Why do men orgasm so quickly?

Most men I have known have been like, we can go for hours blah blah blah. And it always ends with. "That's never happened before" when they are done sub ten minutes. What's the rush guys?
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  • According to research, the AVERAGE length of intercourse is 7.5 minutes. That puts the "normal" range 6-9 minutes.

    I'm one of those guys who can go for a long time - my own average is about 40 minutes - but I learned pretty quickly that many girls simply can't go that long. Probably 30-40% of the women I've been with can't do much more than 20 minutes before it's too much for them, with some of them sometimes being able to go 30 minutes. Sure, the majority (roughly 2/3) can go longer, but 1/3 is still a sizeable number who can't.

    The point is: everyone has their own "normal" and these are all things that are a part of "compatibility" that you have to figure out before you get into a relationship with someone. If you're a girl who needs to be able to go longer, than you need to specifically seek men with that ability - and if you can't go longer, then you need to seek out men who don't take that long.

    These are just the kinds of things you have to discover about yourself, and then adjust your "filtering" of potential partners accordingly. You also have to balance out the fact that you're very unlikely to find everything you want in one partner, so you're likely to have to make some compromises somewhere.

  • Just another example of men letting down women in sex. Instead of letting down, they should be going down. If I get a lover off as many times as she can cum. She feels great due to the lubrication and multiple orgasms - in my experience allows subsequent
    orgasms to be much more quickly achieved and more intense.
    That way she usually comes again while fucking and has already cum at least once, often more before. In health class or whatever i's now called in high school curricula, guys should be instructed in how women get off- something useful and forget about teaching now not to get syphilis

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  • It's because due to sensitivity of a mans packer he will end up cumming and depends on how excited he really is period dont react to assholes like these dicks they just want attention

  • If you want a true answer dm me

    • Educate the public and post it here.

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    • If you're not interested in a true answer move on to the next fake answer.

  • Orgasms isn't exactly something we can regulate at will, in case that's what you believed.

  • I was in the opposite situation. It is much more unpleasant not to cum, and the girl wants the boy to ejaculate.
    Usually boys finish faster than girls because we are much more sensitive when it comes to genitals. Also, the attraction towards our partner counts, her beauty, our abstinence, skills, it matters if the boy masturbates often...

    • We are actually way less sensitive than girls we have way less nerve endings. Lots of guys just don’t try to make the girl nut first and they think that penetration alone will work which it usually doesn’t. Also guys nut fast due to a lack of self control and not knowing their point of no return

    • @Birdlegs Ejaculation cannot be controlled, I had moments with my girlfriend when I finished in 3-4 minutes and other times when I resisted for hours (true story). There is no self-control when it comes to ejaculation, the penis is controlled by the vegetative nervous system. The one responsible for the automatic actions of the body.

    • It can be controlled to a point as long as you don’t pass the point of no return then you won’t ejaculate I used to edge for literal hours and now I’m so used to it I know when to stop so I won’t bust for however long I want pretty much

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  • it depends.. Ok so for me, the first few times im with someone i dont last very long, after that, once i have gotten use to them, and im not obsessed with how hot she is, my staying power drastically increases.

  • I like the one or two times it happened in 30 seconds (out in a park, and in a changing room in a shop).
    The usual is anywhere between 8-10 minutes and 45 - but beyond 20 minutes it is a bore. Beyond 60 downright... uneventful.
    It has happened on quite a few ocassions I stop after 20 and give up on having an orgasm.
    What's the obsession with insulting men over what is entirely natural?

  • That's how nature made us. It does what it's supposed to do and it does it pretty efficiently.

    That being said, if you have like a consistent fuck buddy, tell them to look into the edging technique, where you bring yourself to the brink of orgasm then pull out. Then you guys can make out, he could finger your, eat you out, etc, whole he winds down then when he doesn't feel close to his orgasm he can put it back in.

  • I usually last an hour and a half. I don't think that is quick.

  • You know what that means right?

  • Can happen if lad is very excited need to learn to control himself

  • I learned in college the technique to last 4 hours.
    Its only a matter of doing things in the proper order. Anyone can do it.

  • The male body is designed that way.

  • cos u are so tight they can't help it lol u must be hot and give good head too lol

  • Not all of us do

    • Most do.

  • I wish I knew. I used to go and go with no issue.
    Now its this horrible stroke then stop and hope i don't cum. Then stroke and stop and hope. Then eventually she gets antsy and wiggles and I'm done.
    It sucks so bad.

  • I think the more important question is... why don't women orgasm quickly? What takes you so long?

    • I do, but why not more, what's the rush?

  • Try Stud100 off of Amazon. $10 for like 25 sessions. He will go for 30-40 minutes. It’s fun.

  • You probably have a really nice body. Some women I can last 4 others, others and I'm done in 7 minutes.