Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Why do men look down on half naked women?
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I took one sexy pic and men’s treatment towards me changed drastically. I’m usually known as the good girl but once I did that this one guy just seemed so disappointed in me and treated me different every since... I regret it
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6 31You have nothing to regret. If their opinions of you changed then that is on them and not you. They changed... You are still you...
I like to look down on them but I also like to look up at them.
Don't regret it.
Those dudes only value for your body and nothing more. They are trying to shame you into being the way they want. Not the way you want.
Because we like the Girl Next Door type and the everyday Girl type of Girls, It's Hotter seeing the Girl Next Door type of Girl nude all of a sudden than like an Escort or Stripper Nude.
He likely just didn't expect it. Why should we?
Not all men look down on that. I for one encourage that type of behavior
I don’t like that he has you second guessing yourself. Who is he to you, and should his opinion matter that much to you?
Childhood friend almost like fam. I did send a drunk text to him that was bad so this makes it all worse.. He wants nothing to do with me but I feel like he has some grudges towards me from the past. I kind of pushed him away. But I think he definitely looks at me differently now but I don't know why... we aren’t extremely close and I did apologize My dad said he asked when I was coming to town because he wants to hang out with me and my step sister He did reach out to wish me a happy Thanksgiving and said “love you “ but when I reach out it’s short or he takes hours to respond/the next day I don't know why he’s acting like that ig keeping his distance
Sounds like he’s wanting to run the show, and its not like you’re dating or looking to date him. Sometimes we grow older with our friends and we follow a similar path. Other times we grow apart and have different lifestyles and interests. Be confident in who you are
So does this mean he liked me or what? I’m so confused
I think he liked you, had you on a pedestal, had you as his potential partner with certain standards, then you did the photo (unknown how revealing it was), but that didn’t match up to his internalised unspoken standard he had of you. What he did is not fair on you, but I do believe he did it subconsciously
I think so too but ig it was never real if it takes a pic to look down on me. I think he is definitely trying to get his lick back If someone truly loved you they would at least know that you’re acting “out of character “ But he did reach out once I cleaned up my act
Cleaned up your act? In what way?
Removed the photos, posted more positive things.
If not for his opinion, would you have removed it?
Oh nah, I did it for myself not for him. I will still do them in the future but I want it to be more body positive not for sexual views Do you think he still cares or will he never view me in that way again
I think he still cares, but be aware he also has expectations. He sounds a little christian
LOL our dads are pastors BUT he was a college athlete all his life who has and still gets female attention by the mounds! He is very attractive and popular That’s why I pushed him away because I hated how the girls were over him at church.. one tried to befriend me and act as a friend to get close to him He’s been around with females he’s not that innocent
Why do you think he cares?
Why did you say he does? Nothing is showing he does
Unless he’s your leader at church, why is he putting those expectations on you? But I would expect a female to be your leader in church. It sounds like he enjoys being chased. It also sounds hypocritical if he’s putting pressure on you to be a good girl, but he can do whatever he likes
Exactly. I’ve never chased him tho like ever. He’s just so used to girls throwing themselves at him tho. He can go through some girls.. I really feel his disappointment in me but I can’t understand why or why he even cares Why did you say he cares?
Still there?
Pm me
no I look at them because they are sexy.
Why look down?
Who looks down on them!
Well I can’t say 100% for sure but I’m thinking in your case it’s because he sees you as better than that. That you never did that sort of thing, he liked you the way you were. I can’t remember the show, but all these men would slap the stripper on her ass. She’d just go along w it cause it was her job. But the minute her friend did it she slapped him. He asked her why she did that when all these other drunk men do it but don’t get slapped. She told him because you’re better then that I expect more of you. She said she expects that from the men who are there at the strip club, not him. I hope that makes sense.
Yeah I see what you’re saying but my pics has nothing to do with him. I don’t even follow him but ik he saw them Still don’t understand why
I don’t know, I never do, it’s nice when they are not inhibited by much
Are you talking about planet GAG or the real world?
Girl just do whatever tf you want. People are always going to judge you whether you're good or bad. People have high expectations of how women should be only. You only live once so you might as well enjoy it.