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Why do I have a spanking fetish (sexual related) when I'm against it being used on children?

Spanking I favor and get turned on
In my mind, the only type of spanking for me is the one between two consenting adults either during sex or as foreplay. My fetish always involves harder spankings, where the bottom has bruises.

Spanking I totally hate
If a partner hits my future child with an object (belt, hanger, ruler, flipflop, sandal, paddle, etc) then not only will they find themselves with assault charges but I'll fight to get custody. I'm not joking.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • It's because we were never one of those kids who got spanked and our bodies well our ancestors got spanked so much for so many centuries our bodies went hey whats going on aren't we meant to be hit? And our body now thinks we need to be spanked so it gives us the desire for it in only one way possible sex. But at the same time knowing the pain and for it being done for anything but pleasure is awful. It's like needles we use them for blood or medicine hate them but some people use them for a fetish.

  • I love belt spanking but never would do it to a child. As an adult with a partner it’s sexual, as a kid being hit it’s a punishment.

    • Thanks for MHO!

Most Helpful Girls

  • Because one is between two consenting adults that enjoy it, while the other is forcing it about an unwilling child that most definitely does not enjoy it. The same would apply to pretty much anything fitting that description. Pretty much all adults enjoy sex, but pretty much all adults are absolutely disgusted by pedophilia.

    • Thank you. Yes, it makes sense.

  • I don't know thats something to ponder... I like being spanked sexually, but I also think children need to be hit sometimes to learn proper behavior.

    • My father used to hit me with a belt when I was little and it was used as first resort. I learnt nothing significant other being forced into submission and obeying out of fear. I don't want to repeat that with my future child/children. A child is to be loved and in my opinion there is nothing loving about hitting them in anger/frustrated, esp with household objects. At least getting spanked sexually it's something you can enjoy and you consented to it.

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  • You have very common fetish. Just go with it. I'm a huge spanko. Pm if you want to talk about it. Not hitting on you. Just offering to mentor.

  • You are assured that your ass is strong and independent, unlike the children ass. :)

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=75gUJ_4SyY0

  • I think it because there is a difference between the spankings one is between two consenting adults who is only fulfilling a sexual theme and literally playing around.

    While spankings towards children is used as a correctional technique for children behavior. So practically it might be spanking but both spanking are used in two entire different reasons.

    I were constantly beaten as a child and I definitely ain't going to hit my nephew nope but yes it is normal to have this fetish and believe me there are tons of people who have this or any other fetish.

  • Did you get spanked as a child? Or witness it? That could be the reason.

  • Spanking is for adult foreplay--it's too good for kids!

  • I had a spanking fetish since I was 8. I never understood why. I had to strip naked for a spanking with a construction stick as a child. I believe there were sexual triggers with being spanked as a child and confirmed that with much research. I like getting spanked brutally but I am totally against spanking children because of my experience with it. Not only does spanking risk triggering sexual experiences, which can be damaging to a child, it also causes PTSD, deep feelings of shame that carries on much into adulthood and deep humiliation and feelings of degradation. Bare butt spankings is a gross invasion of a child's privacy and Sexual Assault On A Child would be the correct charge for that.

  • Regardless of how many people have a spanking fetish, I just can't see any turn-on about it.

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