Virtually all men are going to be tempted at times - it's in our instinct to spread our seed - but most men can control that, even if a few choose not to try.
But there are definitely a class of men who cannot be faithful and have no intention of being so, and thus shouldn't accept being in a relationship. Unfortunately, they often do - many times because a woman desperately wants him to be with her - but he's not going to remain faithful. A large percentage of these men are going to be those men at the very top of the SMV chart - the guys that nearly every woman finds VERY attractive. Those guys have so much opportunity that, even if they're with an amazing woman, they're not going to remain faithful. Think: Brad Pitt or Tiger Woods or Johnny Depp or most top sports stars, actors, and musicians.
This group also includes many very powerful, driven men, who tend to be very successful in business and wealthy; even if they aren't the best-looking guys, tons of women will be attracted to their power, wealth, and dominant personality. Of course, it will also include some more average guys who are just selfish and self-centered and narcissistic too. It's not just about a high sex drive - plenty of men manage a high sex drive without cheating - rather, it's about the men who feel ENTITLED to be with other women when they want to, and who frankly have plenty of access and opportunity with other women.
For the most part, it's not hard to figure out which men fall into this group - most men could certainly tell you - and if a woman chooses to be with one of these men, she should know going in that any expectations of fidelity are misplaced and unrealistic. You WILL be sharing such men with other women, whether you want to or not, so if you choose him anyway, you can't be surprised or even disappointed when it happens - you knew who they were when you got with them.
Its really surprising to me how much opportunity they have but i also think they're standards probably aren't that high... smh. I can't even carry a conversation for more than an hour because im disgusted and these people take their clothes off. Im like wow... smh
Let me give you a bit of perspective. I grew up being good friends with a family of kids that were all in a band - 4 brothers, with the youngest one being 5 days younger than me. They were playing at events when the youngest brother (bass & lead vocals) was only 10, and at that time, the oldest was about 16 and wasn't in the band because he looked too old and out of place. About 2 years later, the oldest brother joined the band, and in 1983, they made a music video and entered it in an MTV contest. They were already "famous" locally, but being in the contest made them more famous, and as it turned out, they won the grand prize, and went on tour opening for various artists for a couple of years. At one point, Eddie Money (who was relatively local) was going to manage them, but then he had a big hit come-back album and spent 2 years touring instead. My friends never got beyond the opening band stage in the "big game" but continued to play for a number of years locally. So, we're talking about a "B-grade" celebrity in town and a "D-grade" (at best) celebrity outside of the Bay Area. Nevertheless, he had slept with over 1500 girls, from the ages of 13 (when he was young) to in their 40s (by his early 20s) - and he passed on at least as many opportunities. Women literally threw themselves at him and in high school openly talked about having slept with him. He didn't brag and didn't need to - the girls did it for him. He was in his 30s before he had his first girlfriend - and he came to me several times for my advice, because he had NO IDEA how a relationship worked. He's been married to her for 15+ years now, and has no regrets about committing to her, but even today, a few days before his 50th birthday, there are dozens (maybe hundreds) of women who would sleep with him at a moment's notice because of his celebrity, as limited and as "aged" as it is.
For a multi-millionaire, good-looking actor, athlete, or musician with national fame, their level of "opportunity" makes my friend look like a leper. There are even boyfriends who would happily let some of those guys bang their girlfriends - and the girlfriends would be more than willing. Very, VERY few men could resist that level of temptation and opportunity for very long.
It's less about satisfying his sex drive, and more about the man being immature, greedy, and selfish. Cheaters are going to cheat regardless of what their partner does.
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Depends on the guy. It's not the sex drive only, it also depends on how phone you are to getting addicted to something
Addicted?
Yes. Addicted. The adrenaline of doing something "forbidden" and the rush it generates drives men to look for casual sex more than having a big sex drive or feeling their partners are not enough. People prone to addictions are more likely to look for adventures
Oohh i see. Thanks for the info... i feel a little more filled in noe
Because they don't know how to respect a woman
I agree on the respect aspect.
They weren't raised right
True he had a horrible upbringing
I think that the most interesting aspect of this is that all about trying new things
Which i always invite. I guess i was taking it personal. I consider myself to be pretty adventurous so i didn't understand
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