Why do men want to try or do anal so much?

My boyfriend keeps talking about us having anal. I haven't gave it much thought but it's like he really want to do that position? What is so interesting about anal for guys?
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  • He probably wants what is off limits and new. I have dated women that really enjoyed it and wanted it, but have also been with women that wanted nothing to do with it. It is incredibly sexy when a girl is into it and wildly awkward and not fun if she is not into it.

  • Its tighter so it feels better. With most girls vaginal sex is like a hotdog down a hallway. Things get so slippery that the feeling is almost entirely lost for a guy during vaginal sex, especially with a condom. So for a guy anal sex just feels better.

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  • Its kind of off limits. Taboo, they want want they haven't been able to get. He'd also like that you are down for doing something off limits just for him. I do it sometimes. Gets me going for the same reasons it does him.

  • I think it appeals to them because it's like sort of a taboo and that forbidden hole kinda makes them want it more lol

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  • Well, with some women sometimes the vagina size is too big for the penis so anal is much more right and feels a lot better

  • they often regret it :)

    • I haven't, they usually start requesting it once we've done it.

  • Influence from PORN.

    Or they are Small/thin.

    Or they have gotten bored with regular sex... which is BS.

    I think #1 & #2 are the majority.

    • This I can agree with.

    • @Dustmop I do not agree. I do not watch porn, and think most of it is all staged and pathetic. My guy is adequately endowed. We have normal sex every day, but twice or so every week it becomes anal. I just love it, as it is regarded as forbidden territory.

    • @juicyjessie It's the guys that ALWAYS that look for girls that will do anal that we are talkign about. Obviously guys in long tern relationships are wanting to Explore... that is why I only said (MOST) and not all. If aguy want to do anal with in the 1st month or so... He falls into my post. Also if a guy is THICK girls won't "normally" be up for anal. I'm 40yrs old and I NEVER had a Girl say "OK" to anal... not even SIZE-QUEENS I knew, that had dildo's 12+" long.

  • Anal is fun, but I'd much rather have you suck me off and let me cum in your mouth

  • Nah, if I had a girlfriend, I wouldn't unless of course she wanted to, other than that I wouldn't want to harm my girl, as I think anal is painful.

  • I'm not one of these men.

  • I don't know, I tried it with a girl, and it wasn't so nice, much prefer pussy.

  • I have never really understood it myself - I tried it, wasn't my thing. but horses for courses, some like it some don't

  • If done correctly, it's a fun and naughty experience. If a girl likes anal or is open to trying it, it signals she is more open and comfortable with her sexuality.

  • Like the feeling better. There's also a Taboo about it.

  • Taboo and because they see it a lot in porn. It really has nothing to do with tightness since the vagina is tight, it's all about the taboo nature that draws them to anal sex.

  • Suggest get a toy and you both try it be fair , see what happens

  • I don't, poop comes out of there, if a girl I was with wanted to try it I guess i'd give it a go.. not very enthusiastically though

  • We dont

  • extra new hold for fun.

  • It's different. That's it

  • Ask him if u can do it to him

  • For hard feel

  • 1. It is taboo.

    2. It feels great for us.

    3. If a girl is willing to do this with a guy, it demonstrates her level of trust in him.

    by the way, I have had a few girlfriends who said that they had orgasms from anal sex.