Why do I sometimes laugh whilst sex with my boyfriend?
later he just lay there with his erection gone I felt bad in a way :/ we ended up saying good night and very distant.
What could I do? Has anyone ever experienced this?
Unless you two have some kind of understanding that allows for laughing and joking in bed... I mean that's gonna kill the mood. Ofc it is. He's gonna be trying to satisfy you (and himself too ofc), as well as having some passionate and/or romantic time with you, and if you're laughing... at the very least you're not in the same mindset as him, and it's gonna seem like the whole thing is a joke to you. And that's on top of whatever the reason was that you were laughing in the first place.
Joking about something on his face instead of being sweet about it -during sex-, and then joking that you gotta get up in the morning? Could you seem less into it? :/
Lol, I think I'm getting more upset about it than he probably is. I have some serious insecurity issues, and so something like this would crush me. I'd feel like such a joke and so inadequate. I would not want to sleep with her again.
Back when I was a kid, I had a girlfriend that was kinda like how you described yourself in your situation in bed. She'd laugh at something silly about me or that I'd do, often at frankly inappropriate times, and honestly it was fine. I've never had a problem laughing at silly things, even at inappropriate times, but the difference was that she never remembered to temper it with something comforting. No reassurance. For instance I'd dance weird because I hadn't really practiced it a lot, and she'd laugh at that, and I'd enjoy making her laugh and making light of it, but it also killed my urge to want to get better because she didn't have anything positive to say in regards to that ever. No reassurance that if I practiced, I could totally get better, or that she'd love to see me get better with a little practice. Or that she loved me in spite of that 🙄 Which ofc she did, but it would've been nice to hear, because the end result was that I just didn't want to dance ever again. Every time I tried, I'd be put down by someone, including her.
I appreciate the honesty! I am going to talk with him after work and just make it clear that there’s nothing wrong with him
Awesome :)
Excitement in the mind and there are a lot of component settings. Any extra thing can cool and kill an erection Laughter? Unshaven prickly or smelly pubis? yes! Anything! As the Buddhists say! When I eat I only eat! When you're fucking you shouldn't discuss politics or laugh)
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Sounds like you weren't totally into have sexual intercourse with him on that occasion - no wonder he went 'soft'Have you not talked with him since?
No I had to go early to work and he was still sleeping so we haven’t spoken since...
Not gonna lie I was tired
It would be better if you're tired to say so and not have sex reluctantly, because if you're not in the mood it's going to be not enjoyable for him too
Yeah
They don't think about our feelings
True we just want to smash you very deep and vigorously
What do you mean?
We just want the prize wich is your sweet tight , wet , warm pussy wrapped in our penises
Why did you laugh?
Because I was joking he had a spot on his face 😅 and also I had a bit of time pressure cause I needed to wake up very early so o was joking about that too... I feel shitty aha
Explain it to him and he might understand it and you don’t come off as horrible
I'd think if she's laughing instead of moaning and being so into it, I must be doing something wrong which is kind of a turn off.
Next time s as y you're laughing because he is making you so happy you can't stop yourself
u don't say ah or something and laugh?
u don't feel pain of your p***y getting spread?
if yes then i think its weird
Me and my man laugh and Giggle all the time during sex
Depends on what u were laughing at.
Not at him.. it was like out of the situation multiple things
Well u need to probably explain yourself to him and assure him that he wasn’t what u were laughing at.
Yeah I will do that once I get back from work... it’s just awful cause he was annoyed about it too
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