Why do I lose interest when I sleep with a guy?

[osoli]

Lately I’ve been losing interest in guys once I have sex with them

[hbg84]

Well its because you've become desensitized from screwing multiple people so often you no longer have the ability to feel anything one you have sex with a guy.

Honestly you need to refrain from sex practice abstinence. Maybe seek a sex addiction support group. Find religion and get your priorities and life back in order.

[Summeroflove]

Because a relationship should be more then sex. Sex should come later…. After marriage bur at the very least LATER…


Yeah that’s pretty typical

[Anonymous]

It sounds like the conquest is what turns you on, not the guy himself. Once you’ve had him, the appeal is gone.

[Wendysbitterapple]

Maybe because you're not sexually satisfied then you are

[savagewolf22]

You're sexy.. Available for 15min ma'am?

[Wendysbitterapple]

@savagewolf22 5 thanks but I don't think you can handle it

[savagewolf22]

Aww really? You like 7.9inch size?

[Wendysbitterapple]

@savagewolf22 doesn't matter on the size if your skills are not up to par it doesn't really make a difference

[savagewolf22]

That's awesome... Allow me to perform 😊

[Tomisworthless]

Wendy quit acting like you’re difficult to pleasure also this dudes a catfish so not sure why you’re entertaining someone posing as someone else in order to get female interaction

[osoli]

Wendy? Girl the sex is really good, but I still lost interest :(

[Justaguyagain]

Post nut clarity maybe? you should get your priorities right i think

[Dargil]

Perhaps you jumped the gun and didn't build fondness.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Because you are dating for sexual reasons only.

Date based on sex, common interests, hobbies, and personality, and you will want to spend all your time with them.

[BarryLiverstone]

How many dates and how long have you known him irl before having sex?

[osoli]

Like 3 months and the other one 1 month, somehow I’ve slept with them and loose interest

[BarryLiverstone]

You lose* interest because getting to vibe with them there isn’t more things you connect with in other parts of life. Like what are you passionate about and did they also share those passions?

[osoli]

You might be right. We don’t share much in common

[BarryLiverstone]

I get it, as human beings we get horny and after 3 months I’m sure he felt kinda safe to have sex. But after that if you don’t feel the connection in other activities it’s better not to be in a relationship with him. Knowing this, how can you find a better relationship so that you do share values and feel excited to be other him inside and outside the bedroom?

[osoli]

Ur right! Thank you

[BarryLiverstone]

You are welcome. Hope this helps. Ideally it would be best to find a partner we enjoy having sex with over and over as well as going rock climbing and watching a movie together.

[osoli]

Yes, I guess it’s the common interests that are missing. I was just going out with him because he’s a good traditional guy and sex is great, but he’s kind of boring :( sadly

[osoli]

I honestly hadn’t thought about it until now

[BarryLiverstone]

I’m glad you thought about it. I’m sure he doesn’t feel like he’s boring but he may have interests in things you find boring. Obv as a couple you could discover more hobbies and adventures but if his energy wasn’t into that may be best to find another traditional guy who matches your vibes more

[Sparkie460]

You get what you need from him then get tired of him

[savagewolf22]

It's happened with me too once my d enter into her p then my interest on her fly away from butt hole...

I blocked her next day then new chase begin lol

[osoli]

This is so bad! Usually it only happens to men. Hate it! Haha

[savagewolf22]

I'm fuckboy I want new variety of foods everyday i get bored from eating same food everyday...😊

[osoli]

Does this mean I’ve become a fuck girl? 😅

[savagewolf22]

Yup you're female version of mine 🤣🤣

[Tomisworthless]

I’d say the way your responding very enthusiastically to him I’d say yes

[gag37627]

There are no fuckgirls, only cheap girls. She can understand herself now

[osoli]

What is cheap about not being interested in a guy? Wtf

[mommymommymommy]

The chase is always more thrilling than the actual catch

You got what you wanted. He's no longer attractive

[shanshu]

Because maybe they are not satifying you?

[OddBeMe]

Because sex isn’t what you really want.

[CubaPirate]

Is it a challenge achievement

[Thirsty4more23]

Cuz ur disappointed in their performance 🤷🏼‍♂️😂

[osoli]

No… the sex is good I just don’t like them anymore after sex

[Thirsty4more23]

So u just want to use them for sex and move on? 🤔

[osoli]

Not at first, but once we have sex that’s what kind of happens

[Thirsty4more23]

Ahh ok well that’s what some guys want but I can see ur point of view 🤔

[Greenbins]

That happens to a lot of people.. my suggestion is to never get into a relationship and just have hook ups.. you will be happier

[riverrat3]

Challenge is over

[Cheerfull009]

Because non of them satisfied you sexually

[Anonymous]

I guess there wasn’t much of a challenge before it got to that point