Why do men encourage women for casual sex and favors when purity is so "important"?

There is an odd thing where men will often ask girls for nudes, blowjobs, sexual favors, and even encourage promiscuity, but a woman's body and her "purity" are important?

Which is it, are women just objects you can ask for sex favors for or are they priceless if they have never had sex before? I'm very confused on this.

TL;DR: Why do men ask for so much sex and favors yet also expect to have a pure woman in their lives?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I love to invite women to sex related things and I mean well I'm not attracted to men in specific so yes when it comes to talking about sex o sexting nudes etc I do that with women. But I have my personal line:

    I choose women who only are looking for the same thing as me, just a fun conversation they if it turns horny then with both approval we proceed.

    I never look for women under 22 or virgin by any means. Which is kind of difficult for me to know because most women don't go saying I'm virgin everywhere but that's why I prefer looking for women up to 28, maybe 37 years old.

    Then again I would not be looking for a pure women cause honestly finding something like that means your looking for a 17 year old girl turning 18 and virgin. Which I found disgusting for men to approach women being older then 21 looking for that specific.

    What I would want is a women with pure intentions, saying that meaning if the women is in a relationship don't go elsewhere sending nudes and sexting or making other men masturbate while you talk to them anything sex related because being married or in a relationship now that must be taken seriously.

    As a matter of fact women are always experimenting with sexual behavior from teens or at least up to 2019 things are getting to be like that. They want to explore and found sexually attractive for other so I do encourage women to find men from their own age to unfold a friendly behavior where both can share sexually to explore. If you share nude may they be only private and mutual, don't trust everyone on the privacy.

    I have like a really admiring feel for women in there 30 and 35 single and sometimes if they want to share how they sexually feel I'm there or what they want to explore etc. Also I look forward for it to start as a friendship, not just sending nudes the first message. 🤷🏻‍♂️ I don't know if I'm worng but I don't feel I'm doing something wrong whenever a women ask out if I want to share me sexual stories or desire with her on the phone.

  • They aren't the same men. There are two, very distinct types of men. You cannot please both, so you have to make a decision on which type you ultimately want to be with and make lifestyle choices accordingly.

Most Helpful Girl

  • men will ask for a blowjob 90% of the time that you don't really know or to be casual... sometimes you'll want to and other times you won't... a blowjob is convenient as you don't have to get undressed for it or get pregnant from giving one... to give one can be very satisfying

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  • Purity is only important for relationships, not for casual sex. You're conflating the two.

  • Hypocrisy. Plain and simple. They want the freedom to do things that they don't want their partners doing.

  • First off Your grouping every man into one lump sum and guess what that doesn't work. It all boils down to sexual strategies. The alpha males use a sexual strategy where they bang as many women as possible to spread His DNA. Beta males on the other hand don't have that luxury so they focus on one woman and invest a lot of time into raising their children. One strategy is a throw back to the cave man days and its outdated for modern civilization and produces low quality children. So the alphas don't give a flying fuck about chastity. The betas care about chastity because they want a faithful wife whom will stick around till the children leave the house. So if You have plans on getting married one day you might want to realize Your most valuable asset is right between Your legs and the more You use it the less its worth and yes I tell that to My daughter all the time brutal but true.

  • Some men have different preferences for casual vs longterm partners, but it's not always the same men saying both of those things.

    • Some men want casual sex and don't care about purity,
    • Some have no desire for casual sex and do value purity.
    • Some men want casual sex but also value purity when they are looking for commitment.
    • Some men have no desire for casual sex but also won't hold it against you if you're not pure.
    • I'm actually not attracted to loose women because I prefer a lady. I am also not into casual sex because I prefer to wait till I fall in love. I won't wait till marriage but once I decide I want to proceed then I have no problems with commitment because honestly that's all I ever wanted in the first place because I enjoy emotional security.

  • It is men hypocrisy.

  • have you done a sex favor?

  • Because, if they can get you to relax than it's not their fault it is yours. Because most men don't know what the "Power of the dick even means". Much less how women are affected by it

  • Both. Hos are nothing but sex toys. Virgins are precious. Its also a test. If a girl acts like a slut at a mans suggestion it means she is a slut and therefore just to be used for sex. We want to respect a woman who demands respect by saying no.

  • When men ask for those things it is becaise they are thinking with thwir other head... ignore them becasue this means they have no means of self-control, even though most of them know better.

  • most men are stupid , That is the reason

  • Purity is not important. Participation and loyaltyand honesty is important.

  • we want a female who has dignity and class long teem but if we meet easy whores that fuck, we’re not gonna turn it down that’s just stupid... but those girls are useless except for sex

  • Mostly sand people / other religious nuts who think that way.

  • Guys that say this shit are self-serving hypocrites. They encourage promiscuity because they want to get laid. They run up their body count because that’s what’s most important. Hardly any woman would invite such a selfish lover back. (As long as he gets what he wants, who gives a fuck about her pleasure, right?) And they want a virgin for marriage because they believe a woman who doesn’t know any better won’t complain about them being terrible in bed.

  • Why is it important to be humble while also constantly improving yourself and marketing yourself?

    Why is it important to be generous, but also be frugal and hold on to your money?

    We want the benefits without all the responsibility. It's human nature. I want every girl I date to be a virgin, but I also want her to act like a whore. It's not supposed to make sense.

    • That is a fair point you bring up.