Why do men like/want virgin women?

Being a virgin and a girl is a huge turn off for me and most of friends. I noticed a lot of guys on this site want virgin girls which is odd to me because virgin girls are gross and bad in the sack.
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  • 1. Studies have shown higher incidence of sexual partner the greater the chance of divorce in marriage
    2. A woman's ability to pair bond with you goes down the more sexual partners.
    3. STI increases and increase risk of your S0 developing cancer. E. g. HPV is associated with increase risk of cervical cancer.4
    4. Depending on how many guys a girl wanted a relationship with and it didn't work out often results in her being unable to love the next guy as much. i. e. increase baggage both mentally/physically.
    5. Depression and promiscuous behavior are often link. 1 in 4 women in the states are on Anti-depressants.

    • Studies show that people who quote studies don't know what they are talking about.

    • @DizzyAster lol probably shitty ass studies too

  • It's not true that virgins are gross or bad in bed. Virgins are no different to any other girl, their virginity doesn't define their personality or their looks. Also, you can't be defined as bad at something until you've had a chance to do it more than once. Until then you are just inexperienced. We all start out as virgins and then we get experience and get better.

    If nobody would want to be with virgins then you'd still be a virgin and so would I and so would everyone. Except we wouldn't even exist because nobody would have ever had sex.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Honestly, I never heard men say they would want a woman thats a virgin. Thats unrealistic. Unless the guy goes for someone much younger in her teens. Most women are not virgins, and most men aren't either. I think its shallow for a man to go for a virgin when he isn't one himself and is probably sleeping around. I find that men who are like this tend to want control over the female.

    • Agreed

    • It's not unrealistic lol

  • Maybe they just lack confidence in themselves and their ability to give us pleasure...

    Hey guys... never think that please... just give it a go... after all it is pretty natural you know...

  • How can virgin girls be gross? I understand virgins can be bad in bed but gross? I dont really think so. Lol.

    • Just a big turn off

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  • Virgins are gross?

    • Yeah

    • Ok..

  • My current understanding is that it's just a myth that there's a physical difference with virgins. don't think I've ever had a virgin myself, though, so not sure.

    • There is no physical difference, it's all in the head...

  • I can see why they would be bad in the sack, but why do you say they are gross?

    "Being a virgin and a girl is a huge turn off for me and most of friends"

    This is a weird sentence. Do you mean you and your friends are gay?

    • Lol he said he and his friends share this way of thinking about girls. How do you get "gay" out of that?

    • @redeyemindtricks It can be read as: Being a girl (and a virgin at that) is a huge turn off for me and my friends. I don't necessarily think they're gay, it's just that the sentence is weirdly worded and it makes it a bit ambiguous.

    • Ohhhhh lol you read it as "being a girl" applies to the asker? that's... uhm that's not something I would ever have even considered. Do you happen to write code for a living, by any chance?

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  • Long story short, strategically it is the "safer" option.

    • Life's about risks and if you never take risks don't expect to get laid ever

    • Just because you think ahead and calculate that you'd not rather take certain risks, doesn't mean you're doomed in some regard. Back in the cold war one side could have tried to fire all of the nukes on the risk that the other would die before they could respond in force. But it was safer to not take that risk. For obvious reasons.

    • I'm not talking about war I'm talking about social risks lol

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  • the virgins you meet are probably unattractive plain janes who dont even shave their underarms, if you saw a pretty hot lady who never had sex or done anything sexual with a guy and she chose to spend the rest of her life loving and pleasuring you, iam more than certain that you will rethink your choice to never date or marry a virgin girl.

    of course some men dont care for quality they just want sex and in that case virgins aren't your target demographic, they probably won't have sex with you and will wait til marriage, is it worth it? most of the time yes, but as i said those who do not care about the quality of women and just want sex are not suited for virgins, and only when they start thinking about marriage do they find that virgin girls make better wives.