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  • Sex is a basic desire designed by nature to encourage men and women to produce babies to keep life everlasting on earth. But for women, sex without intimacy is poor or not at all enjoyable. Women feel intimacy and closeness when they talk, touch, and share their thoughts and feelings with a loved one. They are usually more interested in intimacy than in sex. Sex or women is usually an end product of intimacy. A feeling of intimate closeness takes time to develop. Therefore, women want to take their time with a relationship. They want to go through the stages of getting to know the man, becoming friends, touching, kissing, hugging and showing affection. Eventually they get around to sex when they feel closeness and believe they are in love. Many men see sex as a way to get close to women, and even a way to please them. Time is necessary to feel a real desire for sex. When love has not been given the time it takes to grow for the woman, she often labels the man a poor lover and the relationship is stillborn in the bedroom. So some women do without desired affection, particularly in the beginning of a relationship, to avoid pressure to have sex. As men and women get older, women usually become more interested in sex for the sake of sex. So, for many single men and women, it can be true: love and sex are both more wonderful the second time around.

    It is a fact that Men talk and think a lot about sex while women desire it more often. Gone are the days when ‘demanding sex’ was considered exclusively a man's forte. It is physically pleasurable is amongst all the other reasons to remain glued to sex; this is the most prominent one. Good sex satisfies girls physical urge, sex is the most basic need.

    Ideally, great sex means you are enjoying the sexual act and participating equally. That is why Sanskrit word for sex is SAMBHOG, sam = equal, bhog = pleasure of having it. It makes you feel good about yourself, and satisfying him is a great pleasure. Sex brings us closer to our man. Physical intimacy releases hormone Oxytocin, which is also known as the love hormone. It is a very important ingredient for any relationship to sustain. It helps couples to nurture the relationship and strengthen the bond. So having more sex with your partner means lesser cases of infidelity for both. This is not the only thing we have to do, but honestly it gets us closer.

    Sex is not just a physical sensation but it is comforting and relaxing. Whenever we have a bad day at work, sex really helps us unwind. It totally takes the stress out of our mind and makes us feel relaxed and rejuvenated. Sex involves a lot of deep breathing and touching and the hormones that are released during the act calm you down. I find myself always thinking about my husband because of our intimacy, and what we did the night before. It gives me a kick and makes me crave for our next session

    • What a detailed and well thought out post. What interesting points, especially about participating equally in sex. The only thing I find a bit weird is that as a guy who is more conservative romantically, I'd be wanting to wait some time before having sex too. Maybe my testosterone levels are lower or something.

Most Helpful Girl

  • I want sex 24/7 but can’t ever get it , which makes the situation worse. You aren’t the only one.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Setting aside the obvious reproductive functions, intimacy and sex are a way to communicate, to make a partner feel they exist for instance, and are desired. Being single since the death of my wife a few years ago, of course I'd like to have regular sex, but what I'm really missing is the plain physical contact of an intimate girlfriend. Keep in mind that one can pay for sex, but real intimacy in its wide significance can't be bought.

    Now, I guess there are degrees in wanting intimacy and sex. If the urges are high, basically there's nothing wrong, but the origins of those high urges may have a psychological background. The sex drive is still not the same for every individual.

  • because it seems so much better when they go together.
    You no longer feel used, and it is an expression of your feelings towards each other.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • You’re a horn Dawg 😎

  • You sound normal to me!

  • Because it feel nice! 😊

  • Who doesn't?

  • Because You are a Sexual Creature That Is alive.

  • Take a good long look in the mirror and you'll see the Devil staring at you.

  • Sex addiction.

  • It's like a drug.

  • Men and women both want this. It’s normal.

  • Because you are single?

  • Your hormones are RAGING and you have a REALLY high sex drive!

  • Your a girl with a high sex drive. I am not sure how old you are but woman sex drive increase when they get older.

  • It’s the horniness

  • Because it feels good. Both intimacy and sex.

  • Reproduction is important for a species to survive, so obviously your nature supports it.

  • Uhhh. Maybe cuz you're human?

  • I mean why not. It is something that you're craving for because its jus not enough or your SO is not able to give you that.

  • Natural hormones

  • You are human and you need sex.

  • Horny

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