Why do men just want to have sex with promiscuous women, but not date, marry, or get into a relationship with them?

Men have no problem accepting sex from a woman no matter her past history. As long as she's clean, it's a green light. But when it comes to getting into a relationship or anything long term, men usually would not consider a woman with an extensive sexual past. Why?
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  • One of my ex's was a stripper/escort and made it very clear that she couldn't give an exact number but 100+ different dicks has seen her tonsils and i said not worried about your past just the what you do now. It lasted 2 months and she broke my heart. So basically men assume that a woman that has a past is gonna want to keep doing it in her future. At least i do from a couple experiences with promiscuous women.

    • Why would you even consider being with a woman who has been with 100+ men? 😱😱. She probably has something

    • Why would you even start dating a former prostitute? have some pride man!

    • For one I wanted test results before hand and also a person's past don't define who they are. If you spend your time worrying about someone's past then you'll do it with all women's past and I don't need a virgin or a prude. We had fun for those 2

  • Because an extensive sexual past indicates promiscuity, which is not optimal when entering monogamous relationship

  • Because many men can't handle the traditional family anymore. That's why they need to sleep around and suddenly backtrack when they realize they have to settle down eventually.

  • Cause their weirdos

  • Because once guys find out that she's promiscuous and will have sex with most people, they use that to their advantage. And when they realize she's promiscuous they assume that she doesn't want a relationship so they think all she's good for is sex.

  • Not sure how many guys are like that, but guys who actually fit that description are ridiculous. Think I remember reading a Take written by a guy who admitted he loves to sleep around yet avoids sleeping with girls who also have a long history of sleeping around or something like that. I don't get that hypocritical reasoning.

  • I'm promiscuous when single, loyal af in a relationship, just like the typical man

    • Sure you are 😆

    • I am, I've done things with my man we agreed upon, but I've never cheated in my life

    • It's great that you love sex, nothing wrong with that. I think the only reason I care about a woman's sexual past is because that can prevent me from really loving her. I just wouldn't feel comfortable knowing she's been with other men. If I just want sex, then I don't care if she's slept with the entire state, as long as she's clean. Though, when I love or care about her, I feel different and DO care about her past. Why is that? I always wonder

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  • Mostly because they're too insecure to trust a woman who has fucked lots of other guys. As for why they just fuck them, most likely they haven't had sex and feel it might give them a confidence boost they need to get back into the dating world or just be able to say they're not a virgin

  • Its not only the men its what the women in the situation can give you a vibe if it a wham bam sort of thing or something more

  • Because if she doesn't think much of the sex act the probability of her cheating or getting bored is high.

    • Yes, agree

  • Because it doesn't make sense to commit to a person who seems to be unable to commit themselves.

    But not all men want to have sex with promiscuous women , a quite sizable chunk of men would decline any such offers for their own reasons.

  • Im a virgin and expect a virgin. I dont do premarital sex. Not religious, just disgusted

  • Because they r pigs and for some reason they don't see the big picture.

    • Ha ha ha... Good answer

    • Yea I thought so

    • Bold answer queen

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  • Even a promiscuous man knows a promiscuous woman isn't worth nothing in terms of a relationship or building a family, much less a decent will desire a whore as his wife or mother of his kids.

    • *man

  • I won't persue a woman who sleeps around. If you o0wn your lwga for me so easily, why would that change?

  • It double standard make me. fkg crazy. judgmental, superficial and hypocrisy.

    I don't care about her past, I care about our future

  • Men logic.

  • they'll most likely cheat tho

  • It's a personal choice. Like so many girls don't want to be involved with a womanizer. However, to answer your question, I think it's lack of trust, confidence and insecurity that makes some men don't date a woman like that.

    • Could it also be biological?

    • What's biology have to do with this?

    • Do you believe there's a specific reason why men feel negatively against women who've slept with many men? Due to a woman's psychology and biology, it seems unsound for her to do so more than a man. Evolutionarily speaking

  • Nah I'd rather have sex in a relationship

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