Why do men like blowjobs?

[Anonymous]

What does it actually feel like when you get one and what do you like about it? They're about pleasuring the guy only so I wanted to know if it's really that big of a deal. I'm not sure I want to give one to a guy. It seems gross. So I have a bonus question: How many guys would date a girl who doesn't want to give blowjobs? If you're a girl, do you give blowjobs it are you like me? by the way, I'm not shaming anyone for liking it or giving it.

[Saad_1992]

Even though many men may not realize it, they feel pleasure when receiving oral sex because it simulates a woman having an orgasm when his penis is inside her vagina.
When a woman orgasms, her uretus contracts. This contraction "sucks" up the sperm that gets deposited in the vagina, near the cervix. The orgasm then helps to move the sperm through the uterus and fallopian tubes. So basically, when a woman orgasms, sperm retention is greater and the chances of conception increase. While the male orgasm is probably more needed for procreation, the female orgasm does make it more likely to happen. And since it is in our biological instinct to make babies, we are are hardwired to feel pleasure from that "suction" so we'll be encouraged to make her orgasm, which increases the chances of her getting pregnant.
So when a woman gives a man sucks on her man's penis with her mouth, his body is tricked into believing that he is actually in her vagina and that he just gave her an orgasm without needing to put in any effort, and the suction gives him immense pleasure.

[truthbeknown]

A mouth can focus on a penis more than a vagina can. With the tongue and lips she can change the amount of pressure, technique and style. With normal intercourse, it is pretty much just slide in, slide out. So a blowjob physically feels a bit better. It has a heightened level of sensitivity compared to vagina intercourse. Also, seeing her head and face that close to my penis and taking it in her mouth is special and intimate and exciting in its own right. Many times a blow job is better to get off with due to be stressed out, or simply tired or not really enough time for a full sex. So it is a great option. Blow jobs as part of foreplay is pretty standard too. It is a big piece of the pie to leave out. If your boyfriend is clean and trimmed and you still find it gross, I would say you just aren't mentally mature for sex yet and still have that "little girl" mentality.

[tinyclit]

Oral sex is not gross at all. Sucking, licking and stroking a gorgeous nice hard cock is just about the most natural thing in the world for a girl to do. It's fun, enjoyable and satisfying. If you're thinking that cum in your mouth is gross, that's not the case either. It can take a little getting used to. It's one of those acquired taste sorts of things. You only need to swallow often in order to get used to it, then you like it.

[BrittBratt2416]

Because of the porn industry... that's why.

[sedrftvgyhujik]

Actually they existed well before porn and use to be the main service provided by brothels in olden times.

[Katsumoto]

@sedrftvgyhujik certainly not that common at that time

[summiter]

They feel great but only if the girl wants to do it. Why do guys like them? Cause they can't do it to themselves (99% of the time) They can and do give themselves handjobs frequently but a handjob from a girl always feels better as does a blowjob cause it is a new and great feeling.

[Answerdude]

All of the blowjobs I've ever gotten except two were unasked-for.

[Rosh612]

What's there not to like? I mean its the same if a man gives you head. Apart from that BJ have nothing to do with shaming or superiority of any kind whatsoever.

[NerdInDenial]

A very intense suction that feels good

[Atlas67890-]

Blowjobs do nothing for me... Don't be so presumptive.

[shadowarrior99]

Blow jobs are only good if the girl giving them is good at it. Otherwise, it's not a big deal for me, and I'd be fine with doing all the other stuff. 69'ing is usually more stimulating when it comes to me receiving a blowjob.

[dolemite68]

they are like my favorite thing ever i like it better than sex but i also like reciprocating for girls too so its definitely fair. It just feels amazing and really intimate. A girl that doesn't give head is a definite deal breaker.

[DaKing]

Because it feels really good and no I wouldn't date a girl who's against oral sex.
Especially if the reason behind it was "it's gross".

[catelyntje]

So you don't think it's gross?

[DaKing]

@catelyntje No I don't think it's gross. All I'm saying is I couldn't be with someone who's against it (both giving and receiving) so you have fun finding a guy who thinks like you.

[catelyntje]

You don't even know what I think. Where is this weird assumption coming from? And if you don't think it's gross, have you ever sucked one?

[DaKing]

@catelyntje Was it really that hard for you to comprehend what I wrote? I didn't assume anything... "so you have fun finding a guy who thinks like you." That means whether or not you like it, find someone who has the same mindset as you. I didn't assume anything. Have you ever licked your fingers, your lips your skin? That's the same thing a penis is made of... skin. What's gross about that?

[catelyntje]

So you sucked on one?

[DaKing]

@catelyntje Once again your reading comprehension fails you. "I wouldn't date a girl who's against oral sex" I'm clearly not gay. Also doesn't take a genius to realize that skin is skin, would always taste and feel the same no matter where it is.

[catelyntje]

But if you never tasted it how do you not know it's gross?

[DaKing]

@catelyntje Because it's skin... how many different ways can I say this? We're not talking about semen...

[catelyntje]

No we are not we are talking about sucking d@ck but how you know it's not gross if you never tried it. Little strange

[DaKing]

@catelyntje This kid logic... bye.

[Bleepasaurus_RexEwww]

Why do you like oral?

[Asker]

I don't.

[Bleepasaurus_RexEwww]

Oh... I was going to say that's the same reason he likes it but never mind.

[Decentguy]

because its awesome

[igetbi]

I wouldn't want one from somebody that didn't like giving one. But I love getting one.

[Thelegend28]

the same reason girls like being ate out

[FrenchyRomain]

why do women like getting their pussy eaten? BECAUSE IT FEELS FUCKING GOOD... wow that was hard

[kickme]

why do girls like jewelry, drama, bithcing and clothes and asking the stupidest questions ever?

If you aren't going to suck my dick there's no way I'm tolerating one tenth of the issues you come with.

[Glen68]

it feels more amazing then pussy and I love it because the girl is in total control of my cock and decides how fast she wants me to cum or to drag it out. plus it's just super intimate and in my experience the girls who like to do it get super horny while doing it. I've dated a few girls who didn't like to give blowjobs but after a few months we parted ways because I just can't stand not getting blowjobs

[Justin85283]

it's a very intimate act, giving and receiving oral... some people don't like being that intimate.

[Antmotor6770]

Because it feels so good that's why men like Blowjob

[Anonymous]

I'm not gunna pressure a girl for sex, but if I marry her and she won't suck me off that's a bum deal. Fuck that. I'm gunna give her what she wants, so I expect her to take care of me as well

[Anonymous]

I don't give

[Anonymous]

Bjs are a major stress reliever, for myself. Not too many things I can think of to cap off a long, taxing day at work that I'd pick over a blowjob before bed or a nap. Or nice surprise alternative to an alarm.
as far as why do we like it? I can't speak for everyone but to me its a gift. Kind of submissive and a sign of commitment. some people find it gross, and that's fine. I've met a few couples that have said neither were into oral before they had met but now that do