, unfortunately that's extremely risky, and 99.9% of women that hot aren't going to actually be into it... I hope I didn't sound defensive or aggressive in my response wasn't my intention, just being genuine man

[CloudMassacre]

I would like to find someone to be in a relationship with before having sex

[Asker]

As a guy who liked being dominated and/or pegged? That's some tough odds you've put yourself into man

[CloudMassacre]

I’m okay with just masturbating and they don’t have to do anything or be a part of it if they don’t want to. I’m not going to pressure them, it would just be a big plus if they did kinda like it at least

[Hanrej]

Then it's not domination. If I go to an escort to make my wishes come true then as a customer I hold the power.

[Asker]

Strictly in terms of dynamics though it's the same thing if it's with your girlfriend or if you're dominating your girlfriend, if she's not okay with something happening you're not going to keep going, in terms of escorts it's not like she's giving me a quick bj and leaving, we're actually gonna have a convo about what I like and if she can do it, if she can't then bye, but in terms of who's holding power escort or not I believe it's the same thing

[Anonymous]

No clue, but I sure as hell aren't one of that does.