Well, it's certainly not for everyone. I can enjoy many variations in a woman. This means I do not need her to be this or that. I love a woman for who she is, not what she wants in bed. However, I admit I am fascinated by a girl who craves this from a man. I feed of the energy she emits from the butterflies swirling around inside her. Face it, men are more powerful and it is almost instinctive in some women to crave displays of our power. I love how a girl can't contain her smile when she is lifted off her feet and man handled a bit. In some ways, it is a position of service to her. A man needs to discover her inner fantasies and provide them for her. If it were all about his satisfaction and he didn't think of her, why would she come back for more? Even when there is a bit of pain involved, he is responsible for balancing in the right amount of pleasure in the mix. You know? A spoonful of sugar helps the medicine go down. In the end, I always had a particularly sweet spot for a girl who craves this side of me. I have even went into seemingly vanilla relationships to find a girl who wanted this type of relationship in the end. Those girls who have yet to come to terms with their inner desires are extra intense experiences. I am not trying to come across as some man of the world here and I damn sure ain't ever gonna be anyone's Christian Grey. I never saw the movie and don't intend to. I would be considered very mild in comparison, I'm certan of that. I haven't even had a large number of girlfriends. However, I am good with helping a girl get into a comfortable place where she can feel safe exploring this side of herself. And for me, it is more about the quality of my experiences and partners than it has ever been about quantity.
Men are generally stronger then women, both physically and mentally, It's likely that your man would like to dominate you not only in bed, it's simple that you allow him to do it only in bed.
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Because we woman don't do shit in bed but lay there and moan... sometimes being in charge makes sex more enjoyable for both partners.
Well ur a boring fuck. Jus lay there N moan?
You obviously didn't understand what I wrote.
Ya I understand jus fine. Ur saying all woman jus lay there and moan therefore having the man dominate makes it more enjoyable for bith. Not all woman LAY there and MOAN. That's lazy and boring. Men would not cum back
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!So, when I do dominate, it is in a role-playing context -
So, my Ego doesn't feel the need to dominate in bed or anywhere else-
So, a buncha' times when I was dominated, my orgasms were spectacular-
So, I maintain a perspective that tries not to stereotype Gender behaviors-
So, I understand the difference between dominate and administrate-
So, does this mean I don't qualify as a Man?
So what?
I Soooo feel like one!
It's very simple in the wild men are stronger more aggressive. He provides his family with food and defend his family from wild animals and danger.
When this method move d to sex she would be subservient to her big strong. He would be dominant because he is the house hold provider. and defender. So take his woman.
Maybe they love it more once you beg for them to stop lol
Because women all love being dominated.
Because girls seem to learn from Cosmopolitan that this is the way it works.
Dude, Cosmo hasn't been around that long :P
@GirlScout There have been magazine with ladies showing off their knees since the dawn of time
But knees don't suggest you like being submissive... well, I'm the right context they could be ;)
Because pussy drives most men insane...
Aliens, that's the answer to everything.
If you're with a man into fitness with high testosterone, expect to be dominated!
I actually like being dominated. I think its a generalisation that guys like dominating women. Some guys like dominating women, thats just their personality. Some guys like getting dominated. Thats their personality.
yes, we do
I honestly don't like it that much, I just do it for the sake of girls. I'd rather be dominated.
I think that by making sex 'harder' on her, I feel more desired. It's like if she's having sex and it's just gentle and feels good and she orgasms, well maybe she just enjoyed the feelings but not so much wanted me.
If she craves being used hard and is excited even when she's struggling, I feel desired much more?
Nonsense. It's mostly women who like being dominated and fantasize about being raped. Perverse creatures... you are
Lots of women like it, I've done it for their benefit but it kind of creeps me out. I think it's an instinctual thing, it releases something in them.
i honestly like being in power, dominating a girl give me that feeling. knowing I'm in control turns me on. also some girls like it because it makes them feel helpless.
Simple. They are abusers
Go back to tumblr.
@MaskedSanity And that is? Was that supposed to be a insult lol
It saddens me to admit that there are times when a man can mask abuse with dominance. This is what makes it sticky for good men whomhave this edge to them to introduce this side of themselves with a new partner. However, there are men who are very kind and gentle yet sexually dominant when the mood is right. To be successful at this with a girl, a man has to be in tune with his girl and very sensitive to the subtleties in her body language. It really is a dance of sorts. I think you misunderstand this, assuming it is all about a man asserting his will upon the woman. In actuality, he needs to be skilled at learning what she truly desires and provide her with that, often even helping her discover what she is maybe even unaware of. He can't box all women in to some cookie cutter formula. To assume all women who want to be dominated in bed means they all desire to be spanked is sexual suicide. To assume all men who are sexually dominant just want to disguise abuse is short-sightedness.
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