Why do men always force sex talks even after saying NO?

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Oh, these men I'm talking about has been single for a long time "as they claim". Probably the reason for that is their sick mentality.
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  • First of all, guys have a main goal when dating and that is sex. They will agree with everything you say and ill tell you everything you want to hear as long as they get in your pants. The guys you are talking to clearly give it away. Only they are completely clueless on how to deal with women. That's why they fail in creating proper sexual tension. Where are you meeting them? Dating apps? Well that's where all the desperate dudes are.

    • Online, they messaged me on Instagram and says they found me on their suggestions. Some are from Interpals.

    • Well, it's always easier to be overstep boundaries online since there is no confrontation. Like I said, these guys have no game

    • Okay.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Never had a problem with it because I treat women with respect. I'm not saying after We have been talking for a while I won't bring it up but if She is the one that brings it up I will open up about it.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Because they want to hook up and think they have a chance

    • Was me being ugly and not having any experience has to do with them thinking they have a chance?

    • I'm sorry I've read it over a couple of times but I don't get what your asking

    • Oh, I mean, do you think this kind of men approached me because I'm ugly? And by that, I mean, does my ugliness make me look desperate? Or does my ugliness have to do with the way they treat me - like some easy girl?

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  • Some won't take NO for an answer. No means no. A guy does not have to like it and may need to masturbate instead but it is what it is.

    • "to like it" to what does it refer to here?

    • They just have to accept that no is a no.

    • Okay, i reread it and I finally understood. 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

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  • Because they don't care where you set the boundaries at. These type of guys just want to get their fix.

  • Only douches who don't respect you and think sex is the only thing women have to offer do that

  • They lack respect. Who’s been bothering you hon?

    • Some guy in Instagram

    • Block him and report him.

    • Thanks. It's just tiring that only men like these would approach me.

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  • Cause they’re gross

  • Because some men just won't take no for an answer for whatever reason.
    A good extreme example are rapists.

  • Because their thirst is overwhelming

  • The reason is you. You are engaging with individuals below your standard.
    Back when I was a young man they used to teach girl that if they said no to a boy then they needed to stick to that decision, because any further engaging on subject was a invitation to problems further down the line for them.

    • So, I replying NO to their attempt is me engaging to them?

    • If you are in a public place & a guy start to speak to you & you feel uncomfortable or awkward & you inform the man that you no long wish to engage in a conversation & you say no thank you but he keeps talking & you reply to leave you alone then you are still engaging with him. To end the engagement you need to ask him to leave. If he doesn't then ask the establishment to remove him from your presence

  • They don't. Just your boyz.
    And besides, it's all based on your FEELINGS, which are highly likely to change at any given moment.
    Why are you dating if you don't want to have sex? Just for stuff you'll get? For entertainment purposes? Maybe free dinners. [shrug]

    • I see. I guess, it's because I'm ugly and without experience that this kind of men are the only ones who would talk to me. And these men probably assume I'm desperate because of that.

    • Also, these feelings you say doesn't make anyone want to "do" random guys.

    • And what a shallow mentality you have to think that people only date to have sex. Is that your reason for dating? Figures. What a lonely life you have here.

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  • Ah, Internet...

  • You should block n move on why all this dramas? 😂

  • Are you tolerating it? If so, then just block them when it happens. Men who do that are desperate fools.

  • Because women change their minds eventually when their gynee starts to heat up unconsciously

  • Who has been doing that? Thats rude.

    • There's a guy on Instagram that messaged me. He said he respects my NO but keeps pushing the topic. There were others before him.

    • Damn thats messed up. Do you block them?

    • Tbh, I easily get triggered that I tend to say mean things and they would leave me alone after calling me many insulting names.

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  • Because they got hurt

    Just as men hurt women, when they cheat

  • We don't some do not all

  • Block him or stop talking to him.

    • Also, you aren't providing a lot of context here so it's not really possible to give a good answer for you. Just don't go on Instagram or social media and don't talk to guys on there if you want to avoid guys like this, it's full of guys like that. Go out more if you're looking for a good guy, they aren't online I can tell you that.

    • I wasn't really looking. It happened to me more than once. They randomly message me. I asked how they found me and they'd say through suggestions.

    • Well, I do block people. But hey, I like to rant. I'm not really hoping for a good answer here.

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  • Why do you keep talking to then?

    • No it's not that, it's how they been raised or allowed to be or just are now

    • I guess so, probably had to do with their culture. Most of these men came from countries where men are prohibited to casually mingle with women.

    • What

  • Force sex talks?

    • Yeah, they start by asking if they can ask a personal question. I ask what it is. Then, they say it's about sex. I said no. Then, they say stuff like "you're an adult", "this is just for fun", "don't worry I'm far im not really touching you", "im not forcing you". After that "im not forcing you", I'd say no again and they go back to the topic like a broken recorder.

  • What do you mean force sex talk?

    • After saying NO to them, they would ask and ask again and it's just going in circles until I get triggered and say mean things.

    • I think because there getting mixed signals like a no but you touching his crouch or smiling like flirting while rejecting him that's kinda confusing

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