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Why do I love being dominated in bed so much, but hate it so much in my daily life?

So I've found out I don't just love being dominated in bed, but even insulted and awfuly humillated. However, in my daily life I'm constantly strugling with people for the lightests offenses at me. I've lost a lot of friends because of that, and I even have a non so good relationship with all my family.

So this situation started to kind of worry me after I slept with this guy I had fought with so much. As I used to live with him, we used to always fight about things related to the house. We did even shouted to each other, and, as he is a very disrespectful and bad educated person, we would even insult me with bad words and stuff. But then came this time where we threw a party at home and almost everyone got drunk, including him and I, so we somehow ended having sex. And that was were I discovered he was just as rude in bed as outside of it. The problem was... I loved it. It was for sure one of the most fulfilling experiences in my life. The way he made me feel by insulting me EXACTLY THE SAME WAY he would do outside of bed left me in this trance moment, completly turned on and disposed to anything he ordered me to do.

So I don't get it. I'm pretty sure I haven't ever met someone so susceptible or sensible as myself, yet I love this kind of behavior in bed. Should I get cheked?
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Oh, yhea. I forgot to mentioned I slept with him several times after that. I got kind of addicted to it yet hated myself because of how much I disliked his personality. I kept feeling guilty until I finally managed to stop sleeping with him, but this is still something that worries me.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • It's a taboo. It's naughty. It can be a hell of a lot of fun if you're into it. I love playing with my sub, but I really do not get into humiliating or that.

    If you can keep a clear head, and you have a deep sense of understanding that the words said in fun do not really reflect who you are as a whole, I thinks it's possible to explore healthy submission. Try on the dom hat too and see if you also like that.

    Here is an interesting Memoir you might like:
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  • I guess its the only time you can be vulnerable freely and not gaf ab it or catch slack for it you know.

Most Helpful Guys

  • After all it was only body requirements.. it was fulfilled that night.. but I'm real. life if anyone disrespects you , sinalita you.. he / she is really worse kind of. himan being possible.. so don't go with this flow that it's gonna be okay some day.. just make sure your self respect doesn't get hurt outside the bed.. inside.. do whatever you feel..

  • You're perfectly normal. I'm the perfect, ultimately respectful gentleman in public but when the clothes start cumming off, her ass is MINE!! Literally and figuratively. I'm very dominant in bed and I'm into S&M, particularly spanking. In real life, I'm the head usher at a large church.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Go find a guy who will treat you well outside of bed but rub it in your face that you're a wet messy little slut in bed.

    We exist.

  • Lady in the streets freak in the sheets I guess

  • Becuase that's everywomen. Seriously learn how to socialize and talk to other women about these problems don't drag it out on GAG

    • You are wrong actually. You either socialize with gangs or you are so never taken seriously that women tell you those kind of things just to laugh from your reaction.

    • Well sorry I dont' speak passive aggressive pussy female beta sorry!

  • Because its the natural order to crave a strong mans seed

  • that's how it goes honey. SEX makes us all free and available.

  • Normal life Every people hates being dominated..

    But Dominated in bed is a kindly different topic related to your sex life

  • fidn a new guy

  • That's kinda unusual for a feminist.

    • That's what I tought when I asked this. Now I know it isn't.

    • Well, I'm a feminist but I'm always dominant ;)

    • Then why do you think my behavior in bed has anything to do with my feminist principles? xD This is something that could happen to a boy with a girl, without having anything to do with how feminist or not he is.

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  • Only you know. Tell us.

  • hi if possible can u message me i have a question... thanks!

  • sex life is different

  • I want to lead the relationship and the girl to be respectful in our daily lives, but when being intimate, I want to be her bitch and let her dominate me, beat me up, and make me her slave.
    I don't know why.

    • Doesn't it bother you?

    • It seems very difficult to find someone that is compatible because of that desire.

  • Sex does get weird, doesn't it?

  • I dunno what was said so I couldn't tell you.

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