Why do men want to have sex?

All relationships failed because I didn't want to have sex with any of them.
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  • Why don't some women? There's nothing more enjoyable and intimate in the world, that's why. Especially if you're going to be in a relationship.

    But, how long were your relationships? My guess is maybe that's all these guys wanted, in which case you're better off anyway. But you were vague in the details. Could be that was all they wanted. Could be because you weren't ready, maybe they thought you never would be? Maybe you have different believes/views on sex (like waiting for marriage?). Could be any of those. Have you just not met the guy you want to have sex with? Or do you just have a really low sex drive and are simply not interested? This is why it's also important to find a guy that you're sexually compatible with that way. But it's hard these days period. And a lot of guys your age aren't looking to settle down yet. Give it time and keep searching.

Most Helpful Guy

  • For most people, having sex is very enjoyable and satisfying and they want to have sex as a regular part of a relationship. If you tell guys that you are saving yourself for marriage, most will not want to wait to see what may develop but some guys will respect your commitment and wait. If you don't want to have sex because it is not enjoyable to you, that raises another set of issues. Why do you not want sex?

Most Helpful Girl

  • Whatt? If they didn't i would hate them honestly lol
    They do coz this is something natural honey

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  • This is the nature of a man. His genitals are out and his psyche is out, his testicles produce millions of sperm every day and make him constantly want. Sex is like food for a man. How many times a day do you eat?) That's how many times a man wants, and there are very hungry men. We live in a world whose laws must be known and accepted. There's no other way

  • Short answer: sex is the actual bomb-diggity.

    Long answer: Masculinity is (at least in my society) heavily predicated on being physically attractive and hyper sexual, getting what you want, being something of irresistible. If that's who you want to appear as, not getting it means not appearing that way, damaging ego

  • Because they men, the real question is why didn't wanted to have sex with any of them?

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  • Nope they failed because you failed to understand them and be open about your limits and boundaries before going into them.

    It's like you walking into restaurants and getting thrown out. All because you were just there to sit and drink free water ; not to order anything. You cannot complain.

  • Because sex is fun and the most important part of a relationship. Sex defines a relationship otherwise it is a joke.

  • I don't understand the question.

  • If you think about it, sex is kind of the one thing that defines your romantic relationships from your other male relationships. It (should) feels good, it's a statement of intimacy and trust. The real question I have is why you don't want to have sex with your boyfriends?

  • You think you might be bisexual or a closet lesbian

  • Here's your awnser, you should have sex in a relationship, otherwise the chances are are slim the relationship will last.

    The reason why men want sex, is not just to release energy, but also to connect wit a woman. Men want sex to connect physically, emotionally and spiritually with a woman and show her how much he loves and adores you. Of course, sex isn't the only way to connect with a woman, but it is important.

  • Because especially at your age, a guy’s sex drive is pretty close to out of control. You just need to find someone waiting for marriage. Not many but they do exist.

  • Sex is a natural human need. A relationship is only a friendship without sex.

  • Its not a relationship if he’s just there for sex... you did the right thing. A good man has no issue keepin it in his pants for a respectable woman who can do the same

  • Reproduction is a basic need on the same level as sleeping or eating so no wonder it gets to the head of many people (not just men).

  • There's bugger all else to do around here.

  • What's the reasoning for not "putting out"?

  • Same reason why women want to have sex which is why dick size matters to them.

  • Sex is a part of a relationship. It help to strengthen the bonds between the two people. And as you can see without that strengthening the relationship falls apart. It is okay if you don't want to have sex. Maybe just date people and not look for a relationship.

  • It's a biological need. Are you asexual?

  • Most are just weak.

  • If you dont want sex why do you into a relation selena?

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