Why do guys watch porn if they are in a relationship?
designer1Xper 6
How do you feel about porn? Is it a need in order to get off? Are you in a relationship with someone who watches porn or do you watch porn yourself? Please share your thoughts.
My ex used to watch it before he met me. Then he said he didn't need to since he would just mentally fantasize about us to get off. My current boyfriend doesn't masturbate or watch porn since we got together because he doesn't have as high of a sex drive as me. It was causing issues cuz either he couldnt cum or he couldnt get it up after jerking off a few times in the day.. but now anytime he wants it, he just comes to me 😊
I dont think it's wrong of them to watch. We get all drooly looking at beefy celebrities. Why can't our SO's appreciate other bodies too? I just dont wanna know about it haha
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FunkyMonkeeMaster
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When you're actually having sex with someone, you don't actually get to SEE what's going on! Porn lets you see what's going on from various angles and, you get a few cool ideas of things to try with your girlfriend. Also, guys LOVE to see naked girls!! Especially when they're having sex! This is why some guys let their girl screw another guy while they watch!
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ariadneRGuru
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I dont mind if my boyfriend watches porn. Like him, I am very visual, so sometimes he will come home and see me watching it, but its never been a big deal
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Texaskid1Guru
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When monkey misbehave monkey must be spanked!! Bad monkey!!
Bad, bad, bad!!!
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designer1
+1 y
Haha wtf 😂
BigfappaXper 5
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because we jus like the feeling of busting a nut, being in a relationship or not makes no difference to our ability to feel sexual pleasure, so we will continue to do this activity in relationship or not, it makes no difference
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hellacrayGuru
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Well I'd say one major reason is that you're either not satisfying him or maybe you're just straight up denying him sex.
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designer1
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Nope lol he says that’s not it. U in a relationship and watch it?
hellacray
+1 y
And you believe him? You know there's this thing called lying.
designer1
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Yes bc were in a healthy relationship, have plenty of sex, and don’t lie to each other lol. Lying is toxic. I feel bad for whoever you’re lying to. Anyways lol... that’s not the only reason people watch it bc ur reason is the minority of the opinions on here.
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designer1
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*we’re in
designer1
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Not saying it’s insignificant. Just saying he doesn’t have to be watching it for that reason.
hellacray
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Well look at you being all defensive.
designer1
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I didn’t mean for it to come of rude. Sorry if it did. I’m very direct about expressing my thoughts.
hellacray
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Of course you are.
designer1
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Ok...
ThisIsMyOpinionYoda
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I watch porn. My girlfriend whatches porn. We watch porn together. I always stay wake more time than her so sometimes I get in the mood, but she is already in bed. Well I am not going to wake her up so...
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buttcrackjoeExplorer
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Porn is exciting, new people different looks different sex organs sounds variety is the spice of life. We’re boring an monogomous because we are selfish and want one person all to ourselves
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dovidoExplorer
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i watch porn and my girlfriend watches porn. we need some relief whenever we can't please each other,
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ForteExeXper 6
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Well in many cases his sex drive is higher than hers, so there are times in the relationship where he's ready to go and she's off somewhere else or disinterested and he's gotta take care of it himself. Guys are generally turned on visually so porn is helpful if the girlfriend/wife isn't an option.
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Swat_Xper 6
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I don't have a girlfriend, but in a guys defense, our sexual desire stacks. The longer we do not get it off, the worse it gets. Evenso, if you dont get it off, you will get erotic dreams which can make you ejaculate (wet dreams) or your body will just force it out.
If your body gets rid of it anyway, you might aswell have fun with it. If the guy doesn't want to bother their partner, or if he quickly wants to get rid of his horniness, porn allows him to quickly do that.
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Unit1Editor
+1 y
We get sexually aroused by visual stimulation like porn. Women get sexually aroused by literotica or 50 shades of grey. Do a bit of logic and what we get is the same result from different product types, that are doing the same thing.
I love porn and women 😍
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Unit1
+1 y
Sometimes a girlfriend is not enough. She may not let us have sex with her as often as we'd love, so we rather wank to porn because we know cheating is unacceptable and no loyal person deserves to be cheated on. For your information: We men are sex crazed. Testosterone is all inside our body.
designer1
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Women are sex craved to lol we just hide it better lmao. He’s always been watching it tho and we have sex a lot so 🤷🏾♀️
Unit1
+1 y
Then i can't say for sure. I never really had a girlfriend to be able to clearly answer. 😐🙁 I figure porn may suggest some things To try. I like the kind of porn where a couple is making love and then proceed to have eventual sex.
Note: @designer1 It seems like you are just asking a genuine question which is cool, but plenty of girls just get on here and ask the same question and want to just whine and complain about it and think they can convince guys to stop watching it, or something. Which is dumb.
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designer1
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Yes this is a genuine question. My boyfriend watches porn which bothers me a bit. I think logically it makes sense why I would be bothered
designer1
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But I am trying to me more understanding bc it is so widely practiced
designer1
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That is why I asked. To grow an understanding of why men in relationships watch porn. Your opinion on why men do it, however it is one opinion, is actually one of few that state “bc we imagine fucking with other women”
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designer1
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Many people say it just helps to get them off when their partner isn’t around and sometimes they even watch together. So I’m learning a lot.
Thatsamazing
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Well it's a little bit of everything. We fantasize fucking the other girl that we find attractive, and we also fantasize often about doing whatever it is we're watching with our girlfriend/wife or whatever. I don't understand why you say you think it logically makes sense why you'd be bothered, no.
designer1
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You said u think about fucking another women in the process. Why would I not have at least some reason to feel uncomfortable to say the least of my boyfriend felt the same?
designer1
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*if my boyfriend felt the same
Thatsamazing
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Your boyfriend does feel the same-- he's a guy. Don't waste your time hitting your head against a wall trying to make your guy not feel the way he feels as a male; I hope he wouldn't do the same and try to make you not feel the way you feel as a female. I dunno what you mean by "in the process." What process.
designer1
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“In the process” as in, in the process of watching.
designer1
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He says he doesn’t think of it that way so imma put my trust in that
Thatsamazing
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The point is it doesn't matter whether he does or not. His private thoughts belong to him, not you. The same as your private thoughts belong to you, not him. Neither of you needs to literally know the mind of the other. And he likely is thinking about fucking them... because that's the point of watching it at all in the first place. Guys are hesitant about long-term relationships and marriage and such because we know biologically speaking that we aren't supposed to be tied down to one girl forever and ever. So we watch porn to cope. It's his business.
longfellow420Xper 4
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I just like watching other people fuck.
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DiegoOGuru
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Because sex is not always available.
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BeeniXper 5
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I have been married for 14 years. But I have been with her since I was 13. So I’ve been in a relationship. I always watch porn. And before I had a phone with internet I used to buy adult books
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DWD94Xper 5
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Why is this a big deal? Especially if the girl says she isn't ready to have sex, or maybe she isn't in the mood, would you rather the guy continually pester the girl for sex, or would you rather he watch porn?
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A-man-22Explorer
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Same reason way women read romance novels.
Men are visual, the feeling women get from reading romance and fluff I think is similar to what men get when watching adult content.
I personally get almost no feeling out of romance novels. They aren't catered to men, anime romance is more catered to men as it's visual but it's not as strong as adult content.
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VestaXper 7
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Women do too, and will even watch it with him. Trty it!
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hakon96Xper 6
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Why would you go to the zoo if you have a dog at home?
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designer1
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😂😂tbh this is funny, but understandable at the same time lol
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23 57My ex used to watch it before he met me. Then he said he didn't need to since he would just mentally fantasize about us to get off. My current boyfriend doesn't masturbate or watch porn since we got together because he doesn't have as high of a sex drive as me. It was causing issues cuz either he couldnt cum or he couldnt get it up after jerking off a few times in the day.. but now anytime he wants it, he just comes to me 😊
I dont think it's wrong of them to watch. We get all drooly looking at beefy celebrities. Why can't our SO's appreciate other bodies too? I just dont wanna know about it haha
When you're actually having sex with someone, you don't actually get to SEE what's going on! Porn lets you see what's going on from various angles and, you get a few cool ideas of things to try with your girlfriend. Also, guys LOVE to see naked girls!! Especially when they're having sex! This is why some guys let their girl screw another guy while they watch!
I dont mind if my boyfriend watches porn. Like him, I am very visual, so sometimes he will come home and see me watching it, but its never been a big deal
When monkey misbehave monkey must be spanked!!
Bad monkey!!
Bad, bad, bad!!!
Haha wtf 😂
because we jus like the feeling of busting a nut, being in a relationship or not makes no difference to our ability to feel sexual pleasure,
so we will continue to do this activity in relationship or not, it makes no difference
Well I'd say one major reason is that you're either not satisfying him or maybe you're just straight up denying him sex.
Nope lol he says that’s not it. U in a relationship and watch it?
And you believe him? You know there's this thing called lying.
Yes bc were in a healthy relationship, have plenty of sex, and don’t lie to each other lol. Lying is toxic. I feel bad for whoever you’re lying to. Anyways lol... that’s not the only reason people watch it bc ur reason is the minority of the opinions on here.
*we’re in
Not saying it’s insignificant. Just saying he doesn’t have to be watching it for that reason.
Well look at you being all defensive.
I didn’t mean for it to come of rude. Sorry if it did. I’m very direct about expressing my thoughts.
Of course you are.
Ok...
I watch porn. My girlfriend whatches porn. We watch porn together.
I always stay wake more time than her so sometimes I get in the mood, but she is already in bed. Well I am not going to wake her up so...
Porn is exciting, new people different looks different sex organs sounds variety is the spice of life. We’re boring an monogomous because we are selfish and want one person all to ourselves
i watch porn and my girlfriend watches porn. we need some relief whenever we can't please each other,
Well in many cases his sex drive is higher than hers, so there are times in the relationship where he's ready to go and she's off somewhere else or disinterested and he's gotta take care of it himself. Guys are generally turned on visually so porn is helpful if the girlfriend/wife isn't an option.
I don't have a girlfriend, but in a guys defense, our sexual desire stacks. The longer we do not get it off, the worse it gets. Evenso, if you dont get it off, you will get erotic dreams which can make you ejaculate (wet dreams) or your body will just force it out.
If your body gets rid of it anyway, you might aswell have fun with it. If the guy doesn't want to bother their partner, or if he quickly wants to get rid of his horniness, porn allows him to quickly do that.
We get sexually aroused by visual stimulation like porn. Women get sexually aroused by literotica or 50 shades of grey. Do a bit of logic and what we get is the same result from different product types, that are doing the same thing.
I love porn and women 😍
Sometimes a girlfriend is not enough. She may not let us have sex with her as often as we'd love, so we rather wank to porn because we know cheating is unacceptable and no loyal person deserves to be cheated on. For your information: We men are sex crazed. Testosterone is all inside our body.
Women are sex craved to lol we just hide it better lmao. He’s always been watching it tho and we have sex a lot so 🤷🏾♀️
Then i can't say for sure. I never really had a girlfriend to be able to clearly answer. 😐🙁 I figure porn may suggest some things To try. I like the kind of porn where a couple is making love and then proceed to have eventual sex.
Because we want to. That's why.
And we fantasize about fucking other hot girls. It's normal.
Girl-- your guy is going to watch porn... Get over it. ↗
Note: @designer1 It seems like you are just asking a genuine question which is cool, but plenty of girls just get on here and ask the same question and want to just whine and complain about it and think they can convince guys to stop watching it, or something. Which is dumb.
Yes this is a genuine question. My boyfriend watches porn which bothers me a bit. I think logically it makes sense why I would be bothered
But I am trying to me more understanding bc it is so widely practiced
That is why I asked. To grow an understanding of why men in relationships watch porn. Your opinion on why men do it, however it is one opinion, is actually one of few that state “bc we imagine fucking with other women”
Many people say it just helps to get them off when their partner isn’t around and sometimes they even watch together. So I’m learning a lot.
Well it's a little bit of everything. We fantasize fucking the other girl that we find attractive, and we also fantasize often about doing whatever it is we're watching with our girlfriend/wife or whatever. I don't understand why you say you think it logically makes sense why you'd be bothered, no.
You said u think about fucking another women in the process. Why would I not have at least some reason to feel uncomfortable to say the least of my boyfriend felt the same?
*if my boyfriend felt the same
Your boyfriend does feel the same-- he's a guy. Don't waste your time hitting your head against a wall trying to make your guy not feel the way he feels as a male; I hope he wouldn't do the same and try to make you not feel the way you feel as a female. I dunno what you mean by "in the process." What process.
“In the process” as in, in the process of watching.
He says he doesn’t think of it that way so imma put my trust in that
The point is it doesn't matter whether he does or not. His private thoughts belong to him, not you. The same as your private thoughts belong to you, not him. Neither of you needs to literally know the mind of the other. And he likely is thinking about fucking them... because that's the point of watching it at all in the first place. Guys are hesitant about long-term relationships and marriage and such because we know biologically speaking that we aren't supposed to be tied down to one girl forever and ever. So we watch porn to cope. It's his business.
I just like watching other people fuck.
Because sex is not always available.
I have been married for 14 years. But I have been with her since I was 13. So I’ve been in a relationship. I always watch porn. And before I had a phone with internet I used to buy adult books
Why is this a big deal? Especially if the girl says she isn't ready to have sex, or maybe she isn't in the mood, would you rather the guy continually pester the girl for sex, or would you rather he watch porn?
Same reason way women read romance novels.
Men are visual, the feeling women get from reading romance and fluff I think is similar to what men get when watching adult content.
I personally get almost no feeling out of romance novels. They aren't catered to men, anime romance is more catered to men as it's visual but it's not as strong as adult content.
Women do too, and will even watch it with him. Trty it!
Why would you go to the zoo if you have a dog at home?
😂😂tbh this is funny, but understandable at the same time lol