Why do men think that a big penis equates better sex and a better lover?

I'm still in awe to hear that men on here, and in real life, believe that having a big dick is the way to a woman's heart. Spoiler: it's not.

I just want to ask why is this fixation still around? Do you understand that a) 85% of women can't cum from penetrative sex b) big penises hurt a fuck tonne c) being a good lover has to do with technique not your size
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Most Helpful Guys

  • You are exactly right. I am that way and it actually kinda sucks. I am 10 and a half inches. I've always been told by my friends how lucky I am because all the females that know us always wants to talk to me. After awhile you come to realize almost all of them are using you. It hasn't made me happy cause I'm not. The way I look at it now adays I don't even give a shit like I used to. I used to like the girls giving me the attention and them always talking about big dicks. The truth is I've distanced myself from everyone of those people cause I'm not happy I'm depressed. I moved far away from where I lived and I have a new big group of friends now and none of them know and I never slip up and sleep with one of the girls from our crew so nobody knows and you know what I am starting to be happy again. This time when I meet a great woman she will like me for me and that's awesome. So yeah your right. It's caused me nothing but problems and depression.

  • Guys use this excuse of size to overcompensate for their lack of experience and skill.

    • truuuuu.

    • Now don't get me wrong: some bigger guys do know what they're doing, but a majority don't. Therefore, they have the Napoleon Complex.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Very well said and so true! I would much have sex with a guy with an averaged size penis (5-6 inches) than a massive one that hurts.

  • Speak for yourself sweetheart. I don't want any small dick in any part of my body. Waste of time.

    • Different strokes for different folks. Disclaimer: I'm in the big side.

    • Agreed

    • eh, penetration is fun, but I just don't really have that much fun as I do with other stuff.

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  • I’m in the 15%. But a guy doesn’t have to necessarily have a giant penis for good sex.

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  • Its still, around because the media and such makes it clear for guys. You need to have a big penis to have a woman's heart. You maybe aks why does the media want to make it clear. Well its because of money. so guys can buy all kinds of things to improve their penisses.

  • Porn videos are, in part, to blame for this mentality. There are not that many porn videos with guys having an average size cock. Most have above average and some of these guys look like they came from a horse barn. Some women like to hold a monster sausage in their hands and try to see if they can suck much of it. Overall, the big dick syndrome is pretty much all between the male's ears.

  • Because they watch too much porn and usually women always talk about how they want the big one and when get it they get scared or can’t handle it. FACTS!

    I’m against men doing anything to alter their or is just to satisfy her needs. It may have erectile dysfunction consequences and when that happens to him..:it’s game over!

  • I would say porn is a big contributor to this, still, lack of understanding of how a woman's attraction and sexual excitement works. Also, a lot of women talk about desiring "BIG COCKS". Like there are some size queens out there. So guys really feel very confused by the differing of opinions by the female crowd on this subject.

  • c) it's all about how you use it

    • exactly