Why do I get this pain?

I had sex for the first time today and it was really good though it didn't last long cause it was my like a quickie for my first time sex so I haven't broken my hymen yet since he didn't go all in deep but I came back home and I feel a stinging pain when I go for a short call. What could be the reason for this pain any help guys?
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  • Hey, the first thing to do is not panic. Worrying will only get you sick.

    If any of it got inside you, even if he wasn't all the way, it's possible. There is a pil you can get at the pharmacy that will prevent pregnancy if it wasn't that long ago, but you only have a few hours to take it.

    Guys can tell when they're about to cum, so he would have known if he came inside you. If your hymen is still intact, then he didn't bust it all the way, but that really doesn't mean anything. There's a chance you might feel nauseous because you're worrying yourself over this, which that's understandable, but there are some things you can do.

    Here are a couple of online sources to help better answer your question.

    This link connects you to a sight that tells you the pregnancy signs.

    https://www.webmd.com/baby/guide/pregnancy-am-i-pregnant

    This line here is a quiz that will better help you figure out if you're pregnant, but since it'd a quiz, it may not be entirely accurate, since a lot of this depends on your body.

    https://www.verywellfamily.com/am-i-pregnant-3571886

    I hope this helps

Most Helpful Guy

  • Read answers and seems like it's all speculative.

    May I suggest, ask him to do it again, this time make sure he's in all the way.

    Bear the pain and possible blood. Once for all break your hymen (possibly still intact).

    After that, you may pain for a week if he's rough. But it'll heal.

    I know I sounded lack of understanding. But it's better to "get it done" than trying to figure out what happens to you with the unrest of mind.

    Anyway, just a personal opinion and suggestion.

    • Thank you

Most Helpful Girls

  • You could definitely get pregnant your first time regardless but you should be fine if he pulled out, although there’s always gonna be a risk with precum and having sex alone, it’s just life but take a plan b asap if you’re worried about pregnancy, just get on birth control if you guys wanna keep doing it unprotected or use condoms. Congrats! I was 22 when I lost mine.

    • It’s normal to feel a burning sore feeling, yes.

  • Wear a condom next time. N it'll take 48hours from the insemination to really know if ur pregnant. Ur first time was fast but hope it was good n memorable. U will feel a little uncommon things but it's ok.. congrats by the way

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  • As a random guess I'd assume its some light vaginal tearing. That sounds serious but it tends to heal in a few days. If that is what it is, remember to lube properly. Nothing wrong with using lube even for piv. Often makes things more enjoyable.

    If it gets worse or persists past a few days without diminishing I'd see professional help. Usually is just torn a little though. No lasting issue. Think of it as any muscle. You lifted something too heavy and your arm is sore for a few days. That kind of deal.

  • I'm going to say because of your first time it's stretched you a little and broken your hymen which las left a small tear which your urine irritated!

    • But he hasn't yet broken my hymen like he didn't penetrate deeply for him to break the hymen so the hymen is still okay

    • Your hymen is only about 1" or so from the outer edge of your inner lips (labia minora), so it's not like he has to bury himself to the hilt to get to it. It's almost certainly got a tear in it now, which is completely normal, and it will probably get torn in a few more places over the next couple of times. After that, you won't get that stinging anymore.

  • Well from what I've heard, the first time for women is normal to maybe sometimes feel uncomfort and some pain but I'd be lying if I said I was certain

  • What is a short call?

    • Urinate

    • If it doesn't clear up soon I suggest you see your doctor.

  • You posted this yesterday

  • This is so confusing