Why do men want to sleep with women when they know the woman has a high body count?

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ManOnFire · Accepted Answer

Although a lot of guys are complaining about women with a high body count, the truth is just about all men will still have sex with a woman who does if she asked him. They will not admit this, but it is the truth. Though I personally am very different from most men and not into those kinds of women.

Also deep down, many men find it sexy if a woman has done sexual things in secret with lots of men, another truth that I think most men are not really honest about with themselves. This is true because if a guy knows a woman in his orbit (work, school, neighborhood, etc.) is easy and has sex with lots of dudes, sucks their dick in the electrical room, lets them do anal sex with her after work, etc. he will be turned on by that and try to get some from her too. I have known women like this and also known guys who are like what I'm saying.

But the catch is that a man won't want a relationship with a woman who has a high body count, even though he will still accept casual sex from one. Is this right or fair? Probably not. I wouldn't want a relationship with a woman who has a high body count from hookups/casual sex either, but if she's had sex in several serious relationships in her life, I'm not going to judge or reject her. I would just hope she gets it right this time.

RavVid · Accepted Answer

We actually quite like sluts who give out sex easily. What's not to like? They have breasts and a vagina. We are quite happy to reach down too. A 7 or 8 guy is happy to give a 5 or 6 girl a shot of semen. Sure we'd like a genuine 9 or 10 girl but if she is a girl by birth... most of our requirements are met.

We won't have any qualms with a friends with benefits scheme either. We aren't going to be silly enough to think we are the only friend with benefits. The upside is it eliminates pressure on us, so it is all good.

Where our standards kick in is who we might invite to a family dinner.

Killsey · Accepted Answer

I think that's exactly the reason why. She has a high body count. She's easy to get in bed. And maybe it indicates they both like no strings attached.

Samantha36 · Accepted Answer

Either they just want to empty their sack or they're nice, kind, non judgmental men that see beyond your body.

ohsheeT · Answer

This is all new to me I never knew that as a matter of fact I've never asked a girl what her body count is nor would I ever ask her because first of all that makes no difference to me if I'm going to sleep with a girl or not that's not what I look for in a girl I look from the inside out I wouldn't even think about asking her about her body count

madhatters4 · Answer

because many don't care about body counts they just care about having sex in that moment

summiter · Answer

I don't care how many guys she has screwed. If I was single it would not bother me at all

inhua · Answer

do they actually know? because most men don't actually know a woman's body count so they try anyway and ask questions later

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

You like what you like & sometimes experience is a great thing.

sheenagwapa · Answer

Mary Magdalene was a prostitute but He is the closest womab to Jesud apart from hid mother of course. a woman's value isn't about her sexual past

ImalwaysrightOK · Answer

A woman like that has value for sex only. Guys have lower standards for sex only, but higher ones for commitment. Many women believe they can get commitment from a guy by having sex with him.

Mybeachlife8888 · Answer

Body count isn’t a turn off for a man. What is a turn off is when a woman doesn’t respect herself or if she’s super stuck up.

Kabluie · Answer

Body count does not matter, that's an incel thing. All that matters is they are safe and STI free.

Andres77 · Answer

Eventually, even slutty girls mature and/or get therapy.

Mansearching · Answer

Experience factor. High body count puts ideas that's she's good at it. Other than that I don't know except she maybe an easy lay.

Alex-Snow · Answer

I would not care about their pasts. It would be fun to get baked with someone new and share a ton of orgasms. I'd make sure to use a condom everytime however