Why do I love giving blowjobs?

I was with a guy I’ve been seeing for a while and I noticed that I enjoy giving blowjobs a lot. I like it more then him going down on me.. I was wondering why? It’s not like There is something in it for me while giving a bj.
I also like it when he get’s a little rough with it..
this is a serious question by the way.
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  • If there is a why, and there well may not be, I would speculate that you enjoy the submissiveness of it, esp when he gets rough.

    Am I right?

Most Helpful Guy

  • Oh, but there is something for you. Not an orgasm, maybe, but there's a lot of satisfaction to be had in getting someone else off. And unless you're really aggressive, he'll probably return the favor.

    Sex is very much a mutual thing. Relationships in general are more about giving love than than getting it- and that includes being generous enough to receive, that the person you care about can know the joy of giving. That may sound kind of schmaltzy, but you'll find it's very true.

Most Helpful Girl

  • I like that too. I even get wet while I’m doing it. You’re probably submissive sexually like I am and him being forceful or rough with you while you pleasure him shows his sexual dominance over you... which is the turn on.

    • Do you swallow or spit out?

    • damn thats hot. do most girls like that?

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I'm sure the guys love it! Do you also like giving handjobs? They are fun also!

  • Some like doing it and consider it a submissive role and it turns them on. Others view it differently but still enjoy it.

  • You like giving pleasure I guess :)

  • Could be something instinctive from breast feeding. An energetic BJ is a wonderful gift.

  • You must enjoy pleasing people and you also must like to be dominated to a certain extent. It's just who you are. Everyone is different.

    • That’s very true, in my normal life I like to help and please people.. did not know that there was a link to that.. I do like it when a man is dominant

    • 👍👍

  • Some girls just like it rough which falls into the freaky side which I do not mind.

  • Maybe it’s a thrill or kick out of it I don’t know. Maybe it’s good exercise or pacifying feeling like a pacifier I don’t know

  • because you're a giver. some people are like that and enjoy giving more than receiving

  • thats really hot! do u think most girls like this? what u like best about it?

  • You love to please some girls love eating dick

  • We are wired to be social. Part of that means we like to please others, this is what is at the root of your enjoyment of giving oral

  • what is your favorite part? that's the clue, if it's when he explodes in your mouth the reason may be differnt than if you like the feel in your mouth... "Break it down"

  • I feel completely opposite since I am man. I like giving oral to woman. And I enjoy it a lot. I believe giver gets more pleasure? Making someone happy that is.

  • Why not?

  • you sound awesome. Let's hang out sometime.

  • may be you afraid receiving blowjobs.

  • I know that's a hot quality of you

  • well thats very admirable of you, so you like giving more than receiving