Why do men look down on half naked women?

I took one sexy pic and men’s treatment towards me changed drastically. I’m usually known as the good girl but once I did that this one guy just seemed so disappointed in me and treated me different every since... I regret it
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Most Helpful Guys

  • You aren't special.

    There are millions of low class, prostitute, slut, sex worker, exhibitionists... etc. out there flashing their bodies to let millions of men use them for eye candy.

    Any normal guy will probably enjoy the view. Tons may give that girl the attention she's craving.

    They are not special though. They've bared it for the world to see all they want. Guys to get as much of an eye full as is pleasing and satisfying to them.

    The bottom line, most guys want someone special to be their girl, their long term girlfriend, the one they want to marry. Girls that do that, at least for some guys, have crossed the line into someone they'd never be serious about.

    I don't know anything about this guy. Maybe he liked you and thought you might be a girlfriend candidate. When you did whatever you did, maybe you just crossed that line into the millions of other girls who do that and he was bummed you became just like all of the other Instagram, Onlyfans, Camgirls... whatever it is... showing off their bods for every man on Earth.

    Just a wild guess. Who knows.

    • Yes he’s a childhood friend almost like family I guess I’m not important to him anymore right? There’s no redeeming myself

    • But I’m more than my body and I have a lot of other great qualities. I’m a artist, college student and much more. I’m not any less just because I had a breakdown

    • Actions have consequencies.

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  • Because they want to have sex with you. And since you are unattainable, they will criticize and hurl insults. It is like the fable, the Fox and the Grapes. . .

    A Fox one day spied a beautiful bunch of ripe grapes hanging from a vine trained along the branches of a tree. The grapes seemed ready to burst with juice, and the Fox's mouth watered as he gazed longingly at them.

    The bunch hung from a high branch, and the Fox had to jump for it. The first time he jumped he missed it by a long way. So he walked off a short distance and took a running leap at it, only to fall short once more. Again and again he tried, but in vain.

    Now he sat down and looked at the grapes in disgust.

    "What a fool I am," he said. "Here I am wearing myself out to get a bunch of sour grapes that are not worth gaping for."

    And off he walked very, very scornfully.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Because they getting more... wiser? But just dropping yourself half naked these days makes you look shallow, and no man wants a woman who is dropping a pic of her half naked. Shows you have no self respect, and who wants a girl like that.

    Hell, a woman dropped a pic of how big her ass... didn't' get good words about it.

  • Did you take the pic for him?

    • No I didn’t

    • He’s jealous of whoever you did take it for

    • It was just a profile on Facebook We don’t even talk or date.. he’s a childhood friend almost like fam

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  • Because there's plenty of modest girls around that don't do such things. They're a rarer type because it's part of the culture now to "flaunt it if you got it". Speaking for myself, I have more respect for the women out there that have the ultimate respect for themselves and don't need to (nor see the value in it) flaunt their bodies online or out in public. Has nothing to do with confidence as much as girls on here think it does. Truly confident girls don't have to wear super revealing clothing for attention or to feel good about themselves. They know their worth already.

  • If a guy knows a woman that he believes would not show herself in a "sexy" picture, he would likely be put off seeing her in a picture that shatters that image. But that could even include seeing her in a bikini if he believed that she would never show that much skin. Many bikinis are considered sexy by many people, but most people would not look down on a woman wearing a bikini. Many people go to nude beaches and wear nothing. Many people consider that wrong, but it is common and not bad in our society.
    Many women on GAG seem to be fairly modest, then admit in a post that they have done things that do not fit that image, yet they are not shunned on here. People can react strangely at times.
    As far as the guy you are referring to, it is something that he cannot accept at this time. Perhaps over time he will be more accepting of that, but maybe not. It was a big change in what he thinks of you.

  • Well in general guys a taller than we are ….

    • Well played, miss, well played

    • @Wraith_Cemetery I try my best

  • Well speaking for myself, I'd say sexually objectifying yourself goes against the past hundred and fifty years worth of work to get women on an equal standing.
    Asides that, it's just low class.

    • @deeppassionatelover Is 36dd big size?

    • I'd say

    • that's why My Mom has been exposed by him ( Money lender )

  • I guess it depends how attention seeking the photo was. A lot of people, not just men, don't like it when people are deliberately trying to draw attention to themselves, especially in sucb a low fashion. It cheapens your overall image and impression of a person.

    • Yeah he doesn’t really talk to me or when I try to have a conversation he just acts like he wants nothing to do with me but he asked my dad when I’ll be in town

  • Sexuality is not humiliating. Do whatever you like

  • Men don't want Sexually liberated women. 🤷🏻‍♂️ it's that simple really

  • You have to stoop so low to get attention as to show your body even half naked.

  • Context would matter a lot. If I just met you and the picture was explicit then I might think you were fake or just in need of attention. I get it, people need attention. If you were looking for a long term relationship and sent the picture after we got to know each other I would think you liked me and there might be something there.

  • Some guys want to see the nude, others want to keep it a surprise. You don't have to show skin to be attractive, you can keep it a mystery.

    • Shit if guys are telling you that you’re fuckable and not dateable WITH clothes on then I might as well strip

    • It might give guys the impression that stripping and showing skin might be all that you're about, so I wouldn't do it. Certain actions will attract certain guys.

  • Imagen Christmas is upp, all your presents are under the three, but all your presents are really badly wrapped in. Still as much fun?

  • I'd look down on someone for drinking alcohol, but not for sending a lewd pic (unless they are taken, or its to multiple recipients with the intent to court both).

  • Because otherwise they can't see them when they are sucking their dicks

    • Damn you got here first

  • Wait, we look down on half naked women?

  • Don't know where you got that idea. Most men I know love half naked women.

  • Not sure, but I never have, lol.

  • In what context?

  • We look down on insecure attention seekers

    • Welp that’s me for sure

    • It’s most people, men too, although it’s worse with women. Just try controlling thar behaviour. Gettn off social media is a good start

  • I don't know seems harsh

  • You have nothing to regret. If their opinions of you changed then that is on them and not you. They changed... You are still you...

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