Why do I wake up & remain ANGRY the day after having sex with my husband?

I am loving, affectionate, chill & patient. We have sex about 2x a week but the morning after having sex w my hubbs I am angry, impatient & rude almost as if I was on my period or having a horrible day. I wake up just fine the day after this. this has only started happening as of a month & 1/2. We have been together 11years. I mentioned this recently & he just looked confused, well a few days ago we took a road trip & everything was great but again the morning after I didn’t want to talk & when I did he noticed & asked what was I moody about & to change my attitude & face. I then answered honey I’m sorry this is exactly what I spoke to you about. I love the man & he truly expresses his love in return. What are your thoughts?

P. s our sex is great, I am very attracted to him
Why do I wake up & remain ANGRY the day after having sex with my husband?
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  • Look up a condition called post coital dysphoria and see if you think it applies to your situation. It basically causes someone to be sad, irritable, or aggressive after sex. There’s not a lot known about it but it’s been theorized it could be a result of underlying trauma or inward shame over having sex. Others think it could the manifestation of a fear of abandonment or possibly a hormonal issue. Something to consider and possibly discuss with your doctor.

    • Will do, thank you!

    • Wow, crazy how this just started happening to me 😢

    • The sudden onset leads me to believe the cause is likely physical rather than psychological but that’s not always the case. Start with your primary care provider and see where it leads.

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  • Does he ever initiate sex?
    Maybe your subconscious mind remembers that he didn't initiate sex and your mad about it deep down inside and that's just how your anger comes out.

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  • I have a long shot question but it may be right. Send me your question after you follow me and we'll discuss. I feel like I can help...

    • My theory is a bit radical but I've seen this before and I turned out to be right.

  • I found this article. It might help with some ideas.

    www.everydayhealth.com/.../...-sex-depression.aspx

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  • Does he usually make you orgasm? Are you satisfied?

  • Try to go to a doctor to see your hormones, they can be the thing that are affecting you.

  • That's weird since you enjoy it.

  • Talk to you doctor about a hormone imbalance.

  • Maybe you regret having sex the previous day.

  • Well may be it could be the hate on yourself.
    Try to think are you satisfied.
    Or may b try something new.

    • With myself I’ve been great tbh, I am at the best version of myself, however the only change is that he has gained 20lbs & seems insecure & a bit unhappy w his weight but I actually dig it.

    • Its all you and its all in your mind just love the man

    • I am clearly saying I have no issue at all with my husband I am all about him I desire this man as a matter of a fact I like to initiate sex...