Why do guys thrust up in the cowgirl position? Are we not doing well enough?

[Anonymous]

I've noticed my boyfriend tends to thrust up when I'm in the cowgirl position. Is it because I'm not making him feel good? Do other guys do this?

[EpsonStylus]

It isn't a reflection on a woman's performance. Rather, it is an attempt to enhance the pleasure of their partner. Think about the way women when doing missionary will sometimes grab their partner's thighs or butt and pull them towards in. It isn't about their partner's performance but rather an attempt to communicate with them and intensify the moment.

For men in cowgirl position, that is a way for us to play an active role while being passive to our partner in much the same way a woman might take action to be active during passive missionary position.

As for other guys, I think most do. We are cognizant of fearing our partners seeing us like dead fish in bed and cowgirl does lend itself to that kind of mentality. By taking action like thrusting, we are able to keep active in bed.

Hope that helps!

[MrMysteryMan]

I do it at times because on the contrary to what you were inferring to, it feels SO good that it encourages me to thrust up more. It just intensifies the feeling that much more when you're pounding down and we thrust up, then it's doubling the piston action. Also, the girl's legs might be getting tired or her hips/back might be getting tired, so I'll take over the work part and pound you back and let you rest and just take the pounding. It's never a notion that it doesn't feel good enough, it just feels better and deeper at times when we do it as well.

[kaylaS91]

Because thrusting back a bit is better than laying there like a dead fish.
(Some girls, myself included, move their hips in synchrony with their boyfriend's thrusts during missionary as well.)

You should seriously just give it a try. I love it when my boyfriend thrusts back when I'm on top- it helps his dick hit amazing spots inside of me that wouldn't get any stimulation if I'm the only one moving.

[Anonymous]

I think it's because guys are used to being the one doing the thrusting. Also, perhaps he thrusts because he wants an extra bounce or jiggle from your boobs?

[septemberangel118]

It's because he wants to be in on the action as well. Also it makes it feel twice as good, in my opinion.

[nerms123]

I love when guys do that, I think it feels amazing!

[UltraGamer]

I do it for her pleasure I rather her cum before I do

[christian_witch]

The same reason girls hump back when they are in missionary. He wants to be an active part of the sex.

[jakeofalltrades]

I think it has more to do with instinct than you doing something wrong

[sharkyfish]

it feel nice the thrusting motion the smacking sound

[masterkamasutra]

many girls not good at cowgirl specially they could not manage, angle, speed and intensity, that leads many time trust up himself.

[DaRealEazyE]

i do it to please her

[Anonymous]

probably you are not good

[Anonymous]

You are making him feel good, but he wants to be deeper.

[Anonymous]

No this thrust has nothing to do with you, we do it when we masturbate too, to rush the process, this way we get to come faster and become more aroused. Get more blood flowing there, and we don't do that unless we have s lot of sexual energy that we wanna get out, so you should worry if he was very relaxed all the time and don't thrust.

[Anonymous]

Because we want to go back in as you are pulling away.

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend seems to do this too. I asked him why and he said its just a guy thing because most guys like to be dominant and i guess be the one fucking you not you fucking him. Nothing to do with if your good at what you do or not