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  • This question catches my attention. Someone once said to me, if you don't have a plan, you are part of somebody elses. I dont know you, I dont know if you go to school, have a career, party, I dont know. What I do know as an older man in this changing world is that traditional values are coming back like a hammer. Women want to be appreciated for more than how sexy they are, they want to be beautiful, at least I think they do. Men, want a woman they can make plans with, build something with. That man and that women are never going to meet one another in hookup culture and I am not saying that you are down for that, but if you are asking this question, you aren't dating men, you are dating boys.

    The most fantastic, the most devastating woman I ever met (you can tell how that worked out) I called her my fantasy, and she was, I am not a one night kinda guy at all, I need friendship first, she was my little kindred fae; If I had thought to say she was my dream instead, we might still be together and I never got over it, even after 11 years. And we live in a tiny remote community, it sucks. But we both deal, it was a fuggin ugly split.

    Chase yourself, try and woo yourself, be your own fantasy and you might end up some mans dream :) Hope that helps dear :)

Most Helpful Guy

  • Are you very attractive? Guys are drawn to a girls beauty , if you are well put together and you dress sexy or nice , and you have a sexy body , beautiful eyes etc.. a guy is going to imagine fucking you , Most guys are drawn to a girls beauty that’s what makes him drawn to her in the first place , so in a sense you are a guy’s fantasy if you are very attractive cuz he will picture you in bed with him, Men are visual creatures , Girls are as well , but not as much as a man is , A girl is more drawn to a guys masculine energy and the way he presents himself , or his personality , or his status , she is turned on by those traits in a man so more on a emotional connection level A guy is manly drawn to her beauty first and then her personality, A guy expresses his love for a girl through sex , that’s how he feels close to her and he feels she adores him and wants him and respects him , when she gives him sex and initiates sex with him he is going to be a happy man When she stops giving him sex he will feel unloved and unwanted , he will feel she doesn’t desire him anymore which could push him to end the relationship or be acceptive of another girl that wants to be in his arms , Why sex is important to a man in a relationship , That’s his way of showing her he loves and adores her , if a man doesn’t want to have sex with you , then he is more than likely up to no good , or he lost the passion for you , when a guy feels like he can’t initiate sex with his girl she better be prepared to be dumped or replaced

Most Helpful Girl

  • Because your beautiful and you probably fuck good! Lol

    • I do 🤭 but only if I’m in a relationship.

    • can i get ur ig?

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  • I know what you mean, I feel that I'm the same for women. I often want to scream "I'm a person too you know!!, not just a piece of sexy meat for you to glare at".

    • That’s how I feel. They have no idea what to talk about with me.

    • Its a burden some of us have to deal with.

    • guess I’ll be single forever. Lol I can’t seem to connect with anyone at all.

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  • What features do you display?

  • I think you need to give more info for meaningful answers. Do you mean as a sexual fantasy?

  • So sad, that's how some guys turn out to be.

  • You might be looking in the wrong place. Also trying to hard maybe and/or making it to easy? Men likes to date down to earth ladies that is femenin, and if it's all looks and titts then they don't take them seriously as a potential relationship. Try to tone down your sexual side, keep it sexy, but not "easy" of you get what i mean.

    • Ummm I don’t dress slutty. Lol.

    • That's not the point. The main point is you are either or both looking for the wrong set of men by always going for a specific type. And always going for the same type and expect a different result, well that's a sign of madness. Also if you behave like your easy, then they might think your not dating potential. You say you don't dress sluty. let's but that to the test. On your IG if you have that, how many bikini pictures and similar do you have on it?

    • I don’t have ANY bikini photos. I don’t post things online like that. And no I’m not easy. I make them put in effort and I’m classy. So I’m not who you’re drawing up in your head, respectfully.

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  • It could how you are dress or how you carry yourself and maybe your personality. I am not saying change all that but maybe tweak it a little bit and find out want gives off the fantasy vibe.

    • I think what I meant (after thinking this through) is I feel like I’m inaccessible (quiet, classy, pretty but not overly friendly) to them so they just stare and come up with who they think I am. I leave a lot to the imagination.

    • Okay then maybe find a place where you are comfortable and go with one or couple of your girlfriend's and try to push yourself and get support from your friends to be a little more vocal and maybe even a little vulnerable and open.

  • Just prob are, they just don't know how to approach you to date you because they might think you will say no

  • Because your beautiful and amazing

  • Every guy would like to be with a beautiful woman so if thats what you are then you are every guys fantasy.

    YOU however are the one who has decided that that is ALL you are.

    • You’re right. Totally. I am just really shy and keep to myself mostly so I don’t come off very friendly.

    • I actually have depression too.

    • Well it's unfortunately true what they say that you have to learn to love yourself before you can share love with someone else so you should work on your self love affirmation stuff etc.

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  • Dunno, maybe because you see something nice in the mirror?

    • I am pretty sexy lol 😂

    • Really? How sexy are we talking about?

    • Natural Redhead, 5’9”, pale, 135 pounds

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