Why do I get so turned on by him?

[Anonymous]

I have a problem yet it isn't quiet a problem but every time my boyfriend of 3 years comes and spends time at my house we start things out normal as in talking and cuddling and being sweet and romantic yet there is a sudden turn of events where we just lay next to each other and i get extremely aroused and i can't control myself, but he also gets aroused but he keeps it there. His looks: Green eyes, Dark brown hair, Slim body and a big heart that loves me, He isn't strong yet he's my type, there is just something about him that arouses me to no end, what can i do to stop being a wild beast of sexual intamacy?

[Anonymous]

I feel like we all have someone at some point who we're so insanely attracted to that it kills us. At least I have. It even goes beyond all reason. Like you know they're not THAT attractive but your body is like "you need to have his babies like NOW"

[Asker]

ironically that is what my body says and then i have to remember that i'm still young and we are not married yet and he wants to keep that special time until we are married

[Opinion Owner]

Sounds torturous.

[LionelMerelGlisem]

You're turned on because you love him and you have very romantic time together.

[guy532]

Why wouldn't you want to be one? I'm sure he loves you that much more for it ;)

[Asker]

after a year of dating he kept saying "I love you and i have planned my whole life with you", i want to wait for him and not just go for it and not be ready to handle the consequences of our actions

[guy532]

Ahh so you're just afraid that you feel so strongly for him and that if things go wrong you'll be crushed. Fearing your fears can make them a reality. Don't think about it, just do what feels right :), good luck you two!

[Anonymous]

dont lose that keep it