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  • Because the norm in this era is for chicks to give it away to easy. If the chick is not giving it away soon the possibilities are that she is either playing and stringing you along or she may be genuine. The probability of her being genuine is way smaller than her playing you. It becomes therefore the norm for guys to want it fast since they risk wasting time.

    • Is that really true though in the sense that they risk wasting time, because believe me, from what I hear from most of my gorlfriends who are genuinely interest in guys, their attraction crashes and burns because they get the impression HE isn’t genuine and ONLY wants sex when he tries to rush it.

    • That happens also. What I know though is that there are 10000 questions on GAG about how "She just wants to be friends" from guys who fucked around instead of moving in and sealing the deal before investing too much time and emotional energy into some chick.

  • Many girls are easy nowadays, so many guys got used to easy girls. :)

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    • Sad but true

Most Helpful Girl

  • Not every guy, but if that's happening you need to talk with him, and if he keeps it up, then get rid of him, if you feel uncomfortable about it, you shouldn't have to power through it

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  • It's a hormonal failing. Sorry.

    • Appreciate your honesty 👍🏻

  • What is too soon for you?

  • It is that exact reason except not so stupid and not so personal... guys in general are complete dickheads...

  • I think its 75% genetic and 25% mental and it's on come is shortly after puberty caused by an increase of testosterone.

    • Can they not hold back for the sake of it working out better though?

  • I actually prefer to wait as long as possible, it's better this way.
    My girlfriend was the one who pushed for sex like crazy honestly.

    • I honestly didn't expect so many likes actually.

    • I had to hit you with the down vote. Just to keep the universe stable. Nothing personal, kid.

    • @OjaeNova No problem, I understand 👍

  • It's in our biology, we are wired to want to reproduce. We have wants, we have needs, we are testosterone filled humans.

  • Because they want to be more than friends.

    • But there’s no rush for sex, the faster you hit it the faster it can fall apart.

    • The reality is that it can fall apart anytime for any reason with or without sex. You might think you have better odds by stringing a guy along, but that hurts your chances with a lot of men even if you eventually sleep with them. Sex is part of adult romantic relationships and how you play it and the motivations behind that game will influence what people think about you. If you start off by setting an impression that you have a low sex drive, that you play games, that you use sex as a weapon to manipulate and use a guy, that you’re not attracted to him and treat him like a friend, that you have a price (certain amount of dates paid for), that you are more trouble than you are worth, etc. a lot of guys with good intentions will just walk and find a women that will treat them better. A lot of the ones that will stick with it are the ones that think they are over invested at this point and once they fuck you, they might chuck you. For them it’s like climbing the mountain. Once it’s done, there is no need to keep climbing it and it’s time to move on to the next challenge. The arbitrary duration until sex and the number of hurtles you try to make him jump like a dog isn’t what makes the man good or the relationship work… It’s the people involved. If you start out with bad intentions to play him and test him, don’t be surprised when he does the same to you in return.

    • The reality is that pushing sex too soon increases the chances of it falling apart - basically it can be he straw hat breaks the camels back so to speak. All of the three reasons for withholding sex are not really based in reality, yes there are some women who will use those but he majority don’t and this is exactly where so many men fall short and why women give up on relationships and only hope for meaningless casual sex, in other words they don’t feel valued beyond that so they think why should they value men. At the end of the day what’s good for the goose is good for the gander. Basically the only lesson I’ve taken from your uninformed response is to avoid guys. I certainly won’t ever date any like that just because he has some strange idea about it not being smart to get to know each other better before jumping straight into bed! Pfffft! Good riddance!!! Next.

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  • It's how us men were created. I'm Chrisitan, so I'm saving sex for marriage but there have definitely been temptations when I'm alone with my girlfriend. I think whether your Christian or not people should try saving sex until marriage. It would save so much heart ache

  • Because we’re horny now and dont need to be woo’d into submission like the lady folk. We have only one goal when we’re talking to you and you know what that is some are just more inpatient than others.

    • Well women don’t want just sex more often than not. It’s no wonder they’re all becoming disillusioned and having casual sex and nothing more.

  • men use sex to show intimacy and caring for their partner. to establish dominance and ownership of the relationship. its instinct. women are naturally the nurturer, wanting security and assurance. that too is instinct. think of a lion and lioness. that is a great example of the dynamics of the relationship between men and women that i described. its NOT that men only think about sex. because believe me there are BILLIONS of women i would NOT have sex with, but there is only ONE woman that is MINE... too soon, too late, too much thinking about it - there's no formula for it, it just happens when it does, by instinct.

  • Lust and stupidity.

    • True story

  • So we can spend more time with the other women were also trying to bang

    • How does that even make sense?

    • It doesn't! You have to a douche to understand it

    • Obviously you're a respectable human with manners and other qualities. Self respect being one of them, probably.

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  • They’re horny

  • Guys are so wired

  • l would wait till the girl is ready

    • Very smart

    • Thank you l would say its better to wait and if some guys get sex with a girl they might not come back as they are not very genuine l would rather date long term as l am very genuine

  • Because that's all we really want

    • That seems sad

    • Not from a guys point of view

    • Depends on the guy I’d say

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  • Because I like to put my little cock in your little pussy lol

    • Has everyone lost their sense of humour today? lol

    • They probably took it seriously

    • Yeah I think they did

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  • I'm waiting for marriage, so I don't have a good explanation for other guys.

  • Because until we have sex with a new girl it's all we think about

  • Depends on chemistry. I had girls that started kissing me first and wanted sex and others where took few times out before we fucked.

    • Oh I’ve wanted to jump a mans bones on the first date, but it didn’t mean I did.

    • Ya but some girls do but think guys of course push sex more

    • I actually personally don’t believe it’s natural for girls to want to do that. Most of the time they likely do it because they think if she does he’ll like her more in the way she wants him to (which obviously rarely if ever works).

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