Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health My boyfriend and I been together for 5 years, have been “saving ourself for marriage” but I’m horny aF I’m ready to fuck. But he’s not.
Not for religious reasons per say but he is scared of getting me pregnant mostly and like the cultural aspect of child out of wedlock.
like I’m the girl why do I need dick so bad and he’s fine not having pussy?
Why do I need dick so bad but he doesn’t need pussy?
kareenakapur Yoda
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Asked my boyfriend for oral and he said why not so let’s hope it’s good I’m nervous
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What Girls & Guys Said
15 59Because stereotypes are bullshit.
That’s v true. They always say girls have no libido. Like I’m horny as hell
They also say it declines with age, which isn't true either. Most things people claim are untrue. But then what do you expect from a species who thinks an invisible sky wizard is going to burn them for eternity just for touching themselves? Ignore the retards.
A lack of self control...
Can't you do oral?
Or receive oral at least?
There are so many more ways to please a woman than with just dick.
Are you guys talking about sex in your relationship? Do you speak openly or is even the subject taboo?
I give him oral but I’m too self conscious to let him give me it. Yeah we talk about sex all the time Bc I’m literally always horny. He just thinks it’s funny but I’m actually dying of wetness
So he's willing but you won't let him?
Yeah he was at some point lol
Why are you so self-conscious?
I don't know ur right I’ll ask him to go down on me
I don't know I’m like did I shave everything perfectly? When he’s far up he can’t rlly tell but what if When he’s close he can tell I didn’t and it’s not perfect. I know he doesn’t care but I do
If he's willing... take advantage of that. Some guys aren't and their wives are missing out
Lol just texted him asking him to do oral on me and he said why not lol I hope jts good nervous
I hope he has good game. I hope you thoroughly enjoy it
I’m his first he’s my first it will prob be bad lol but I will be open minded
It's hormone and sex is need so hota hai to have sex.
Talk to your boy friend for your need and anyway can use condoms and if anything happens like condom tear up can use pills.
And check whether he is not having any problem.
I’ve asked him. I feel like it’s Bc we were so young when we started dating. He’s like why not wait and he gets off rlly fast from ft’ing but I feel like I need more
@kareenakapur So when you looking to marry? Near future or taking time? he is good at holding than. Well today people don't thing much for getting intimate. Tell him you need and this is age if both are serious
@kareenakapur you choose a bollywood name 😃
I want to at least get engaged soon Bc we have to be quite secretive about our relationship. I’d love to not have to hide and watch my steps in front of aunties and uncles. Yes I did love karena Kapoor!
Yeah aunties eyes are more sharp than cctv cameras and with hearing capacity 😂😂
@kareenakapur yeah good going for oral. So you getting licked or you blowing him?
I have been blowing him for years but scared to get it back. So just asked him if I can get it lol he said sure so prob will see him in a couple days
@kareenakapur Sahi hai, hope you get licked and get orgasm you waiting for long😜😃😃 Waise kaha se ho?
Could be ADHD. Sometimes people with ADHD have issues being focally aware of their body often enough to like, experience their libido as often as it comes up. Treatment helps, though.
Watch porn in front of him and get his testosterone going
5 years is a lot of time. Are you sure he's willing to get married with you?
I hope so. He wanted to get married in high school but I was like no we are so young. finished college and was like ok now is the right time but he’s been having a hard time telling his family. He’s told them once but they freaked out and were like no. His parents don’t know we have been together for all this time. They are very strict and want to choose his wife
If they are strict then you should either tell them and they will accept it, you tell them they won't allow it but you'd decide to still be together, or you tell them they don't allow it and you decide it doesn't make sense.
He’s told them and they said no lol but he said it more as I like this girl not like this is the girl so he’s going to try again. But he’s really nervous. I would never dump him. If he doesn’t think it’s worth it, then I understand not wanting to hurt his relationship with them. But he needs to tell me :(
Can I PM you?
i dont know but i would love to give it to you right now myself. i am so fucking horny
I am in a relationship sorry sir
as i am not asking to do it just a expression of agreeing with and that i understand it all to well how it is to be in that position. sometimes it is overwhelming. like today LOL
Yeah I feel you I was that way when I made the question I’m ok now lol
Also got ate out for the first time yesterday so I’m good for like a week lol
Because he's stronger mentally than you are. But that isn't necessarily a bad thing. He's a man. He's a leader. You just need to surrender and let yourself be led by his leadership. Obviously he's making wise choices and he's doing what's best for both of you.
5 years is kind of a long time, though. Have you guys gotten engaged yet? What are the obstacles that are still holding you back?
Nevermind; I was wrong. If he's willing to have oral sex, then he's just as weak as you are.
You should look to get some side action if he's gonna be that stupid about it.
I ain’t a cheater
Women tend to get hornier as they age. Use a dildo.
But we are literally in our 20’s. Shouldn’t it still be high lol
Oh yeah. Women are horny all the time. It just gets worse as you age.
Great love that for me
All you need is someone or a couple someone’s to keep you satisfied
your sex drives are very different
Just curious, though, why haven’t you all just gotten married?
Yeahhhhhhh lol his parents don’t like me for him. :(
Well, he needs to stand up to them and marry you. I don’t see how he thinks they’re just gonna change their mind.
I don’t either but I don’t know his parents. Rn we are in grad school and his parents are helping with all of his stuff financially. I think he’s worried about them cutting him off too
Smh. It's always about money.
@kareenakapur Just out of curiosity, what is it the parents don’t like about you? Not saying they’re right about disliking you.
I’m a different religious sect. She wants to choose who he ends up with. And I think she doesn’t think im pretty enough. I know myself I’m cute ngl but I’m not a model. I’m smart aF. She wants him to be with a trophy wife essentially.
Mother-in-laws are such a pain.
@Jamie05rhs Wait. You’re single. How do you know about mother in laws? 😂
@mangospacho Everyone knows about mother-in-laws lol. They even made a song about it 60 years ago.
https://youtu.be/6EN5eJf5h_k
@Jamie05rhs You had to bring Ernie into this. Now my wife is wondering why I’m playing this song. 😃
@Mangospacho LOL!
Your sex drives are not aligned and I believe, in my humble opinion, it will be an issue in the future.
Change your religion from Islam to a more... better religion. one that does not let it's men fuck animals.
@manhater, She never told her religion, how you suggest her to change? Islam always orders to marry when you want sex, illicit relationship is prohibited
@zygum confused how he knows prob maybe a psat question but yes I am muslim lol
@kareenakapur, your username is strange, if you are Muslim, then you follow Islam
@Zygum You have a lot to learn when reading names.
You masturbate get you a big dildos that you turn on to feel like a real cock
Is he muslim?
Yes sir
message me inbox i'll let you know the reason
Why not here
well some people won't like it here they all are open minded people may be and its a religious thing so thats why i think i should keep it as private but if you want me i can explain here
He's probably not fine, but he decided to wait and will hold to that.
There are 11 common household objects I've seen while typing this sentence that could be fucked. You want what you can't have and perhaps won't wait. Don't blame you either. Marriage has turned into legal rather than a union.
Oral is still sex
But, if you think you can do it without being "judged" do it
I still don't think you two are actually in a relationship though
Why don’t you think we are in a relationship lol yeah oral is still sex but it’s not sex sex
because then, everyone who is "just friends" are also in one, they just don't call it "just friends" people get too caught up in labels these days. especially because they think guys and girls can be "just friends", lmao
I’ve sucked his dick lol I don’t suck my other friends dick. He was my first kiss. I don’t make out with my other friends either lol