Why do idiots shame people for being virgins?

Being a virgin in these days and age is something to be proud of.
Why do idiots shame people for being virgins?
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  • Why care? You do you.

  • Totally agree, it's something to be proud of

  • I’d admire adult virgins nowadays, if anything, for not letting the pressure of this hook-up culture push them into losing it to someone they didn’t love or really know. I’m a virgin myself who had a few opportunities but bailed when I couldn’t see anything lasting past that one night

  • Because they are promiscuous idiots. Or just have no respect for others' decisions.

  • Yeap, I like virgins.

  • Idiots want virgins to be idiots too

  • Guys are shamed for being virgins because it's usually a reflection of their desirability by girls. Unless it's for strict religious reasons, if a guy is a virgin, especially past a certain age, then it's because he's viewed as sexually undesirable and unwanted by women. It's the reason why "incel" is a commonly used insult, especially by women. It's basically saying that because a guy can't get laid, he therefore has no value. The same general idea can be used when girls shame other girls for being a virgin. They believe that if she was truly desirable by guys, then she would've had sex by now.

    It can also be a defense mechanism used by girls who need to justify their promiscuous behaviour. They don't want to be viewed as sluts so they shame virgins to be more like them.

    Guys might shame girls because they want an easy lay and a girl that sleeps around is probably more likely to hook-up with them than a girl that doesn't do hook ups.

  • Facts not submitted into evidence there, sis. Dunno what you're talking about.

  • You should be what you're trying to attract.

  • I agree, wish I had waited... but you said it... idiots are everywhere and they want people to feel bad.

  • I find it bizarre that guys would shame girls for it. Most guys I know prefer virgins. Or maybe its other girls shaming you?

    • No, nobody shamed me for being a virgin, it's just something I constantly see on social media.

    • well you will see a lot of weird/extreme stuff on social media, don't take it too seriously. Some platforms are pure garbage tbh and its actually better if you stay off them, like twitter or tumblr.

  • An ego thing most likely. Ironically, it'll most likely be the virgins that do the shaming. I can reassure you that the colours remain the same, water won't turn into wine and food still tastes the same.

  • Well, because people- especially teens- are cruel to one another. More than likely virginity is just being used as the weapon, if it wasn't that it would be something else. The same reason people get crap for their looks, because that's the exposed weakness and that's what assholes use to go in for the kill.

    It's about causing the other person pain, and it's a shit thing.

  • Waiting until marriage is something to be proud of.

  • I agree with you and I think you have answered your own question: they're idiots.

  • Not that I agree, in fact, I actively disagree, but they consider it to be lame.

  • How would they know you are a virgin?

  • Because they want to make you feel worthless.

  • The same way why others do slut shaming

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