Why do I cry while getting intimate with my guy?

Don't get me wrong he doesn't do anything that I don't like. It's just that I get so emotional and passionate and I can't stop myself from crying. He is so comforting and warm. Makes me want to do everything intimate even more intensely with him. WHAT IS GOING ON?

Have you ever had this happen to you? Why does this happen?

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Superb Opinion

  • i never cry 😂... i think it's normal for a girl to felt abused when it's her first time doinh anything sexual. my first kiss i break it off, a certain touch i find i'm molested i break it kff again.. i keep breaking off it's my ex who cry... if there's one person i owe so much it's my ex. most patient boyfriend award. but i am in love so i push myself

Most Helpful Guys

  • Hmmm. There could be multiple reasons. First, when do you cry? Is it with him before, during or after sex? Does your crying or need to cry increase or is it just spontaneous without rhyme or reason? Does he fulfill some long desired hopes or dreams?

    Or is this something else; is it possible that he reminds you of something darker that happened to you in your hidden past unrelated to him?

    • I have shared my every dark memory with him. He didn't disclose much but from what I came to know, he has had much traumatic past. I started crying then. That was my first time. Then the way he held and comforted me, I was crying since then till we crossed every limits and did everything.

    • Thank you for MHG!

  • It is Tears Of Joy. Please make sure he knows that. You don't want to discourage him.

    • Yeah, he knows 🙂

    • Knowing that is what you are feeling will empower him further to want you to feel that joy. It will feed on itself.

Most Helpful Girl

  • It's never happened to me, but I know it's a thing just from looking it up in the past (I'm a writer, I look up a lot of random things).

    I'd say it's nothing to be worried about or ashamed of. I just hope your man can be understanding about it.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Maybe you're pregnant. Have your breasts swelled?

  • That’s actually very normal and natural for a woman to cry during intercourse. It’s very comforting and all the emotions involved. I think it’s very beautiful. That’s why I think making love and romantic, caring, soothing sex is the best.

  • Wow... guaranteed boner killer

  • Same , I don't know why. Struggling with this

    • I think it’s beautiful when a woman cries during intercourse. When she is happy, feels safe, feels loved, with all those emotions that are released right before and during climax. It’s natural and healthy. Love making and romantic sex is amazing

  • I think its bec u dont let your emotions out mostly... and somehow that too much of pleasure n satisfaction n love tear u up... just a though I don't know for sure

  • That’s pretty normal. Getting intimate with someone is a very emotionally charged experience. Some people laugh, some cry, some purr and stretch their arms and legs out like cats

  • That's not uncommon because sex can be a very intimate experience between two people

  • You must have found an amazing guy and you are crying tears of joy. You are just very emotional

    • Yesssss 🥺💗

  • Perhaps its because you have never met a guy like him?

    • Yeah it's true, I never met anyone like him and I wasn't like this ever... like ever. His touch and feel is so warm and passionate. It is driving me crazy. I should be getting happy no? I don't know why do i cry uncontrollably 😭

    • Yes, you should be very happy. Maybe you should talk to him about this?

    • He says he doesn't know why I do this but he still comforts me. I love this

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  • Does it hurt?

  • I feel ya

  • Never had that happen it

  • Yup, you've connected emotionally with the other person. You must have very high hopes, i would suggest you guys spend time to know each other first.

  • Because you're not worthy of that pleasure

  • q k ap ny kbi aisi feelings mehsoos ni ki jo is k sath mehsoos krti ho.

    • Hn aisa hi lg rha hai 🥺

    • ap ko lgta ha k wo ap sy zyada pyar krta ha. ap ko lgta ha k wo jesa pyar kr rha. pehly kisi ny kbi ni kia

  • I assume he was the one that asked you out and pursued you or hit on you

  • You have created false fantasies in your head and use those and build up sex to mean more than it is.

  • There’s happy tears you know

  • You're just being overwhelmed with emotion, nothing bad is happening.

  • I dont know it happened to me too with my ex