Why do most female’s say they want a guy with a big cock , but then she can’t handle it?

[Finchie40]

I can honestly say I am blessed with a nice size member , i don’t consider myself porn size but I I know I am above average , I never had any complaints , but I have had complaints that it hurts when I stick it all the way in , , so why do girl’s always say they want a guy with a nice size cock and then when she gets it , she can’t handle it without it hurting her? Why do girls feel the need for a bigger penis when she clearly can’t handle it?

[Anonymous]

Remember that every person's preferences and experiences are different when it comes to sexual pleasure and satisfaction. While some women may express a preference for a larger penis, it doesn't necessarily mean that they are physically or emotionally capable of handling one. It's also possible that some women may feel societal pressure to express a preference for a larger penis, even if it doesn't align with their personal preferences or experiences.

When it comes to sexual pleasure, size is not the only factor that matters. Other factors such as technique, communication, and emotional connection can have just as much, if not more, of an impact on sexual satisfaction.

It's also important to prioritize mutual pleasure and communication in sexual relationships. If a woman is experiencing pain or discomfort during sex, it's important for her to communicate that with her partner so that they can work together to find a solution that works for both of them. It's not fair or healthy to prioritize one partner's pleasure over the other's comfort or well-being.

[PositiveFlight]

Most girls I’ve met including the ones on here really aren’t that fixated on size. That’s more of a guy thing. I’ve been told I’m about 7 inches but honestly I’d be more than happy with 5-6 inches. And I think most women would be happy with a 5 too. Women are more concerned about a man actually treating them right and respecting them. They want a guy who will commit to them. No matter the size of a man, he would do best to focus more on caring about their pleasure and taking his time to do it right so she can climax. The size, plus or minus really becomes irrelevant when a guy cares about a woman enough to not hurt her but rather cause her pleasure.

[DizzyDesii]

I've been with big and small. The big was too much, the small was not enough. So yes i prefer the guy be 6 or 7 inches. I still dont think i can take a full 7 tbh but its just so pretty to look at. The small was at least good for giving head to because i didn't gag

[Finchie40]

I am 7 and every girl I been with couldn’t handle it , so I just SMH when I hear girl’s saying they want a guy that is 9 inches or more , I laugh and tell them they wouldn’t be able to handle it , you are talking out your ass lol

[DizzyDesii]

Well i was with a 8.3-9.1 incher depending on how turned on he was and i could never take either. So thats why i said 6 or 7. I want to say 5-7 but 5 isn't all that interesting to look at while jerkin the dude

[DizzyDesii]

I like to see a dick swang especially if dudes a show-er

[nik0102]

What would be your reaction with a dick lower than 5? Something like 4.7?

[DizzyDesii]

@nik0102 been with that. Not tryna go back

[nik0102]

So it was too small?

[DizzyDesii]

@nik0102 good for oral lmao but yea

[nik0102]

So you wouldn't feel much by 4.7 length and 4.3 girth?

[nik0102]

asking for a friend xx

[DizzyDesii]

@nik0102 lmao a friend 😂 if i love the guy enough, i’d suck it up. Im not gonna turn anyone down because of their size. But i just know i personally prefer longer after having been with that

[nik0102]

I see, thanks for the answer

[nik0102]

2 of the girls I dated preferred bigger as well and they couldn't feel me at all

[DizzyDesii]

@nik0102 i can feel the guy as long as im not in a doggy position. Im gonna give you some tips

[rachel776]

it is fun to look at and touch and suck on and play with but i never say i want that or go looking for it so if a guy shows up and has a super big cock it's not my fault if it doesn't fit

[Finchie40]

What if he makes it fit 😋

[msmissydc]

I dont think a lot of girls actually say that. But If you dont have a super big thing than I guess its more a problem of wetness instead of size.

[Finchie40]

A lot of girl’s say it , whether they are showing off with their friends or they are looking to get laid , they will make comments that they only want to be with a guy that has a big one like 9 inches or more and I just laugh and SMH , Now I can understand a girl when she says she just wants a guy that is average she is being more logical , and I understand a guy with 1 or 2 inches isn’t going to do anything for her but when a girl walks around saying she wants 9 or more I just shake my head and say good luck with that girl you watch to much porn lol Girl’s don’t realize the effect it does to men when she holds size over his head , it kills most guys Ego’s making him feel like. No girl would want him and it’s pretty sad if you think about it , I know guy’s can be assholes as well when it comes to a girl’s breast size or if he says her vagina is the size of the Grand Canyon so I am just implying that people should be more logical instead of exaggerating , but this is the world we live in

[razelove]

Just buy some amyl nitrate poppers it'll take the edge off if you hit her cervix, for the night at least. That or get with women who have had kids already. After they've pushed out a bowling pin with shoulders, especially if it was without anesthesia, they can take the D.

You can just google how to make amyl nitrate, it's extremely easy to make. Ahh, how I miss and hate those days of raves lol.

[Msputiton]

What size do you consider big. I mean if you got a small one what you consider big probably ain't big

[Finchie40]

I am just saying Girl’s shouldn’t expect and set their minds thinking they need a huge cock to get off , they should say Average , is more logical , I understand if the guy is below average then I can see that being a factor but it seems lately based off my experiences Girls’s will ask me what size I am , and I just say you won’t complain , and then I will ask what size are up expecting and she will say 9 or more and I just laugh and say ok well I am a 7 , so we end up in bed and she can’t handle my 7 and I just SMH and think you girl’s need to drop your number size down cuz you clearly talking out your ass lol

[Msputiton]

People can set their minds to whatever preference they want. You act like you ain't got a preference. You just don't like that you don't fit their preferences. We ain't got to control everything someone likes

[Finchie40]

It’s fine to have preferences that are logical is all I am saying , When a girl tells me she can handle 9 but then I give her 7 and she can’t handle my 7 she is talking out her ass

[Msputiton]

Ok. So if you obviously think she is illogical why even have a second thought about her preferences

[elizamichale1]

Well i can handle big boys easily

[AsaKyo]

Good thing I'm not one of the girls who says this

[Anonymous]

Who tf said i can’t

[Finchie40]

So you think you can , you think you can Lol

[Opinion Owner]

Don’t underestimate my ability to take a big fooking cock like a champ

[Finchie40]

What size are you saying you can take

[Opinion Owner]

Never been with a guy below 6 inch so that’s that

[Finchie40]

Ok that’s reasonable , but what’s the highest you think you can handle

[Opinion Owner]

I’d try a 9, but i know it’s not your size but please let me know babe

[Finchie40]

I am a 7 and most girls that said they could handle a 9 were lying through their asses because they couldn’t handle my 7

[Opinion Owner]

Nah they probably has low cervix that’s why they can’t handle a 9 Ngl that would hurt for them but it’s the good kind of hurt

[nik0102]

Was it a coincidence or by choice you haven't had lower than 6?

[Opinion Owner]

Coincidence