Why do men think that a big penis equates better sex and a better lover?

[lilaqua]

I'm still in awe to hear that men on here, and in real life, believe that having a big dick is the way to a woman's heart. Spoiler: it's not.

I just want to ask why is this fixation still around? Do you understand that a) 85% of women can't cum from penetrative sex b) big penises hurt a fuck tonne c) being a good lover has to do with technique not your size

[kennyb042566]

You are exactly right. I am that way and it actually kinda sucks. I am 10 and a half inches. I've always been told by my friends how lucky I am because all the females that know us always wants to talk to me. After awhile you come to realize almost all of them are using you. It hasn't made me happy cause I'm not. The way I look at it now adays I don't even give a shit like I used to. I used to like the girls giving me the attention and them always talking about big dicks. The truth is I've distanced myself from everyone of those people cause I'm not happy I'm depressed. I moved far away from where I lived and I have a new big group of friends now and none of them know and I never slip up and sleep with one of the girls from our crew so nobody knows and you know what I am starting to be happy again. This time when I meet a great woman she will like me for me and that's awesome. So yeah your right. It's caused me nothing but problems and depression.

[KingOfEverything14]

Guys use this excuse of size to overcompensate for their lack of experience and skill.

[lilaqua]

truuuuu.

[KingOfEverything14]

Now don't get me wrong: some bigger guys do know what they're doing, but a majority don't. Therefore, they have the Napoleon Complex.

[Paige90]

Very well said and so true! I would much have sex with a guy with an averaged size penis (5-6 inches) than a massive one that hurts.

[BroKenWinggS]

Speak for yourself sweetheart. I don't want any small dick in any part of my body. Waste of time.

[es20490446e]

Different strokes for different folks. Disclaimer: I'm in the big side.

[BroKenWinggS]

Agreed

[lilaqua]

eh, penetration is fun, but I just don't really have that much fun as I do with other stuff.

[BroKenWinggS]

What do you mean sweetie by other stuff?

[lilaqua]

like fingering, oral, being on top.

[es20490446e]

Then you simply aren't emotionally stroked enough. I have had sex where the girl had orgasms just because of my jokes.

[lilaqua]

@es20490446e wut, are we making up alternative facts now?

[es20490446e]

You will never know.

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[lilaqua]

@es20490446e why is this relevant?>?

[es20490446e]

It could explain the phenomenon.

[lilaqua]

@es20490446e what phenomenon?

[es20490446e]

The phenomenon of orgasm without physical contact.

[lilaqua]

@es20490446e ok, but why is your "attractablity" rating relevant

[es20490446e]

Damm, I have to explain everything :P

[lilaqua]

@es20490446e yeah you're being awfully vague

[BroKenWinggS]

You 2 get a room already!

[es20490446e]

Knock the door.

[lilaqua]

@es20490446e ew oldie

[Rissyanne]

I’m in the 15%. But a guy doesn’t have to necessarily have a giant penis for good sex.

[Misterpositive]

Its still, around because the media and such makes it clear for guys. You need to have a big penis to have a woman's heart. You maybe aks why does the media want to make it clear. Well its because of money. so guys can buy all kinds of things to improve their penisses.

[AlphaMale1]

Porn videos are, in part, to blame for this mentality. There are not that many porn videos with guys having an average size cock. Most have above average and some of these guys look like they came from a horse barn. Some women like to hold a monster sausage in their hands and try to see if they can suck much of it. Overall, the big dick syndrome is pretty much all between the male's ears.

[Olodumare]

Because they watch too much porn and usually women always talk about how they want the big one and when get it they get scared or can’t handle it. FACTS!

I’m against men doing anything to alter their or is just to satisfy her needs. It may have erectile dysfunction consequences and when that happens to him..:it’s game over!

[MrMysteryMan]

I would say porn is a big contributor to this, still, lack of understanding of how a woman's attraction and sexual excitement works. Also, a lot of women talk about desiring "BIG COCKS". Like there are some size queens out there. So guys really feel very confused by the differing of opinions by the female crowd on this subject.

[Goodwifie]

c) it's all about how you use it

[lilaqua]

exactly

[PoliceLivesMatter]

I mean, if you understand evolutionary biology, the average size has been the same for a long long time... standard deviations smaller and larger are always good to exist, and then the extreme outliers. I believe this size is the best for procreation, sperm facilitation, pleasure, spontaneity, and comfort more so than any other size. You also can’t compare what any two girls feel because vaginas are also different...

[PoliceLivesMatter]

NATURAL SELECTION.

[lilaqua]

I agree with you that outliers exist, but generally the average is the best. At least in my opinion. There is also no correlation between penis size and reproductive success, so I don't know what you're getting at.

[PoliceLivesMatter]

Lmfao that’s what I was saying, that average is best.

[lilaqua]

Alrighty

[ibotje]

Just having a big dick will (almost) never get you a lover.

But I'm sure a big penis will always win over a micropenis.

Unless the girl and the guy are into humiliating him because he's small.(yes that is a real thing)

[dannymvk]

Size doesn't matter. stamina matters.

Irrespective of size, if a man can hold till the girl have orgasm then size doesn't matter.

Also I read somewhere that girls have sence of touch only till two or 3 inches deep. So no point in having 7inchs dick.

Guys should talk and do what ever girl wants and pleasure her.

[lilaqua]

stamina matters but having an orgasm through penetration is really damn difficult for most. Plus I had a boyfriend that lasted 2 hr +, that wasn't fun.

[dannymvk]

I understand. May be he is just looking for his pleasure and orgasm and he forgot what you like and wanted. Some time even if it is a quick one, you will enjoy if he does in a way you feel comfortable

[lilaqua]

no he was really concerned about it actually

[dannymvk]

Do you enjoy sex with him? Then even if it is 2+ hrs just enjoy the time

[lilaqua]

not really. He was so into pleasuring me that It was kind of uncomfortable. He wasn't really a sexual person so if felt very one sided.

[dannymvk]

Just tell him what exactly you want and to what extend and not to force for more.

[lilaqua]

No I don't think you get it. the spark wasn't there, there was no intimacy or bond. No matter what he did it wouldn't change that

[dannymvk]

Hmmm

[madgoat]

Male mythology and very common.
It's only later they learn it's mostly how you use it.
Women have their own mythology.

[Intraluminal]

Back before it became politically incorrect, women were the same way about their breast size. It's an easy way to measure your masculinity. Also, there is a sizable minority of women who DO like big penises.

[Alan180188]

same as "tight vagina" theory, some enjoy and others feel pain !
I'm "well endowed" let's say, out of 10, 7 would complain in the second time, some even would be avoiding and not enjoying in a long term relationship plus you have to forget about some positions and spontaneous quikies, while 2 would enjoy and the 1 that's left would love it and go all the way to try the most crazy things with it and all kinky stuff ! :D :D
so excluding the first time men with big penises have 3/10 chance of having an enjoyable sexlife !

[jacquesvol]

He's obviously a good electrician, isn't he?

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[TheStaleMarshmellow]

Seeing is believing and porn offers a lot of seeing.

Girls can be bitches and intentionally emasculate a guy by insulting there dick.

[lilaqua]

yeah girls can be assholes that is true

[thinkaloudtolive]

Men are obsessed with a penis like a woman is with her looks, but probably X10. Men believe a large part of their worth and even identity rests solely on their penis. Society tells us that a bigger penis = a happier woman. Therefore, it can become our definition of manliness and desire.

[es20490446e]

I simply have a sexy dick. Period.

[lilaqua]

I respect that

[IneffectiveMilkshake]

Because men are idiots

[Onix764]

No. Big dicks aren't a way to a woman's heart. The reason we want big dicks is so when everybody is in their slutty phase, a big dick is what everyone wants. Who gives a shit about "love" when all they want is to be sleeping around? Please tell me if that makes sense. 😂

[thecolorgrey]

Girth and experience. That's what matters

[Dwill2982]

Its all in how you use your dick. Not how big it is. I mean mine is 9 1/2 inches and thick as hell. I feel bad cause it hurts some women

[Juxtapose]

You can thank idiots who base their views of sex off unrealistic porn for that one. To a lot of men, their penis size is literally a measurement of their worth LOL!

It'd be amusing if it wasn't so pathetic.

[Lukej044]

What happens if you are big and have technique?

[lilaqua]

I guess it's no better than average and good technique

[BroKenWinggS]

You're a winner @lukej044

[lilaqua]

@BroKenWinggS hahahahahahahahaha

[BroKenWinggS]

@lilaqua You know I'm telling the truth girl.. lol

[X9MikeHoncho]

Because they have no idea how to dance in the first place. Really. If the did, they would know it's all in the hips, not the size of it's tip

[Decentguy]

Those men just dont have proper knowledge of sex

[pleasure69]

How u use it that matters

[StickStickity13]

A guy with a big penis won't necessarily be the best at sex, but if he knows how to use it then he will always be better than an average guy

[Shan021]

Lol... Its nt like every thinks lik dat... Its about how u use ur thing... There is more than just a dick... M 6"inch... N i knw i hv been way good so far

[jakeofalltrades]

because that is what a lot of women tell them

[TotallyAlmost]

I have a big dick, and I agree with what you say to a point. I can say from experience, that if you have right technique and a woman who can accommodate it, you will rock her world like never before with a big dick. She will not want to go back.

[CT_CD]

Because it does. Most women love big penises

[GrayWhi2]

Is that so?
What about a guy who has a big d and also has great technique.

[AjGhost]

Thanks for clearing it out in the first place but most women prefer big ones

[masterkamasutra]

because girls bark for big dicks.

[thomasans2]

Agree It is nice have you girl express her approval of the tool you were issued. Learn what women want and you won't have to keep comparing cocks.

[SilverTounge88]

I was always told by my father, if a woman cums first she will come back! Well endowed or not, the attention should be on your anatomy head to toe. I personally love taking the time to find each and every combination to Crack the safe wide open. #eating pussy should be a religion

[weaverman]

Well said, im older its only since porn became so easy to access

[weaverman]

That it has become an issue

[alltheway66]

I don't thank that

[Its_El_Chubbs]

mens what of thinking like that = to more pleasure and fun. But we obviously already know that's not true.

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[jordy1]

Treu what you say it doesbt matter the size its from what coms out of the hart

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[Anonymous]

Because girls say it does

[Anonymous]

Because when women are upset for whatever reason usually after a break up, the #1 thing most of you say is "he had a small dick" in an effort to make yourselves feel better. And most guys don't realize that often what women say is just emotional based. Rarely rational.

[Anonymous]

So why do so many white women fuck black guys? They want the big dick.

[lilaqua]

Considering that black me actually don't have bigger dicks that's kind of untrue

[Opinion Owner]

Yes but white women think they do so they sleep with them for that. Women wouldn’t date a guy if he wasn’t good looking but men are somehow the shallow ones.

[lilaqua]

Well black men can be incredibly attractive as can be white men. I think men and women are equally shallow, the only difference is with men its a predictable shallowness, and with women it's more unpredictable.

[Opinion Owner]

No, White women now almost exclusively date black men because of penis size. Women are shallow sluts.

[lilaqua]

I think you're seriously generalising with that one, considering that despite everything, most couples are same-race.

[lilaqua]

Oh and men are less shallow then women, hahahahaha no.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes. Women are attracted to guys with money. That’s all women care about. Oh and big dicks. That’s why white girls spend their teens and 20’s fucking black guys for the big dicks, then settle for a white guy for the money in their 30’s.

[lilaqua]

And men don't give a shit about personality and fuck/settle down with the hottest, biggest assed, biggest titted woman they can. Sweetheart it goes both ways.

[Opinion Owner]

At least it’s the girl not the money.

[lilaqua]

not really, it's placing the girl as an object, she is ultimately replaceable. Both are incredibly horrible ways to think about someone, and I haven't actually witnessed this behaviour in my own life for the most part.

[Opinion Owner]

Your a woman so don’t lie. You want money. Big dicks and fun. How many guys have you slept with can I ask?

[lilaqua]

You"RE a women? yes, thank you for establishing that I couldn't really care less about money. I ideally would like someone who was also university educated and middle class because of a values and similarities between us, but that is not the same thing as wealth, as a college aged person I expect my partner and I to be dead-shit poor for a couple of years. I'd like to be financially secure before I start a family but I would want that to be at least half of my own wealth contributing towards a house and children. Honestly I would be turned off by an uber-wealthy man or even a moderately wealthy man, it's just not my cup of tea. Big dicks hurt, 6' and above are really too much. Fun? everyone likes fun, I don't understand what you mean exactly. If you're asking what I find attractive then it's similar to men, a visually appealing bloke that has a complementary personality. I've also only slept with 1 person, whilst in a relationship with them.

[danieljames1623]

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[Anonymous]

Some women don't care, some do.

There was a woman on here yesterday asking how to cope with her new bfs penis, as it's only 6"

Most women don't orgasm without clitoral stimulation. Most women can orgasm during sex with clit stimulation added, and most, not all, prefer that to orgasming other ways.

I asked a big survey on this a long time ago, and basically, half of women didn't care much about size, and half of women preferred above average. I actually expected different results (I expected a few size queens, then lots who were okay with anything not tiny). But it wasn't like that. Half of women cared, half didn't, that's how i'd put it.

[Anonymous]

So is it ok to have a 4.5 inches dick?

[Davidka]

No.. no it’s not. Go get yourself checked.

[Anonymous]

Because big is better than small

[Anonymous]

I don't care about that.. I love to go with natural and have good sex