Why do men want us to date below average men a chance?

But they won't date ugly girls. It doesn't seem fair.

I'm not attracted to below average. Sorry.

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  • It depends on what you consider "average/ below average." A vast majority of women, including yourself, are average. You're pretty with make up, and not morbidly obese- i. e. attractive enough. You may not have anything special about you, but there's no real need- you're average, but an average girl gets FAR more attention than an average guy.

    According to dating app research, a vast majority of women rate 80% of men below average. If you're any good at math you'll know that average is the 50th percentile man, 50% below him (i. e. average), 50% above. So, women's perspective of what is "below average" is skewed.

    Women also have a tendency to inflate their own value, because even very attractive guys will sleep with them- and their girlfriends will continually gas them up (simply compare the comments on guys photos, to girls photos)- also see the following of an average looking girl compared to an average looking guy. I follow several fitness accounts- the guys usually have a few thousand at best, the girls 10,000+ without even trying, or anything special besides the typical butt pose (which is enhanced via leggings).

    So, I think what men want is not to be treated as below average simply because they're not in the upper quartile of guys. Especially when the girls rating them as such are no better.

    • All i read is bull. Try being a woman on a dating app.

    • "Let them eat cake..." I hope you know where this quote is from, and understand the applicability to the nonsense you just spouted. What? You mean that on dating apps a ton of guys are actively pursuing you, mostly for sex? Yea, sounds awful... (eye roll). The closest similarity I have is going on a FilipinoCupid. com, where my inbox was absolutely flooded with hundreds of girls, all of which showed incredible interest in me, and I had to try to decipher who was actually interested in getting to know me- and who just wanted my money (similar to a girl trying to figure out who wants a relationship, and who just wants sex). So, I can definitely empathize with a girls position, but something tells me you have no idea what it's like being an average guy. Check youtube for any girls who have presented themselves as guys and see the shock they experience. You literally have no clue.

    • Didn't read all that.

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Most Helpful Guy

  • It comes down to preferences. Most of these men won’t put effort into themselves but want supermodel women…. It’s a double standard.


    You shouldn’t have to date anyone. If you’re not attracted you’re not attracted for some odd reasons one people feel entitled to date another person.


    It’s your discretion who you say yes to or no to. The same as if you ask a guy out there is a chance of rejection.


    There is some women who date worse looking men. But they probably have some good quality and makes looks don’t matter as much to her.


    Like sometimes a guy who has a lot of options might go for a woman whose less looking. Maybe she’s more comapstibke or has something inside he likes.


    Regardless. You’re allowed to date who ever you want.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Men are so quick to suggest the flaws of women, but totally ignore their own issues. Meanwhile, they remain single and so incredibly whiny.

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  • Date whomever you want.

    • Every one should

  • Both men and women do this.

  • The dating scene is a bunch of 5s chasing 7s who want 10s.

    What's so great about you that you're getting that ten?

    • I take care of myself. So yes I want 10s.

    • That's pretty basic.

    • Don't argue. A person who takes care of themselves is higher value. Wash up, groom then you'll get a girl

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  • Well there's a " nice guys " brotherhood... If nice girls were united and vocal enough they might be heard lol...

  • If you don't want me I certainly don't want you so this doesn't apply to me 🤷‍♂️

  • First off men don't care who you date. You do you

    Secondly looks are subjective. The idea of someone being average looking doesn't even make sense

  • The same reason you only want to date guys above average and wish the guys to date ugly women so you can feel superior

    • No, i never said that. I knew the ugly cry baby men would flood in.

  • Below average look wise or size wise?