Why do I become so easy when I drink alcohol?

I’ve had only one night stands when I’m drunk and when I’m not I never have sex.
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Superb Opinion

  • you lack self control and what to be lead into intimacy without taking responsibility for the occurrence, in other words, you want a convenient excuse of being flexible under the guise of not being fully conscious, even though drinking any substance is a fully conscious decision.


    Or perhaps you want to argue simply because you want to see if anyone can poke holes into the plot, and as society would have it, the drunken defenseless woman narrative is a proven get out jail free card many have exploited.


    Or... your easy because you've always been easy and want to give the credit to alcohol because some women want to be ladies publicly.


    Could be wrong though

    • The thing is I wish I was that easy when I’m not drunk but I can’t somehow bring my self to be that way. And that’s why I have a conflict because drunk me does all of that and sober me doesn’t and vise versa 🥹

    • I think this notion of being easy is flawed and illogical but what is far more important is if whom you are easy for. Being easy for a man that is healthy, diease free, hygienic, who's mentally stable. Its hard to argue why you wouldn't be easy for such a man. However how the heck are you going to know all that upfront? This is why I believe women look for green flags like clean shoes, clipped finger nails, good hair, etc etc. Also might be worth figuring out why you feel insecure

Most Helpful Guy

  • You have a desire to debase yourself and alcohol lowers your inhibitions. Alcohol can’t make you debase yourself. There’s some hole in your life that needs field.

    Or you like shutting it up and alcohol again lowers your inhibitions. Which is cool. As long as you’re being safe about it, have fun while it lasts.

Most Helpful Girl

  • No self control and you just blame it on "because I was drunk" to give yourself an excuse..

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Alcohol disolves your inhibitions and you express your otherwise-repressed desires.

  • Alcohol loosens your inhibitions, makes you more agreeable to doing things that you wouldn't typically do.

  • Because alcohol numbs our ability to think properly or think of consequences

  • Everyone becomes easy when they're drunk lol it's not just you.

  • You lose your inhibitions. I am the same, so I will only drink at home.

    • @Nikki1989 My place or yours? What do you drink? LOL🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • Call me when drunk ;)

  • Maybe you dont really like sex or maybe you can only let your self go when you are drinking.. you should get help if that is the reason. just talk to someone you trust.

  • When you’re drunk you’re not yourself and not thinking straight. What can feel like being carefree is really being out of control. With no control or straight thoughts you remove many self limits, albeit in a terrible way.

  • Inhibitions seem to be loosened, and sober thoughts, often become drunk actions

  • Nikki is exactly right. inhibitions disappear, decision making changes, etc.

  • Because alcohol loosens your inhibitions.

  • It's something inside you but alcohol reveals it..

  • Alcohol is a lubricant.

  • Because it gets rid of your inhibitions