Guys, Why do men cum as soon as they stick it in?

[Anonymous]

This one time I got with a guy and he came inside me so quick in the first dip I was like what the hell? He apologized but what does that even mean? Does he need pills or something?

[Bricealan]

That has happened to me, as I did not even get in her all the way. I worked with her dad, at a trucking company, during college days, and had spent time at her home with her mother. She had jacked me off several times, and one time asked if I would fuck her if she let me. Of course I would!!!

Hardly get her pants of and me on top, no foreplay, just in and 'bang' I want off after pulling out quickly. I was 21 or 22? I think, and she was 19 or 20. Shit happens when you are 20 something with very little sexual experience.

[FunkyMonkee]

Maybe he was EXTREMELY horny and didn't need much to take him over the top.

I've fucked hundreds of times and it's NEVER happened, to me!!

The ONLY time I ever came without sex was about 2 months ago. I was just sitting here completely dressed and, for about 2 hours, I was watching a few pornos and I never even KNEW that I came until I got up to pee and discovered something gooey in my underwear!! I never even TOUCHED my dick or anything else until then!

[b_lova]

Orgasm is more mental than physical. If a guy is mentally worked up sexually he could blow from a gentle touch of the right person.

May I suggest that if there was a next time you tell him it's okay, in 5 minutes we can try again. I am sure he was embarrassed, but typically premature ejaculation doesn't mean one and done. If you reassure a guy and don't push his insecurities he will rise to the occasion.

[Billlewis]

Oftentimes it's because we're so excited about having an opportunity to have sex with you, so we're very aroused.

[Levin]

Chu just too hot, girl.

[TadCurious]

It could be a number of things. He may not have had sex for a while and/or he was so super aroused and turned on by you that he couldn't hold it back. He was just as frustrated by cumming to fast as you were. It happens.

[ProbablyClueless]

Foreplay provides a lot of stimulation, so we're usually pretty sensitive by the time penetration happens. Also, many times, when a guy cums quickly like that, it's because he hasn't been taken care of in a while.

[bowenw]

He may have already been close from foreplay

[DarkWinterNights]

Take it as a compliment.

[RHK36]

It means you need to stop sleeping with boys

[BarryLiverstone]

It means he was hard and ready to cum. Likely through foreplay he got close. Why did you feel upset?

[Asker]

I was upset because he came outside my lips before even sticking it in. I wouldn’t have had a problem if he would’ve came inside me

[Asker]

I just noticed I forgot to put he *didn’t even cum inside me*

[BarryLiverstone]

So if he had cum inside you that’s ok. Was it the mess on your lips that you didn’t like?

[Asker]

No it was the fact that he came before he even pumped me.

[BarryLiverstone]

Ok. How many times has he had sex with you prior to that experience?

[Asker]

A whole year before that lol

[BarryLiverstone]

Gotcha lol

[BarryLiverstone]

But back then he did pump inside

[Asker]

Exactly yes. Several other times

[BarryLiverstone]

That’s unusual. So this was the only time he didn’t go inside. What was different this time?

[Asker]

Nothing. Just that it was morning sex I guess.

[BarryLiverstone]

Ok. Well when you tried it again was it better round 2

[Asker]

Yes lol but I’ve always loved sex with him. He’s really good at it. He just surprised me is all with cumin before he even reached inside

[BarryLiverstone]

Like I said he was probably ready to cum before going inside you. Lots of times we get morning wood and can have wet dreams in the morning

[Asker]

Alright lol I thought for a moment he probably had an issue

[BarryLiverstone]

It’s an issue if he keeps doing it over and over. Hope this helps?

[Jersey2]

Maybe you have a magic pussy

On the plus side, he should get hard again soon so gibe him ten to thirty minutes and play with him. He will last loner the second time around. Do that for a week and he will be fine.

[Jersey2]

Give him*. (Don’t want you gibing him whatever that is…)