Why do I feel like this,?

I got raped by someone i know, i didn't enjoy it but i didn't feel very depressed or hated them I don't know i didn't felt like it was a huge crime i wasn't virgin already , is this a normal behaviour?
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  • I don't know the numbers (and I'd probably find it too depressing to look into too deeply), but I know it does happen. Don't let people tell you you're not traumatized enough; your experiences are not about them.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Looks up fragmentation. Sometimes the mind will protect itself during a traumatizing moment as a response to fight or flight, but later on it'll be gone once you're safe and you might start to experience symptoms as a result

Most Helpful Girls

  • I don't know sometimes stuff only affects later on but try to tell someone about it

  • Aww oh no. Maybe you care about them. I’m sorry this happened to you 😢

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  • There could be many reasons.
    Perhaps we should discuss this where others can't see

  • Sounds like it was something different from cold forceable rape. Like something got out of hand.

  • I'm so sorry this happened to you. I know a guy who was raped by an older woman he trust and he said initially he felt nothing. Months later he became extremely depressed. I hope that doesn't happen to you, but Id say get counseling if you think you need it.

  • You should tell someone and report it, hopefully it hasn't been too long since it happened so you can do a rape kit.

  • Make a police report

  • Date Rape. that's what it would be called

  • Normal. He probably raped you in a good form so that you liked it.

    • The fuck is wrong with you?

    • Dude what the hell?

    • Who even says stuff like this?

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  • I want ask question to you. Is he cum over ur inside?

  • Maybe you was in need for this fuck 🤔

  • After being r*aped or molested it sometimes doesn't hit you yet, for me it was like "obviously that happened and why am I not reacting, which did lead me later on to depression. Take care of yourself