Why do I always get so nervous before I give a blowjob?

how can i get more confidence
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Most Helpful Guy

  • Are you nervous about getting things right, if you are just ask for him to be vocal about how things are going "just like that" "slower" "faster" "less teeth" "get some ice and call an ambulance" are simple queues he can just about manage and are not criticising... The last one would be a clear indication things have gone badly wrong.

    Also if he can't make any comment that makes sense then your doing it just right 😉

Most Helpful Girls

  • When I was young I practice on fruits and vegetables eventually I bought a toy and practice on that.
    If you want I posted my own question on BJs you should come by and read the responses. Give an opinion or ask the men there. that could help... Just take a look at what the men responded about it and you will see there is nothing to worry about. As long as you don't use teeth men won't complain lol.

    • thanks for the selection

  • What's making you nervous? Are you afraid he won't like it? Are you worried you'll choke? Are you worried about him cumming? Getting over being nervous depends on why you're nervous to begin with.

    • The first time i gave my now ex boyfriend head I was worried I would choke and or throw up.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Why get nervous... the guy is going to love it. Start by giving him a handjob and getting him close then finish with the bj. Just make sure he returns the favor every time... you deserve some good orgasms also.

    When a guy is getting a bj he is just thinking about the good orgasm he is going to have. Tell him ahead of time if you want to swallow or where you want him to shoot.

  • Don't overthink it. It's a very simple act. If you come across as not wanting to do it your boyfriend will pick up on that. You're sucking on his penis. That feels really really good. Just do it.

  • You’re worried it won’t fit in your mouth I guess

  • I think i can help, i helped a girl get over this once. what makes u nervous specifically?

  • cause you're putting your mouth on something that pee comes out of, and goes in your vagina, or butt (depending on what you do)

  • Practice makes perfect

  • Maybe you think it is a dirty act.

  • Just practice more

  • Practice makes perfect

  • More practice will give confidence

  • Practice, Practice, Practice on a friend

  • Remember you are in control of him. Just keep sucking it until he gives you your reward.

    • Can u pm me please

    • @Aalexis1999 Okay.

    • lol true she is in control. how long u usually have to suck for?

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  • I used to get nervous too but I would practice first to get better and ask him what he likes also its best to go at your pace. My boyfriend would try making me deep throat right away and I would get nervous so just suck the head first until you get more comfortable you can go further more. That made me confident I hope that helps

    • does it make them feel better if u play with their hair?

    • Yes it does

  • What makes you nervous?