Why do I find myself attracted men twice my age?

At first i thought it was gross but now I'm imagining myself with them and all of that I don't know what to or how to stop it should i stop it does it matter I just need opinions
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Not exactly a update I don't know i have 10 more months till 18 hopefully that fly by so i can do whatever but it's very hard to wait
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  • for kinda the same reason pedophiles are attracted to youngsters... only in reverse. its a preference.

    there are a lot of woman who prefer more mature guys, and the more mature guys have different qualities to offer a girl than young guys do... its not a bad thing, and it can be very exciting for you to experience an older guy...
    you dont need to stop the fantasies, as its NOT strange, weird or wrong in any form... its a preference you have in the same way my preference is for pretty women in their early 40's... and some others may prefer members of the same gender... absolutely normal feelings.
    it may feel weird to you, because its a newly discovered fantasy, but still, its a completely normal desire...

Most Helpful Guy

  • Wish I fixed your criteria Sometimes people your age can be to immature and therefore will not light your candle Older guys Have normally earn a little more Have a car possibly have a house They are much better at sexual activities and make you feel safe and secure

Most Helpful Girl

  • This is normal as long as you can legally consent. I love older men. When I was 23 I had sex with a 45 year old man and loved every moment of it.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • How is your relationship with your father?

    • Never met him don't want to

    • Most people who read your last response will conclude that comment indicates the source of the problem.

    • Yea ig but I don't know why

  • Hang on till you are legal age for your state, and preferably at least 18. Then you can do what you want.

  • Some like the maturity

  • when you are legally an adult it doesn't matter at all what you find attractive but until that point please play safe and keep it as a fantasy only

  • 18 is not set in stone for mental maturity, you know. Some people never mature

  • You may find men your age too immature and want someone with experience. Just be careful.

  • until you hit 18 i dont think its going to happen but i guess if thats what you want then sky is the limit

    • Yea 18 isn't far but I don't know what happened it just hit me

    • it happens, around your age i only liked women my age, now im also into older women, peoples perspectives change sometimes i guess

  • It’s completely normal, don’t beat yourself up over it.

  • First, reach the age of consent. Then you do you.

  • I think maturity and success has a lot to do with this, and if your father was never in your life than that could have an affect on you.

  • Not unusual.

  • you tell us..

    • I don't know i hate being told what to do but with certain guys i just do it with no hesitation

  • Unless it’s a problem in your life I wouldn’t worry about who you’re attracted to but pay more attention to what attracts you about them? It might be their maturity, the way they treat you, their ability to see past superficial, etc. that is where you could focus your attention and really hone in on some self development

  • No, you want the experience you are receiving.
    Older men know how to treat a woman.

  • Totally daddy issues

  • Security perhaps?

  • you are fairly normal, but under 18, he may want to stay out of jail

  • You have old man fetish.

    • 32 isn't old tho

    • At that age men have saggy testicles and wrinkles on ball sack

    • Ig I just really want one, someone who looks younger but isn't

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  • It’s the daddy issues talking. Ignore it until you’re legal of age and think about it again

  • This tip of question make me never want to grow up.

    • Wdym