Why do men only think about sex?

They don't know anything else
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  • Great question. Please pay attention to the answers.

    1. Men and women are VERY different in many ways. One significant way is that men can separate sex from love/relationships/connections, which means that men can have and enjoy sex without having to have a connection with the girl or without having any desire to be in a relationship with her. This isn't WRONG - it's just DIFFERENT from how most women work.

    2. Both men and women have dating strategies and are instinctual, because Natural Selection reinforced those instincts and killed off the others who lacked those instincts. Women's dating strategy is to find the best single man she can to reproduce with - this is why women are hypergamous. Men's dating strategy is to spread their seed - essentially to impregnate as many different women as possible, so that his children are genetically diverse (all the better to reduce birth defects and resist diseases).

    3. Many women have nothing to offer THAT MEN WANT (and that part is important!) except for sex, so for those women, the only thing that the vast majority of men (and certainly the men she would want) will want from her is sex. Lots of women have NO INTEREST in even learning what men want, much less making any effort to be what men want, and men can identify that almost immediately, and they almost instantly put her in the "only good for sex" category. Many women are well aware that they're only good for sex (because of her own choices), so they literally "advertise" themselves EXCLUSIVELY sexually - think about all of the social media thirst traps.

    4. The vast majority of people - men and women - are AVERAGE or near average. There's nothing wrong with that, but most women are HORRIFIED and OFFENDED by the idea that they might be average - most women believe they are FAR above average, but that's not only impossible by definition, but it's also delusional. The vast majority of men know exactly what their actual level is - the world is VERY harsh about teaching us, and our outcomes reflect our real level. But here again, there's a difference between men and women. For a man, his value is demonstrated by the number and quality of men he can have sex with. For a woman, her value is demonstrated by the qualify of the man she can get to COMMIT to her.

    But far too many women don't understand that - they believe that their value is measured like men's is - by the quality of the man who will bang her. She thinks that if a high-value man will bang her, it means that she's a high-value woman. FALSE. Men sleep down all the time, but it means nothing. For women, what matters is WHO WILL COMMIT to you - and tons of women sleep with high-value men (lots of them!), but none of them commit to her, and she can't figure out why. It's because he's a 9 and she's a 6, and while he's happy to bang her, he NEVER even REMOTELY considered her worthy of commitment. Often, he even tells her this outright ("I'm not looking for anything serious" or "I'm just looking for something casual"), but she still believes that she's going to change his mind and get a commitment, even though not only has it never worked for her, but it also hasn't worked for any of her friends.

    • The bottom line is that if the men YOU are pursuing or are choosing to accept dates from are only wanting you for sex, that's a very strong indication that you are going after men above your level - just like most other women do. Nearly all women, regardless of her own level, are chasing exclusively top 10% men - men all of her friends also find attractive, and men who constantly have women throwing themselves at him. If you are going after men above your level, they're not going to take you seriously, and they'll only be in it for sex. AND, if you don't have the characteristics that men want for serious relationships (which, generally, are: youth, femininity, very low body count, cooperativeness, loyalty, and family-first priorities), then even if you are otherwise on that guys level, he's still going to see you as "only good for sex." I could explain further, and give more background, but I'm going to end it here. If you want more, feel free to reply.

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  • To biological primitive instinct every like 7 seconds the thought of sex and reproduction come to our mind it's not fun for us it does suck it can inhibit specially when we're younger it's worse when we're in our teams to mid-20s but as we get older it does dwindle and drop off. Unless the guy keeps a high physical fitness all his life and it will stay up. Just keep in mind it's a biological animalistic imperative as men when we see attractive women or when we find suitable there is a several states of different thoughts and sexual emotions that run through our mind some women I look at I think I could have relationship with other ones I look at I think I could have sex with her a couple times and I want to feel occasions I will look at a woman think this is someone I can breed with.

Most Helpful Girls

  • If a guy is getting enough sex then he won't be thinking about it all the time. I'm pretty certain that only desperate guys do that.

  • That's it true if you're associating with the wrong men.

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  • If you honestly believe this, I ask you to go find a random woman and ask her to quote sports statistics.

  • I do think about sex a lot because I never get it. I know plenty of other things but yeah I get turned on easily. I do jerk off quite often.

  • In that case, you haven't met or don't interact with the right men. The right men will be able to converse on a whole host of subjects and then when it's time, be able to make your body sing with pleasure.

    And, many (most) men do think of a lot besides sex.

  • Women think about it too.

  • Everything else is for bros only. They never gonna tell you anything.

  • I think about corn more than sex...

  • Because it’s natural behavior. Main purpose of human is eat sleep and reproduce.
    That’s all. So don’t blame guys. We are all biological beings and being honey is a survival thing for humans as a whole. Sorry to disappoint but you can’t get instinct out of the cat and you can’t get sex out of guys mind. Not like we want it. Nature makes us want it

  • We don't only think about sex. You are thinking of women.

    Men think about lots of things, and we try to get women interested in those things too, but most of them aren't, so all you are left with is sex.

    Q. Wanna play video games?
    A. Nah.

    Q. Wanna build custom Gunplas?
    A. Nah

    Q. Sci-fi movie marathon?
    A. Nah

    Q. Anime series binge?
    A. Nah

    Q. Nature Documentaries!
    A. Nah

    Q. ... Wanna collab an art project?
    A. Nah

    Q. Play instruments and compose a new piece together?
    A. Nah.

    Q. ... Legos?
    A. Nah

    Q. ... Ok.. well what do you want to do?
    A. I dunno.

    Q. ... Wanna fuck?
    A. UGH, is sex all you guys think about?

    🤦🏻

    • Everyone wants to claim most men are shallow single minded sex addicts, but sorry, thats most women, most men have hobbies.

    • If you want a guy with depth, you need to also have depth.

  • i have a better question, what type of vibe are you giving the men that you have around you in your life when all they do is think about sex when they are around you?

  • I’m female and I think about sex almost everyday

  • Nope. I think about guitars more than I do sex.

  • Women aren't like that at all, right?

    Why do men only think about sex?
  • says who? 🤣

  • You can't generalize.

    I personally think about sex a lot because of my high sex drive. BUT, I won't act on it with every girl I see/know.

  • Not only, just 80% of the time especially if we aren’t getting it. It’s testosterone.

  • Maybe you should re-word the question. "Why do BOYS only think about sex?" Men don't always think about that. Right now I'm thinking about putting on my wrist device to check my BP and HR.

  • Simple. We dont. Some yeah but some women too

  • We love sex that nice warm Virgina

  • 2 heads
    Onr got brain
    Other only think about sex haha

  • You are right, you have figured men out in a nutshell.

    Just like we have figured out all women are self centred gold diggers

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