Well I think you answered your own question it's that if you were to pretend that you didn't want to have sex but always said you were powerless and being forced into it there's a turn-on about that just by the way he does things and you don't have to do anything except for say no LOL it's being powerless at the same time loving something so good it's just a total turn-on it's just like most guys they don't really have the confidence so when something like this happens and a girl goes from no no no to loving every second of it then he thinks he's a stud LOL and in his own way he is so when it comes together for both of you and makes it even hotter that's my fantasies are so hot because if you both know what each other likes then you can act it out and just make it so hot for your partner I mean all guys enjoy being able to pick up a girl put it where he wants her to be in any position and make her like it LOL I think it's just another hot k i n k. No matter what it is what can't you see it might be experience and if you can talk to your partner it say this is the experience I want to experience and you make it happen for them it is a major turn-on
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It’s pretty much your body reacting and kicking out loads of endorphins.
These are your bodies opiates / candy.
you get them from pleasure, pain and fear.
the pleasure ones are often the easiest to understand and seem straightforward.
those from pain and fear, are often more complex, especially fear as it includes shock, things like degradation, uncertainty and Other emotions that unbalance you.
This is why often with some, just telling them what you are going to do, can leave them exceptionally turned on and even orgasm, just from the anticipation and suggestion.
the tone of voice, being forceful in how speaking, gestures etc all work with creating that head thoughts of what will happen.
Then when it turns physical and that real powerless situation kicks in, your brain gets smashed off its tits on endorphins, which in turn causes the person to hit a sexual high.0 0 0 0
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You tell us! How you felt, what you feel.
You experienced it.
For me... There is just something about the man, when he is bigger than me, and he initiates it. Leads it. When he simply 'do' me.
Knowing that I am smaller, weaker, fragile, but despite that, he is not being gentle with me, he confirms he is in control each time he holds my neck, squeeze my butt or breasts, holds me tight while fucking me, with no mercy, letting me know things are about to go only one way - I am being fucked hard, will cum hard, he will fuck me as he likes, and there is no going back, there is nothing I can do about it.
For those 30 minutes or 60 or whatever, I forfeit my body and my control to him, and if I am fucked hard... There is just that... Mental satisfaction after... I catch myself smiling, even if I had a shit day.
Its hard to explain, I could say more. But yea, it's kinda hard to explain it in few words.3 4 0 0Mm just reading that got me all hot and bothered lol. I need to find another guy who will dominate the hell out of me again!
If this comment got to you, it means you relate, you feel in a similar way. And how can I explain it... Its not just about the moment, but if you analyse yourself a bit, you notice that many hours after the act, you feel... More happy, more confident, and somehow more stable. like thinking to yourself - if I could take THAT fuck, forfeit control and get through it, I can take whatever life throws at me!
So it is not just for sex? How is it daily? Most of the time leads to rough sex?
I love it! Makes me so much more turned on amd ready
1 4 0 0So being under pressure turns you on sexually?
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4 42i've been felt up pretty good by a man on occassions never by two or more but i did like it.
0 0 0 0i think most woman like being dominated during sex. Foreplay can start out sweet and tender, but when it comes to sex, they want to be on a thrill ride.
I've known few women who didn't love being gripped, pinned, positioned, lifted, penetrated deep and hard, pounded roughly, and even had their hair pulled, ass slapped, or wrists restrained. In fact, many get a thrill from being bound and helpless. And I'm just talking about normal sex, not BDSM, which I'm not into. I don't even like choking women, even when I put my hand on their throat.
I think women typically get a thrill from being powerless in the hands of a man who is larger and stronger than them, and who is driven mad with lust for them.
And the fact that she can take what he dishes out makes her feel powerful.0 0 0 0Because you are a female? :)
1 2 0 0That’s really interesting. Cheers lovely
Glad to help. :)
What the source even is? And this is about BDSM couples, who already had their roles established.
Probably cause you subconsciously think he's dominant and assertive, seems confident. Of course the same actions also describe a guy who's toxic masculine and has boundaries issues.
0 0 0 0Firstly it's the feeling that the man feels so aggressively sexually aroused by you to the point where he can't control himself. Secondly, it's the instinctive desire for a strong man who could protect you, and the feeling of being over-powered shows you his strength. Some people also believe that it comes from the past when women would be taken as war brides.
0 0 0 0I think you would be in a way way, much better position to know about why you... get turned on by what you like... lol
0 0 0 0I love how you talk you turn me on, I think you and I would be very like minded in bed? But I guess it's just the same as how I like to pull at your hair make you eat pillow, ass up face down, tell me you fukin luv it etc etc plus I think near the end of your question you gave yourself the answer! Xxx
0 0 0 0Why does anyone get turned by anything? Your feeling is quite common. Being forced is one of the most common female fantasies.
0 0 0 0BDSM is just that to another level. Fear and arousal tend to make some go that way, I suppose.
0 0 0 0Everyone is different when it comes to what turns them on. Some, like you, enjoy being submissive and controlled. Others want to be in control.
My SO likes having her hair pulled during sex. I've been with a few women who, when I pulled their hair, immediately told me to stop.0 0 0 0Sounds like your submissive in bed and like getting dominanted.
0 0 0 0"being used" by someone you trust can be a huge turn on.😏
1 1 0 0Because you are normal, MILF.
0 0 0 0The hemispheres of your brain aren't synchronized. Your left hemisphere is more dominant.
0 0 0 0You're not alone. Millions of women like rough sex, however most only like it when they feel safe enough to stop it if it goes beyond what's turning them on.
0 1 0 0Yes that's your feminine energy getting stimulated by the opposing masculine energy, its simple biology. That's meant to happen.
0 1 0 0Its is the dominance feeling and most girls do love being the submissive one in a sexual relationship. It mostly how dominant he is if he just throwing you around giving you pleasure in the way he wants to that's fine but if he is causing pain that can turn a girl off.
0 0 0 0The animalistic desire and lust that they show you turns you on, the fact that they can't or don't want to conceal or control it. The fact that on some primal level they want to mate with you and empty themselves fully into you.
0 0 0 0You love being submissive… and helpless to a strong man.. a lot of women do. It’s conditioning probably. But as a guy, knowing that is a turn on.
0 0 0 0yeah a lot of people just love being dominated in bed... mostly women but many guys like it too
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