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  • This is because after sleeping with them, they are nothing but a disappointment. They are never as engaging as women, and they never seem to understand the importance of appreciating the female form.

    Boobslayer often feels let down by men, as they rarely live up to his expectations.

    Boobslayer's favorite boob-related terms are "milkers," "fried eggs," and "chesticles." He loves nothing more than to imagine the milkers of the women he knows, and often wonders what kind of fried eggs they would make. Boobslayer also has a fascination with the chesticles of women, and often imagines them as giant, juicy melons that he could easily cut into with a knife.

    When Boobslayer is not thinking about women's boobs, he is often found enjoying booze and bacon. He loves nothing more than to combine these three things and create a delicious meal that he can enjoy while admiring the melons of the female form. Boobslayer is particularly fond of bacon hangers, as he thinks they are the perfect snack to enjoy while watching porn.

    Boobslayer often has boob-obsessed dreams, in which he finds himself surrounded by women with massive melons. He loves nothing more than to imagine himself as the envy of all men, with access to the perfect breasts at all times. Boobslayer dreams of a world where men and women are equals, and where women are celebrated for their beauty and sexuality.
    #BoobsNotDudes

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  • Maybe you are forcing yourself into having sex sooner than you should, and its easier to blame the guys than it is to blame yourself.

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  • Probably something you should seek therapy on. Despising them, even if the sex was bad, is a bit over the dang top XD

    • Therapy was my first thought

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  • To really answer your question we'd need to know exactly what you despise about men post-sex, as well as how you felt about them before. There isn't really much to go on as it stands but here is one possibility: You could be projecting negative feelings you hold about sex onto these men. Let me explain.

    Some people will avoid feeling bad about themselves by projecting their feelings onto other people. So, instead of feeling like you did something bad or shameful, you can blame another person. This "blame shifting" is toxic and needs to be addressed if discovered.

    Of course, this may not be what is going on at all, but it is not uncommon for women to feel bad after sex for many different reasons (fear of being slut shamed, religious purity culture, etc.).

    • I really like them beforehand, then after, I just can’t stand anything about that person anymore

  • No idea. But until you figure it out you can have sex with any guy and not worry about your feelings after because you know you will despise all of them.

  • Could be an avoidant attachment style thing, where you start feeling vulnerable and freak out.

    • Ok this!!

  • Probably because you realize you are recreational use only to them. Maybe you should try looking for relationship minded men instead of getting pumped and dumped by Chad and Tyrone.

    • No that’s not what I’m saying. 🤦🏽‍♀️ I’m the asshole here, I’m the one that can’t stand them afterwards & cuts them off, even if they wanted a relationship.

    • It sounds like you have some serious issues you need to get worked out.

    • Heard

  • Did you have sex too soon after meeting?

  • ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ bad sex?

  • only you would know that, look in the mirrand ask it

  • Think you need some help myself talk to someone

  • Either they were all really bad in bed and didn't satisfy you or you have some psychological issues and need to seek some professional help.

  • You have unresolved anger issues with some male in your past. You already know who this is, so I won't pry and ask you 1000 times who it is. Take care of this issue with therapy or you're going to be a serial dater and one night stand cum toy the rest of your life.

  • Because they've probably been an asshole towards you

    • Not always, I normally feel like the asshole

    • OK fine, then maybe you might have some issues around your true sexual identity. Please don't take offence I'm only trying to be helpful.

  • Ask yourself!

  • Your comment is soo vague.

    I mean if you sleep with men you meet at bars, clubs, etc. or which is more a stranger than anything - so hookups - then honestly it's your own fault for not having standards.

    Men like sex. It's natural. Most men have higher libidos than women and well if you're offering cheap easy sex without establishing boundaries or dating for a bit... do you expect them to hang around once they have had that cheap easy sex?

    Like what else is there to your relation particularly if these men are again hookups & more stranger than not.

    • No I’m talking more like, we meet, sleep together, then after I can’t stand them. And I cut them off, even if they didn’t really want that.

    • So you have no standards, are having hookups and afterwards are disgusted with yourself but instead of admitting it / that you are the one that is having flings, causal sex, etc blame men. Get help

    • Yes heard

  • Because you know you got used for sex and they let you down.

    And/ or, because you despise yourself, and any man who'd sleep with you is despicable. You want a man to tell you no, and to stop you from being a slut because he sees more in you and wants you to be the better woman he thinks you can be. Then he can be proud to possess you.

  • Possibly because they probably also despise you after sleeping with you?

  • Cause men are so selfish. Men should treat women better and buy them flowers chivalry is dead.